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hooked up with my friend's crush
Last night I had a party because my parents were away. This guy that my friend has a crush on was there and we both made out with him multiple times while she was there.
After she left we were both lying on the floor together and started making out again. Then it started to get a little more serious, and he put his hand up my bra. We went into a bedroom and continued to make out more, and then he sucked on my breast, and then we made out more.
Afterwards I felt horrible and guilty and bad. I talked to my friend and she asked me what happened after she left so I told her that we made out and left out the second part and she wasn't pissed. The problem is that she's going to be hanging out with him and he's probably going to tell people, and it might get back to her.
Do you think I should tell my friend?
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yes definitely, its far better coming from you than from any other random kid. if u apologise and what not and tell her you only didnt tell her cos you didnt want to upset her then she should forgive you. if she dusnt, then she aint that gud a friend.
alex
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I think you should tell your friend before she hears it from someone else. And trust me, it'll really hurt her if she does hear it from other people. I know it's going to be hard to tell her, but you have to. *goodluck*
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Oh goodness i know your situation all too well. From experience i would definitly tell her, it is going to make it a lot better if she hears it from you and not from a rumor flying around school. Be the first to let her know and explain to her how sorry you are and that you feel horrible. I don't think she will be that mad at you, she might be slightly hurt but if you guys are truely friends she will get over it. Besides, i think it will take a relief off of your conscience once you know that she knows and you don't need to worry about her finding out. And it is best to be honest with her, friendships have to be based on trust because without that then you are left with nothing.
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well, you should tell her because 1. it probably will get back to her and 2. you have to be honest with her. if your not honest then she may feel that she can not trust you. she may be mad but she'll get over it. if she doesnt then shes not a good friend because she got to make out with him anyway so whats she complaining about? you need to tell her tho. hope i helped!
*steph*
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If you honestly feel that it WILL get back to her, you should tell her because if she hears it from other people, it could really hurt your friendship. You need to think about how good of friends you 2 are if you're going to be messin around with her crush behind her back. Maybe if the truth comes out it will get resolved better. Plus your friend might realize this guy isn't going to stay faithful to her if they start a relationship. Just my opinion...
PEACe
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Yeah sure. You dont want her finding out from other people, but if she gets pissed then thats weird. You can do what you want and thats what happened. She shouldent be mad..and if she is, well then forget about it because she'll be over it.
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