Member Since: January 27, 2005
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Last Update: January 27, 2005
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theres this guy.. i'm in grade 8 now and i've known him since grade 3.. hes really great and i like him really much... i started liking him as a crush in grade 6.. buh then i was a gayass in grade 6 so then i acted really immature and he hated me until now.. yet i've heard that he liked me last year but doesn't anymore.. i wanna tell him that i'm sorry and ask him if we can start over.. buh every time i walk up to him no words cum out and i look like an idiot.. i'm scared of how he'd react cuz i'm really sensitive and emotional and i mite start crying infront of him and that'll be embaressing.. its like i'm scared of him and i can't go and talk to him... do you have any advice on how i can get rid of this fear of rejection and maybe have enough courage to express my feelings to him? *excuse the grammer plz* (link)
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Hmm... You are only in 8th grade. Advice from a freshmen in college: Don't dramatize everything. Life is short. Live without regrets. I, as a male, have been rejected several times throughout my high school career. Out of the many girls I asked, suprisingly many of them said yes. Girls I thought I would have no chance against. You should, if anything, try to talk to him in person. Online is the worst way to tell a person you have feelings for them. The phone is a little better but in person is the best. Usually you would want to do it alone with just you and him. Then just tell him that you really like him and you liked him for a long time. Don't sound overly obsessed, you might scare him away. Then regardless of his reaction, you did what you should've done. If he says yes, Life is Good. If he says no, well who cares. Yes you will have a hard time getting over him but its better than being stuck on a person for the rest of your high school career. So go for it. =) Good Luck
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Is it too early for sex if you've only gone out with the guy for 2 months? and dont tell me i shouldn't do it at all (link)
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Well... I guess it all depends on your feelings for him, your level of maturity, and how he feels about you. First of all make sure he's not going out just to have sex with you. Sex is an important part of a relationship once you are an adult but make sure the relationship is ready. Although sex may seem like the next level, that is not always the case. Don't try to make things better by having sex. Sex should be an implemented act when the relationship is stedfast. If you feel really close to him and you feel he really loves you, go for it. IF you don't think your ready, you shouldn't.
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ok...well my ex boyfriend recently told me that he still loves me--ALOT! He called me on my cell phone at 1 in the morning...and i was asleep but it woke me up and i answered and he said...what would you say if i asked you out again...and at the time i still had some feelings for him...so not thinking being as sleepy as i was i said yes...the next day when i woke up i totally changed my mind...so when i got home the next day i had 62 missed calls on my phone!! all from him!!! and then i got a text message from him asking me out again...i said we should just be friends back...but then he said you led me on...and i don't even want to be friends with you you hurt me to much. And i can see how i led him on but...i mean i was really tierd and sleepy and wasn't half aware of what i was saying...but i really want to be friends with him...hes a great guy!!! Help me!!! What should i tell him? (link)
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Hm... First of all if he is such as "great guy" he should at least make an attempt to see where you are coming from. People make wrong decisions when they are not fully concious. How can a person in their right minds use a decision made by a person who just woke up 1 in the morning and actually follow it through. If he really thinks that you led him on because of this phone call, you shouldn't even tell him sorry. If you really think he is a nice guy, say sorry I led you on. Who cares if you actually did or not. If it's a friendship you want, apology is the best way to go. Be careful in the future.
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I have a friend who wants a boyfriend but says that she doesn't like anyone. She says she wants to feel like she's loved by someone, but there is no one in our grade that she likes. How can i help her? (link)
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You can be her friend. True, she might have some boy problems but who cares. The best things in life are family, friends, and doing things you love. She might really want a boyfriend but she probably would want friends more. Be a good friend and try to fulfill your responsibilities as a good friend and you can watch out for a good potential boyfriend along your journey in school. Good luck
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I met this girl this year in school, and we became really good friends. We have alot in common and have so much fun together. The thing is, she has some bad qualities. She's very clingy and wants to hang out with me every weekend, all weekend. I have other friends that I haven't hung out with in months because I'm afraid she'll get offended, which she does very easily. Whenever I try to make plans with other friends, without her, she'll invite herself and say it's wrong I'm trying to leave her all alone. What am I supposed to say to her without sounding rude and making her feel offended? (link)
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Hmmm... That's pretty hard. Although there are probably lots of factors involved which I am unaware of, you should sit down with her one day and tell her your feelings about her. She might be the a great girlfriend if you can overcome this silly problem. If she is willing to back off just a little and give you more breathing space, life is great. If not, it proves to you that she has a little more maturing to do on her part and she obviously does not like you enought to adjust her lifestyle a little for you. Think about it. Relationships are never one-sided.
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I have this guy freind I like to pick on for fun, ok flirt how u guys call it lol. well thing is i think i am doing it to much, I fee like i act silly and he dont really pick back or anything else he just really nice and sweet, he in drama and chaption basketball team. lot of people say he werid but nice, thing is I want a converstion with him and try be freinds freinds not try show him i want pick on him all the time. i know can't make it happend but i like him play back. thing is he dose that coupld other people in drama class. he know i like him and he think cool that I do. he know i dont think that way. but thing is sometimes i just like some funny pop lines or something make him respones and something funny talk about and lought. hope this make since. (link)
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Well.... If he doesn't like you stop pushing it. It never turns out good when you're trying to push or try too hard.
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