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Q: im ADDICTED to sex. If I don't have it in less than at least a month, my stomach starts hurting, I become depressed..and everything. I know this sounds so stupid and don't call me a slut please...is this normal? or...what can i do to maybe hold my urge in? Because about every weekend I have sex (but with the same guy I always do it with) I`m also pregnate..and my hormones are going EXTRA crazy..15/f HELP!!!!!!!
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you're 15 and your pregnant? I think you have a few more problems than being "addicted" to sex.
You attention whore.
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Q: ok im 13 and i want to hang out with my boyfriend out of school but i dont no how to ask them..like im allowed to like go to the movies or the mall with them..but ive never had a guy over or go over his house (with them knowing) how do i get them to let me?
thanks in advance
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ok first of all, you're an idiot. and you're kind of creepy stalker vibe doesn't help.. you just say hey lets hang out and have sex cause thats what 13 year old sluts like you do.
Have a nice day, God speed!
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Q: this question is abuot my hair. i never wear my hair up because i have huge ears..really huge like 3 inches and everyone always says stuf, and i have long weird looking side burn..i tried cutting but it look weird and im growing them out again but there big!! what should i do?
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are you a guy or girl? cause i'm really freaked out right now.
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Q: hey you answered my question about why my boyfriend didn't have an orgasm in bed the last time we did it.. and you told me to do some kinky stuff. I wanna know something real kinky, so kinky he wouldn't know where the hell i learned how to do it from. You told me if i couldn't think of anything then i could write you back and you would give me tips. but ANYTHING will help. If you can't think of anything then that's okay too...
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Ok. Tie him up. Tight. (handcuffs if you've got them, fake ones from party city or something. they come undone easy but get the point across.) Start klssing him like you mean it, tease him with your mouth. Move from there to his neck, stomach so on.. SLOWLY.. so he can anticipate what's coming. Blind Fold him, put one or 2 ice cubes in your mouth and go down on him. He's going to feel so much pleasure from the warmth of your tongue mixed with ice.. with his hands tied up he wont be able to touch you and he'll drive himself crazy. Bring food into this also, licking treats off of each other is ALWAYS a good time. While giving oral, grab and massage his legs. Don't do this for too long or he'll blow. Give him the choice to stay tied up or not, if he says to stay, jump on him and start goin at it.. He'll appreciate it. If he wants to be untied, prepare yourself for a demon. Also if he's into it, anal can prove to be VERY pleasurable to him and once you get used to it, its amazing.. Try NEW positions other than missionary.. bend over and have sex from behind. Or take a shower, you can keep one leg on the ground and one up. While on the bottom, place both legs on his shoulders and let him press them up against you while he's on top. Use a chair! Sit facing each other, you on his lap- arch your back slightly, its awesome. If he can pick you up, let him hold you with your legs wrapped around his back and your back up against a wall.
Long post, i'll send more today if I think of them I'm kind of blocked right now. HAVE FUN!!!
PEACE
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Q: ok i have this friend his name is deven swyers and hes always mad at me cuz im better than him at everything and i could beat him up and he better than me at absoulutely nothing what whould i do to make him feel better?
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quit being a cocky bastard.. that might improve SOMETHING.
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Q: Is it too early for sex if you've only gone out with the guy for 2 months? and dont tell me i shouldn't do it at all
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assuager has a valid point but I think if you're ready and it's not your first time, then why not? If you're a virgin you should wait because of the way you said "only 2 months" almost sounds like your not ready. Good luck with whatever you decide, if i knew more details I could help more
Peace
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Q: I am 5'4 and I am 220 pounds....I really wanna lose weight before july when I go to the beach. Atleast like 40 pounds. I don't have much money to go to the gym nor time. I have been overweight all my life and I really wanna change!!! We have an ab lounger but I don't think its working. I am addicted to food. Please give me any info websites or anything that can help me pleasee!! thank you!!
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Adkins, South beath, Weight watchers (works everytime).. with that one tho, you MUST have self control over what you eat. Hang up your bathing suit for motivation so that you can see it everyday. You have to make yourself eat right. Run around the block everyday, keep using the ab lounger, get your parents to restrict junk food and have them cook healthy meals. Tell friends at school to watch you from eating junk school lunch. That's all I got.. good luck. If you want specific healthy foods to eat, leave me a Q in my inbox. Good luck sweetie
Peace
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Q: This is an odd situation. Just for a little background info, I have a boyfriend. I've been dating him for over a year. Valentine's day will be 15 months.
Okay, I just got the lead in the school musical, and I have a love interest (duh). My love interest is a guy half the girls in the choir have had a crush on (except me, lol). That isn't really the point, just a bit of background.
My problem is this: We rehearsed, and we ended up practicing a scene in which we kiss. I didn't feel bad about it yesterday, but today I feel like...awkward, and wrong, and like I was cheating on my boyfriend, but it wasn't me that consented to the kiss, it was my character. My boyfriend knows about the scene, but he doesn't know we actually kissed yet. I was gonna talk to him about it today but he didn't come to school.
The thing is, the director thinks stage kisses look fake, and refuses to use fake kisses. So it was real. But I feel soooo bad about it. I shouldn't, because I have no feelings for the guy, but I do.
Any advice for me?
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If you don't like him it's no big deal. This shit is going to happen, especially with the lead in the school musical. If your boyfriend gets upset, reasure him you don't have feelings for the dude. He may still have his doubts, but come valentines day he'll see that you're with him and not the guy you had to kiss. It will all work out, just make sure you tell your boyfriend the truth.. he's going to find out sooner or later anyways. And make sure you give him just a little bit of extra lovin' to calm his thoughts.
Peace
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Q: If a guy doesn't bust during sex is that a bad thing? I mean we do it all the time and it usually turns out normal.. but the last time he said he was done but he never reached his climax. is it just that sometimes people want to, but they just can't? Or is he just tried of having sex with the same one person all the time? I love him alot and im scared that he's getting bored with me......? Please Help
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A lot of things can keep a guy from an orgasm.. medicine he took earlier, stress, lack of sleep, smoking weed, exctacy....
I wouldn't worry about it being you, unless he's showing other signs and being distant until he wants some ass. Just grab him and try again.. Or try somethin kinky isntead of the same old stuff.. works like charm.. Want tips? leave 'em in my inbox.
Peace
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Q: So I havent had a boyfriend in a long time and i am thinking of giving up but im not sure what i shood do....Im not shy and im outgoing and most people would call me pretty but its like no guy ever asks me out or nething....they just see me as a piece of ass but i want to be seen as more then that....Please help...any suggestions would be great!
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Guys usually like girls with a personality to go with her looks, you should look into picking one up.
PEACE
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Q: theres this guy who likes me (bryan) but doesn't really know me (he thinks i'm hott) and one of my guy friends (justin) who is also friends with the guy who likes me. Justin always tells bryan that i like him too and i wanna know if he can hang out on the weekend and i neevr say that stuff! justin makes it up to 'move along me and bryans relationship' but all it does is make me look desperate and bryan thinks i like him! i kinda do, but i hardly know him! justin gave my bryans number becuz when justin was telling him how i wanna hang out w.him, bryan told him to tell me to give him a call..is it dumb to call bryan up and tell him that i don't kno what justin has been telling him or something? or should i talk to justin? i already told justin to stop but he won't...pleaseeee help! SORRY SO LONG I RATE 5's!
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You sound concieted.
I have a feeling I'm not getting a 5
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Q: for anyone who has satelite what channel is 7th heaven on? I can't find it or where I could get the TV guide for it anyways please help haha im dying to see this episode!!
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people still watch that show?
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Q: NEED HELP NOW!!
Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!!
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You CANT keep a guy from watching porn. He'll think you're so cool if you act chill about it. No guy wants to be told not to do something so natural. You might as well just cut off his masturbation priviledges (cause yes he does that also, probably to those girls on porn).. you know you should just go ahead and cut off his penis while you're at it.
And if you were a chill girl, he wouldn't feel like he had to lie to you in the first place. So maybe the problem is YOU..
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Q: Okay, well I just got mine, tonight...and I am NOT telling my mom. At least, not yet. I just have a few questions about periods....
1. How often should I change them?
2. Should I wear them to bed?
3. How many should I carry with me?
4. Where should I put them? I don't carry a backpack...or a purse.
That's it. Thank you! =D
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Yes what she said. You need to start carrying a purse, it will prove to be VERY convienant. And you should tell your mom! I was so excited when I got mine, she was the first person I told. She'll give you some really good tips cause, come on she's been doin this for YEARS! Look into tampons too, they are easier to carry, less noticable, and nice for bed.
hope I helped!
PEACE
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Q: i have this really gross problem and i was wondering if anyone had any tips or be able to help. i always get sweat stains on my arm pits. i know its healthy to sweat there or anywhere, but its really excessive and gross and it happens when im not even over-heated. I cant wear certain clothes because i always have to wear like darker clothes to hide it. Ive tryed like every deoderant/anti-perspirant and i dont know what to do, anyone have any ideas? thanks in advance
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Ok I found this great stuff at Ulta that I use before concerts and before I play in my band that keeps me from sweating. You put it on the night before and then deoderant on top of it in the morning. It's called Certain Dry, it's recommended by a lot of doctors and it's perscription strength. Like I said, I found it at Ulta beauty supply you might be able to find it somewhere else or look online.
It's in a short white cylinder shaped bottle- it's a roll on liquid.
If that doesn't help you need to go to a doctor and get a real perscription.
Hope I helped, please rate.
PEACE
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Q: I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
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If I were in your bind I would find another partner. Possibly even divorce your wife but not leave her; I think it's very good of your to continue taking care of her but it's not fair to you. You seem to have a led a good life but it's obvious you need more for you.
MY opinion is that you've been taking care of others for way too long and have been neglecting yourself. We're all human. I think you should finally concentrate on your needs and wants and do whatever you have to do to accomplish that. I really really hope I helped, you seem like a good guy. I hope you find happiness. Good luck.
PEACE
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Q: Last night I had a party because my parents were away. This guy that my friend has a crush on was there and we both made out with him multiple times while she was there.
After she left we were both lying on the floor together and started making out again. Then it started to get a little more serious, and he put his hand up my bra. We went into a bedroom and continued to make out more, and then he sucked on my breast, and then we made out more.
Afterwards I felt horrible and guilty and bad. I talked to my friend and she asked me what happened after she left so I told her that we made out and left out the second part and she wasn't pissed. The problem is that she's going to be hanging out with him and he's probably going to tell people, and it might get back to her.
Do you think I should tell my friend?
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If you honestly feel that it WILL get back to her, you should tell her because if she hears it from other people, it could really hurt your friendship. You need to think about how good of friends you 2 are if you're going to be messin around with her crush behind her back. Maybe if the truth comes out it will get resolved better. Plus your friend might realize this guy isn't going to stay faithful to her if they start a relationship. Just my opinion...
PEACe
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Q: I've liked this guy for a while and now he knows it, I haven't told him but he just figures/d it out. So, next week we're going to a party together and everyone who knows us says we should go together and that Josh likes me and he acts like it and says stuff that makes it obvious he does but when I ask him what stage he thinks our relationship is at he was like "Friendship" and I was like "That's it?" and he was like "Friends..getting closer and closer and closer..to the...top..like dating." He says that he does like me but he's not sure about exactly how he feels and all. He's trying to think it all through a whole lot. He doesn't think I know him that much, that I don't know the "whole" him. So, we talk and he said he wants me to come over his house sometime. We've gotten to be very close/good/whatever you wanna call it friends since school started. We're always ALWAYS talking to each other. In and outside of school. Another thing, he likes to talk about my "bubble butt". One day he even played the beginning of "Baby got back" up to "I like big butts and I cannot lie" and he was like "Thats all about you" and I was like "Why?" and he was like "Big butt". So the other day, we were talking about the party and he was like "How freaky and crazy do you get when you dance?" and I was like "Depends on how hyper I am" and he was like "You should eat a lot of sugar before you come" and I was like "And why is that?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed. So then I said, "Are you gonna dance with me?" and he said, "Of course," then he said, "I need a girl with hips" and I laughed. Then he asked me what I was going to wear and I said I didn't know and he said, "You should wear a real tight skirt" and I was like "Why is thaaat?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed again.
Me and him are always flirting no matter what, always talking and we talk about anything and everything and he comes up to me a lot at school just to talk to me. Even when we're in a group, we always manage to all behind or go ahead of the group just caught up in talking to each other. One day, we fell behind our group after lunch and we were goofing around in the hall and I pushed him and he pushed me and I pushed him and this boy behind us was like "Hey Josh, quit flirting with your girlfriend and get to class before you're late" and he just smiled slightly and looked from the boy to me, then we kept walking. I don't know, it's like there's some kind of connection between us that everyone else around us sees.
Another thing, I asked him if me and him were locked in a room together(we'd been asking each other hypothetical questions) would he want to make out with me and he said "Whatever you felt okay with" and he asked me "Would you want to?" and I was like "Yeah" and he said he'd want to, too. We also talked about once he got a new bike(not bicycle) that he wanted me to come over and ride with him.
I'm not sure what to do. I really want to hook up with him but I'm just so confused. I'd like to know what everyone else thinks of my situation if you could, thanks so much and I'm sorry this thing was so long. Anyone who actually finished reading it and still wants to reply, you are very patient and I really appreciate it. Thanks.
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Wow I think that's the longest one I've ever read.
I think you should wait it out patiently like you have been. This party sounds like a good turning point, but don't force anything on his decision because it could ruin everything. Give him time and play a little bit more hard to get, it might speed up his answer. He's obviously SO into you. It'll happen when it's time to happen. Please rate high just for the reading comprehension skills I had to muster.. thanks.
GOOD LUCK!
peace
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Q: I have a midterm tomarrow and i cant seem to concentrate...or understand it and i never seem to remember anything and all i want to do is play on the computer or go outside...can anyone give me advice on how to concentrate more and remember more things? i need help really fast!...ill rate high..please help
~Midterm problems~
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Maybe you have ADD, adderall always makes me concentrate on what I'm doing. Take 10 mg's and you're set all day.
peace
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Q: When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?
thanks aton!
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If your a brunette i would use brown pencil (if blond, black or charcoal but less of it)- it depends on the size of your eyes where to put it. Try them one at a time and then both on the outside and the in and you'll know what looks better. A good brand is Prestige. You can find it at any drug store and I remember it being cheap. It works well.
Also if it looks good with you, white eyeliner on the inside of your lashes makes your eyes stand out against the white of your eyes.
PEACE
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I'm an 18 yr old female and I'm preparing to go to the University of North Texas next fall and I want to major in Fashion Marketing. I've had the same boyfriend since I was 16 so I can help with relationship/love/sex questions. I'm a drummer in an all girl band and I appreciate music so I can help you there also. I'm obsessed with fashion and unique styles so if you ever need a suggestion I'm there for ya. I've always been told that I'm pretty decent at giving advice and I'm curious as to what you need to know, so hit me up.
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Gender: Female Age: 18 Member Since: January 16, 2005 Answers: 82 Last Update: January 29, 2005 Visitors: 5265
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