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im ADDICTED to sex. If I don't have it in less than at least a month, my stomach starts hurting, I become depressed..and everything. I know this sounds so stupid and don't call me a slut please...is this normal? or...what can i do to maybe hold my urge in? Because about every weekend I have sex (but with the same guy I always do it with) I`m also pregnate..and my hormones are going EXTRA crazy..15/f HELP!!!!!!!
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You are to young :( im sorry. Well just make sure you go on birth control after this baby is born!! -trix
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oh dear, sex can be good but your def not addicted to it, and your stomache isn't hurting because you NEED sex, its because your pregnant... duhhh use protection, jeez.. tell someone and i hope that your parents and your bf knows that you are.. i hope that hes your boyfriend.. its okay to have sex i guess.. since u want it and all.... ever hear of masturbating... look no side effects you cant get pregnant =o!! oh my! so yea !!
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Oh my gosh your fucking 15 and pregnent and you have sex every weekend. Your like a WHore (im not calling u a slut) even though u are one.
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not to be rude, but you could kill the baby by having sex while you pregnant. I dont know if you want to or not but this is what doctors have said. As far as the addiction to sex, its a serious disease some people have. You can get help for it..
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lol, it's okay. In the forth month of pregnancy you get really horny. lol. To hold the urge in you cna masterbate, and it's normal to love having sex. I get grumpy when I dont have sex for w while. Good luck with the baby.
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Well i don't see how you can be addicted to sex.. but if its with the same guy and you love him or what ever i dont see why it should matter.. i mean i have sex almost every weekend too and its wit my baby..but its not jus a one time thing over the weekend either.. um i think its pretty normal..i wouldnt say your addicted tho..and um about the pregnanct thing good luck with it.. and your hormones going crazy is normal..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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you're 15 and your pregnant? I think you have a few more problems than being "addicted" to sex.
You attention whore.
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I know that this sounds like a cliche- but the first step is always to admit that you have a problem.
If you believe that you have a sexual addiction, then it is possible that you go through depression when you abstain. However, often many people that I have seen with sexual addiction had an underlying depression before the sexual addiction, but used sex as a way to forget about their problems, or to feel full to make up for that empty feeling that you have. If you do feel that you have depression, then it is best to get some counseling for that, which may also include some medication. Your doctor can help you with that medication problem, which may also help curb your sexual desire (aorgasmia is a common side effect of many anti-depressants- the inability to have an orgasm and a decreased libido).
If you don't want to go to a counselor you can go to sexual addicts anonymous ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location)), where you can tell your story and begin your 12 steps to recovery. You'll be given a name of a sponsor that you will be able to call when you feel tempted. They have meetings in a lot of churches and schools so you can go and just talk to them or just sit and listen. They are of all ages there so you can feel comfortable there, including teenagers and also some pre-teens.
You're 15 and pregnant. I don't know how far along you are, but you need to decide if you're going to keep the baby or not. Most states do not allow abortions after the first trimester. If you do decide on the abortion you will have to get your parents permission or you can ask the court for an order that you can get one without permission (incredibly rare). If you do decide to keep the baby you need to tell your doctor and start seeing an OBGYN for pre-natal care. It is incredibly important to get this if you want to keep the baby. If you dont' have a doctor, you can contact your local children's hospital and see someone at the teen clinic there. If not you can get a hold of planned parenthood (www.plannedparenthood.org).
If you have any other problems- don't hesitate to ask.
Yours,
Arun
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OK, well no offense, but yeah that is a problem. Well first of all it is not good to have sex while you are pregnate. You have to think about the baby inside of you. When the baby is born you wont have time to have sex. Once you have a child you wont be able to do anything but take care of that baby. You have to think of what is best for the child. Sex is something that is ment for couples who are married. We all make mistakes and God knows i have made many but he forgives and you can get help either getting the courage up and asking for help with an adult, someone you trust or the best thing to do in my opinion is to pray and pray and ask the lord to help you through all your problems!!!!!
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Do not hide your addiction, it is good you admitted you had one. That is the first step to recovering from it. Tell someone, you have to now. Tell someone you trust, a teacher, your coucilor, your mom. Trust me you may think that your parent will kill you but if they truly love you then they will help you get through being pregnant and having this addiction. Maybe going to talk to the school shrink (not on a regular basis, just once to see if it helps) to talk about maybe why you have this addiction. But tell someone one. Since you're pregnant it is better to tell then it is to let them find out for themselves. They will find out. Don't have a back alley abortion to cover it up, also. That will be very dngerous for you. Tell someone. Don't try to stop this addiction by starting another (be it food, TV, anything. You have to face it not run from it.) I hope I helped.
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i dont know what to say, um so maybe just masterbate?? youre 15 and youre pregnant?! try to ignore the hormones and maybe chain ur undies on or someone can sew ur vagina closed, that always works, hang with your friends or something, and eat food. food food food! food is good
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