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theres this guy.. i'm in grade 8 now and i've known him since grade 3.. hes really great and i like him really much... i started liking him as a crush in grade 6.. buh then i was a gayass in grade 6 so then i acted really immature and he hated me until now.. yet i've heard that he liked me last year but doesn't anymore.. i wanna tell him that i'm sorry and ask him if we can start over.. buh every time i walk up to him no words cum out and i look like an idiot.. i'm scared of how he'd react cuz i'm really sensitive and emotional and i mite start crying infront of him and that'll be embaressing.. its like i'm scared of him and i can't go and talk to him... do you have any advice on how i can get rid of this fear of rejection and maybe have enough courage to express my feelings to him? *excuse the grammer plz*
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You should definately tell him how you feel, or else he'll never know and you'll always wonder what could have happened. Just go up to him when he is alone, without a bunch of friends around and tell him how you feel. Good luck!
*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*
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Hmm... You are only in 8th grade. Advice from a freshmen in college: Don't dramatize everything. Life is short. Live without regrets. I, as a male, have been rejected several times throughout my high school career. Out of the many girls I asked, suprisingly many of them said yes. Girls I thought I would have no chance against. You should, if anything, try to talk to him in person. Online is the worst way to tell a person you have feelings for them. The phone is a little better but in person is the best. Usually you would want to do it alone with just you and him. Then just tell him that you really like him and you liked him for a long time. Don't sound overly obsessed, you might scare him away. Then regardless of his reaction, you did what you should've done. If he says yes, Life is Good. If he says no, well who cares. Yes you will have a hard time getting over him but its better than being stuck on a person for the rest of your high school career. So go for it. =) Good Luck
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i would have to say that you get all shy becuase you kinda have a thing for this guy? if he has the internet express you feelings there and everything its ALOT easier on the net.. good luck sweety!!!!
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This is where you really need courage, dear, I can understand fully. I like this guy and I just can't tell him mostly because of my fear of rejection and all. I would just say to pratice it, try to get words into your head, or write him a note. Anything you can do to just get it out and tell him the truth and all, you should try. Even if in the end if it doesn't work out, you can at least see that you tried and had both the strength AND courage to risk it all. Good luck, dear.
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