So I havent had a boyfriend in a long time and i am thinking of giving up but im not sure what i shood do....Im not shy and im outgoing and most people would call me pretty but its like no guy ever asks me out or nething....they just see me as a piece of ass but i want to be seen as more then that....Please help...any suggestions would be great! <3 ya'll xo~carebear~ox
melissaleigh answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 10:35 pm: Good for you!
Knowing that you want more is the first step. Unfortunately, the guys who want to see you as more can be rare.
It sounds like you're doing everything right. You're friendly and interesting and you have lots of friends. Just keep it that way. Make friends who are guys and girls and don't rush the boyfriend issue. Many good things are often found when you aren't even looking.
You have the right idea. Seeing yourself as valuable will help other people see you this way. Present yourself in a way that shows you respect yourself and you want to be seen as you are inside. Sooner or later, the RIGHT guy will notice, and one right guy is better than a hundred ones in a row who aren't into who you really are inside.
xoxMayjoNxox answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 7:04 pm: You definatly shouldn't give up. You've got to prove to guys your more than a piece of ass. Dont put out. Hang around guys more and show them who you really are [ xoxMayjoNxox's advice column | Ask xoxMayjoNxox A Question ]
MS.INAYA answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 3:36 pm: HELLO, JUST STOP LOOKING AND SOONER OR LATER YOUR LOVER BOY WHO WILL LOOK AT YOU MORE THAN YOUR BUTT WILL FIND YOU
HOpe it works,ms.inaya [ MS.INAYA's advice column | Ask MS.INAYA A Question ]
worshipthelizardking answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 3:01 pm: Guys usually like girls with a personality to go with her looks, you should look into picking one up.
Manulo answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 12:40 pm: If your going out to look for a guy than your wasting time. Bars and clubs are for meeting people but not getting to know them. If you meet a guy out and you feel there is interest, invite him to do something like coffee or going out to eat. Don't settle for the first person that comes along and don't give up on yourself either. If you know how good you are and what you have to offer then be proud of that and know that the person who lands you will be the lucky one. [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
MummuM answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 12:40 pm: Any guy that sees you just as a "piece of ass" isn't work your time anyways. I'm sure there are some nice guys that you know. If your crushing anyone, start hangingout with him, flirt, be nice and don't forget to be yourself. You don't want any guy falling for you, if your not yourself, because they aren't falling for the real you. Don't rush things though. That perfect guy will come when you least expect it. Don't rush love and don't try to find it, let it find you.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Dreamx3 answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 12:38 pm: Hey! dont worry about it. I've never ever had a boyfirend and my firneds are always saying dont give up. So dont gove up there is somone out there for you. OSmewhere [ Dreamx3's advice column | Ask Dreamx3 A Question ]
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