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clingy friend
I met this girl this year in school, and we became really good friends. We have alot in common and have so much fun together. The thing is, she has some bad qualities. She's very clingy and wants to hang out with me every weekend, all weekend. I have other friends that I haven't hung out with in months because I'm afraid she'll get offended, which she does very easily. Whenever I try to make plans with other friends, without her, she'll invite herself and say it's wrong I'm trying to leave her all alone. What am I supposed to say to her without sounding rude and making her feel offended?
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Hmmm... That's pretty hard. Although there are probably lots of factors involved which I am unaware of, you should sit down with her one day and tell her your feelings about her. She might be the a great girlfriend if you can overcome this silly problem. If she is willing to back off just a little and give you more breathing space, life is great. If not, it proves to you that she has a little more maturing to do on her part and she obviously does not like you enought to adjust her lifestyle a little for you. Think about it. Relationships are never one-sided.
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Tell her the truth. That is what my friend did to me and i tried hanging out with her less. Maybe there is a reason for this though. She might think that'll be the only one good for you. Talk with her hope that helped...
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You should tell her what she is doing and how you feel about it but obviously you want to be friends with her but tell you that you need some space to hang out with other people but tell her that you still want to be friends
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