i use to date this guy but we broke up. i still love him and i know he still loves me. hes with this gurl whos a total witch, but hes to sweet to dump her. he thinks he loves her, but shes just doesnt care. we re still friends he talks to me bout and wants my advice but iam always at a loss. do i say what i want him to do? or what he should to be happy with her? or what?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Kay answered Thursday January 27 2005, 6:50 pm: hey, i think you should straight up tell him how you feel about him, and just tell him you know he still loves you deep down side even if he doesnt realized it yet you will. still give him so advic n act like u are okay with him n that girl, but kidna make it obvious that ur not lol, yea im confushin but i did it once n he realized he rilli did love me after all and realized the girl wasnt worth all of it we are still togather tilt his day too.. i hope it goes this well with you sweety! good luck! [ Kay's advice column | Ask Kay A Question ]
XxRockon answered Thursday January 27 2005, 6:03 pm: Tell him how you feel about the situation and what you think that he should do. If he makes the desicion based on how he feels without added pressure from you then he is more likely to do someting with you because then he won't feel any more added pressure to do something about you and getting back together. You can just tell him what you told us, that you think he can do better and that she is not the nicest girl and that he would be better off with someone who treats him better. HOpe this helps :) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
HellsBells answered Thursday January 27 2005, 5:34 pm: He wants your advice because he values it and trusts your judgement. Be honest with him. Tell him what you think. It's the reason why he asked you in the first place. SOunds like he really cares about your opinion. :o) [ HellsBells's advice column | Ask HellsBells A Question ]
taivon21 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 5:33 pm: with this: you have to be a friend and say do what in your heart? and if he doesn't choose you. you can't be mad. let him decide. [ taivon21's advice column | Ask taivon21 A Question ]
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