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ok...well my ex boyfriend recently told me that he still loves me--ALOT! He called me on my cell phone at 1 in the morning...and i was asleep but it woke me up and i answered and he said...what would you say if i asked you out again...and at the time i still had some feelings for him...so not thinking being as sleepy as i was i said yes...the next day when i woke up i totally changed my mind...so when i got home the next day i had 62 missed calls on my phone!! all from him!!! and then i got a text message from him asking me out again...i said we should just be friends back...but then he said you led me on...and i don't even want to be friends with you you hurt me to much. And i can see how i led him on but...i mean i was really tierd and sleepy and wasn't half aware of what i was saying...but i really want to be friends with him...hes a great guy!!! Help me!!! What should i tell him?
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I think you should just be friends, if he doesn't want to be your friend just leave it a lone. If he really likes you he'll understand that you just want to be friends. I had a boyfriend just like him, but when i asked if we could just be friends he said no i want to be your boyfriend not just a friend and i haven't talked to him since then and now i have a boyfriend who i reallly like and i'm as happy as ever.
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Hm... First of all if he is such as "great guy" he should at least make an attempt to see where you are coming from. People make wrong decisions when they are not fully concious. How can a person in their right minds use a decision made by a person who just woke up 1 in the morning and actually follow it through. If he really thinks that you led him on because of this phone call, you shouldn't even tell him sorry. If you really think he is a nice guy, say sorry I led you on. Who cares if you actually did or not. If it's a friendship you want, apology is the best way to go. Be careful in the future.
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Tell him the truth you and you are sorry for leding him on and that you don't want to ruin a friendship because of that
Megan
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"That 1 guy" is too right :( unfortunately I know all too well the pain he discribes.. I am feeling it at the moment.. so please.. dont be friends with him.. it WILL make his life miserable and depressing..
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Just tell him you dont want to be with him like that. And please, for HIS sake, do not be friends with him. His feelings for you will never go away and he will always want to be with you, even tho you only see him as a friend. Just completely end contact with him. If you really care about him that is what you will do and end his suffering. If you become his friend, he will hurt everyday because he can't be with you and the thought will always be in the back of his mind that you will never be anything more than a friend.
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Just explain to him that he called at 1 am and that you were half asleep and didnt know what you were talking about. He seems a little stalkerish to me. Sure a few missed calls is sweet but 62 is scary. If he doesnt wanna be your friend after explaining..then forget him!
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