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Closer and closer to the top?
I've liked this guy for a while and now he knows it, I haven't told him but he just figures/d it out. So, next week we're going to a party together and everyone who knows us says we should go together and that Josh likes me and he acts like it and says stuff that makes it obvious he does but when I ask him what stage he thinks our relationship is at he was like "Friendship" and I was like "That's it?" and he was like "Friends..getting closer and closer and closer..to the...top..like dating." He says that he does like me but he's not sure about exactly how he feels and all. He's trying to think it all through a whole lot. He doesn't think I know him that much, that I don't know the "whole" him. So, we talk and he said he wants me to come over his house sometime. We've gotten to be very close/good/whatever you wanna call it friends since school started. We're always ALWAYS talking to each other. In and outside of school. Another thing, he likes to talk about my "bubble butt". One day he even played the beginning of "Baby got back" up to "I like big butts and I cannot lie" and he was like "Thats all about you" and I was like "Why?" and he was like "Big butt". So the other day, we were talking about the party and he was like "How freaky and crazy do you get when you dance?" and I was like "Depends on how hyper I am" and he was like "You should eat a lot of sugar before you come" and I was like "And why is that?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed. So then I said, "Are you gonna dance with me?" and he said, "Of course," then he said, "I need a girl with hips" and I laughed. Then he asked me what I was going to wear and I said I didn't know and he said, "You should wear a real tight skirt" and I was like "Why is thaaat?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed again.
Me and him are always flirting no matter what, always talking and we talk about anything and everything and he comes up to me a lot at school just to talk to me. Even when we're in a group, we always manage to all behind or go ahead of the group just caught up in talking to each other. One day, we fell behind our group after lunch and we were goofing around in the hall and I pushed him and he pushed me and I pushed him and this boy behind us was like "Hey Josh, quit flirting with your girlfriend and get to class before you're late" and he just smiled slightly and looked from the boy to me, then we kept walking. I don't know, it's like there's some kind of connection between us that everyone else around us sees.
Another thing, I asked him if me and him were locked in a room together(we'd been asking each other hypothetical questions) would he want to make out with me and he said "Whatever you felt okay with" and he asked me "Would you want to?" and I was like "Yeah" and he said he'd want to, too. We also talked about once he got a new bike(not bicycle) that he wanted me to come over and ride with him.
I'm not sure what to do. I really want to hook up with him but I'm just so confused. I'd like to know what everyone else thinks of my situation if you could, thanks so much and I'm sorry this thing was so long. Anyone who actually finished reading it and still wants to reply, you are very patient and I really appreciate it. Thanks.
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you two are obviously smitten with each other so quit wastin time-cos it sounds to me like this cud be sumthin rly special! lads dont always like to admit too much, so mayb u shud make the first move? its upto you obviously but guys do find that kinda kinky (not slutty or desperate in most cases). and your guy does sound slightly shy wen it comes to these sorts of matters. Arrange to meet him one time and really dress up. And i really mean dress to kill. A while into the evening, try just a little kiss on the lips. if he reacts, go for it! If he doesn't want it (which i think is about 5%chance) then simply apologise etc. honestly tho you two do sound like you should take this a step further very soon!
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go for it. if you like him and feel comfy doing this then go for it. who know , you miht get to know him better. it sounds like fun. i think yoursituation is comon so i think if you dont go then u might regret no goinng. have fun , enjoy your self , be safe!
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That is so cute. You should go out wiht him and i hope that everything works for you guys!
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omg thats soooo adorable! you sound cute. i would say that you should flirt a lil and if it feels right then ask him if he wants to go out..i think he;;ll say yes and i hope he does i hope everything works out between u 2 xOx risSii
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Wow I think that's the longest one I've ever read.
I think you should wait it out patiently like you have been. This party sounds like a good turning point, but don't force anything on his decision because it could ruin everything. Give him time and play a little bit more hard to get, it might speed up his answer. He's obviously SO into you. It'll happen when it's time to happen. Please rate high just for the reading comprehension skills I had to muster.. thanks.
GOOD LUCK!
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omg that is sooooo cute!! he deff likes you and you should ask another hypothetical question and have it say "do you think we will go out any time soon" and see what he says i think that will work you two seem like youd be cute together... good luck xOx jiLl
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Well obviously, he likes you a lot..and you like him too! You guys both know eachother a lot by now right? So i say go for it. What do I mean by go for it? I think you should make a move. Because I mean, hey if he wont do it..you have to take charge. If your ever alone..and hes talking and all...just lean in and kiss him. I know he will not reject you because he likes you a lot! And after you kiss it'll be like a whole new relationship starting and you guys might even start dating. Take my advice, go for the kiss. I'm excited for you because you and josh sound so cute together and stuff!
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