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Whats Wrong?
If a guy doesn't bust during sex is that a bad thing? I mean we do it all the time and it usually turns out normal.. but the last time he said he was done but he never reached his climax. is it just that sometimes people want to, but they just can't? Or is he just tried of having sex with the same one person all the time? I love him alot and im scared that he's getting bored with me......? Please Help<
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Hes getting bored of you
Try to find someone new to have sex with.
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maybe hes trying a new thing...being gay how does that sound!
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A lot of things can keep a guy from an orgasm.. medicine he took earlier, stress, lack of sleep, smoking weed, exctacy....
I wouldn't worry about it being you, unless he's showing other signs and being distant until he wants some ass. Just grab him and try again.. Or try somethin kinky isntead of the same old stuff.. works like charm.. Want tips? leave 'em in my inbox.
Peace
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He's not getting bored of you. He's just probably getting bored of the same thing over and over again. You should start trying new things, experiment alittle and don't be scared. You should be very open to try new things, especially if it something he likes. Because you never know, you could enjoy it too.
♥ Krissy
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you can try to spice some things up to see what will make him reach the climax for himself, i dont think hes bored and dont think that, spicing some things up between you and him during sex should make everything go like how it used to, trust me! xox
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no thats normal just take a brake for a few days then every thing will be back to normal
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maybe he is not getting bored of u!! here us somthing that can help u.....u should livin up the sex alittle...have it so boring....maybe u can do it in the shower....oron the couch.....or in the car....or use the kitchen....with the whipped cream...the ice...the chocolate syrp...that all ways work..trust me i no...form experince!!! rite me back and tell me nhoew it went!!
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I don't think he's getting bored of you, i think he just wants to try something different while having sex. So maybe try a few new things. Or ask him what he would like, as a dream. Maybe the both of you will enjoy it more.
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It's not that he is getting bored with you, it's just you need to try new things. Guys are the adventurous type who don't want routine....especially when it comes to sex. If you love him, coomunicate with him. Ask him what a fantasy of his may be. You never know, you might like it as well. Don't keep going through the motions. Experiment with it. He love you a whole lot more and realize how lucky he is.
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Contrary to popular belief- ejaculation and orgasm are two seperate entities. It is possible to have an orgasm without as you say "busting" during sex. Although, the two are usually linked.
There could be a lot of reason why things may have been different. You did say that you do it all the time and it usually turns out normal, but there are times when the reserves may be "empty" and not that much ejaculate (semen) comes out.
Aorgasmia, which is the inability to reach orgasm, usually seen in women but studies have shown it can happen in men, means that a person can't have an orgasm which is usually because of social, psychological, or other factors (not necessarily physiological). You're a very caring person to be concerned though. The best thing that I think that you can do is to ask him if there is something wrong. He may be worried about something and that night just wasn't into it. It doesn't mean that he's tired of having sex with you. The best thing to do is to open a line of communication. Also, if you are concerned about variety in your sex life there are a lot of books that you and he can read together that may bring some variety (which can be found at any major bookstore- you don't need to go to a seedy one).
Sorry for the long answer. Best of luck.
-AK
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