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Is it too early for sex if you've only gone out with the guy for 2 months? and dont tell me i shouldn't do it at all
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hey. well, i had sex a month and half into my boyfriend and mines relashinship, and we're really close, and it's been 7 monthes now, so i think it not too early ... it totally dependes on how mature you are.
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well it depends on how much you know the kid and like him...
Ab x3
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Well... I guess it all depends on your feelings for him, your level of maturity, and how he feels about you. First of all make sure he's not going out just to have sex with you. Sex is an important part of a relationship once you are an adult but make sure the relationship is ready. Although sex may seem like the next level, that is not always the case. Don't try to make things better by having sex. Sex should be an implemented act when the relationship is stedfast. If you feel really close to him and you feel he really loves you, go for it. IF you don't think your ready, you shouldn't.
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way too early!
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well dont you want your first time to be special...so yes its early
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It's not too early if you think your ready. If your 100% sure that you want to have sex with this guy, go for it. But you should make your first time with this guy special. If you want to wait, wait. If you want to have sex, do it. Only you can tell if your ready or not.
♥ Krissy
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In my opinion, yes, it's to early to have sex. I would wait a few more months.
-Karen
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yess......really to early! wait til its 5 or 6 month together
~<3~kat!
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My general rule is 4-6 months. You have to ask yourself a couple of questions: how long do you think you guys will go out? Is he ready? Are you ready? What will he do if you get pregnant? If you think he'll dump you if you're pregnant, then just don't. Use some protection, and don't think being pregnant won't happen to you- chances are small but still there. I'd recommend sticking with just oral- it's much safer.
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I'm going to tell you now that I'm not going to give you any definitive answer, because I know a lot of people who have waited, not waited with different outcomes (My best friend from Kindergarten had sex with his girlfriend in one month, and now are married.).
I don't know how old you are, but you should do what you feel is right for you. There appears to be some doubt that you have or you really want to but not sure if you'll come across the wrong way.
If you are young and you want to experience sex with this person, then it is all right to do it but make sure to use protection (I recommend two types (at minimum a condom): Condoms, birth control pill, spermicidal jelly, diaphragm, etc.). However, if you feel like he may be pressuring you or feel that this is just something that he wants then I would wait. See if the relationship goes somewhere and it may also be good in the sense that when you tell him- his reaction will tell you what he is really interested in. I just don't want to see you get hurt if that's the only thing that he wants.
If you're older, more experienced with guys and sex, then you know what the consequences may be. You may be more intune with what he wants and that may be the same thing that you want.
Most importantly do what your heart says to do- but if your mind overpowers it then wait.
Yours,
Arun
"When making a decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous to consider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choice of a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious, from somewhere within ourselves. In the important decisions of personal life, we should be governed, I think, by the deep inner needs of our nature." - Sigmund Freud.
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i feel that to have sex early means you lose any respect the guy has for you. it's best to wait for the six month anniversary. make it special so he will remember you forever.
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matters how you feel you retard
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Honestly, yes it is too early!
♥ Michelle
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ok if this is a girl don't listen to the guyz advice, they always wanna have sex anyway. What you should do is... if you both feel comftorbal with doing it go for it! But if one of you wants to wait i would. But i would wait maybe anothe rmonth just to make sure you guys stay together. But like i said go for it if you both feel comftorble.
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assuager has a valid point but I think if you're ready and it's not your first time, then why not? If you're a virgin you should wait because of the way you said "only 2 months" almost sounds like your not ready. Good luck with whatever you decide, if i knew more details I could help more
Peace
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Oh my god the irony! I was just watching this sex special with Katie Couric with my mother, just to see the faces she made. I completely disagree with my mother's points alot, but she did bring up a few good ones. Sex nowadays is taken so lightly, and it's like it really is out of horniness and boredom. I mean, I'm not against sex. I'm against doing something like that with someone you're not close too, or just started dating. It's not suppossed to be just something you do...I don't know. Here's my advice. If you really want to do it, and you honestly don't think you're going to regret it, go for it, I mean, what's the worst that could happen? (And no, I'm not feeding you sex consequence bullshit, or even implying it) I'm just saying, please think before you do something. You can't take it back.
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