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problems with a guy friend
I'm 13 and female. Ok, my best guy friend is startin to act all wierd. I mean, he used to be so nice and sweet to me and give me all sorts of advice on guys. That was before he got with his girlfriend. Then he got with is girlfriend and he was still just as sweet and kind, but then they broke up and now he's so different. It's hard to explain. He's not as sweet as he used to be and he doesn't give advice, he just says,"ur screwed then" and he's always talking to his ex-girlfriend. I don't mean to be jealous, but I do get jealous easily. He really has changed. I know he says I'm his best female friend, because he told me. I don't know how to ask him what's up with out sounding totally bitchy or jealous. Please help. I'm an advice comlumnist,too and I guess everyone needs help once in a while.
~K~
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I think he is depressed and is hurting the one he loves the most and doens't relize it.TAlk with him and see if there is anything u can do. OR tell him how u feel. Be honest with him.
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when you ask him for advice aand he says that say 'is something wrong' and if he says no then say 'because it seems like theres something on your mind because your acting different'...something like that
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well u should just ask him if anything is wrong and if he needs any help on like gettin a girl or anything idk
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Make sure he knows that he can talk to you about anything even if you just have to say it bluntly "you know you can talk to me about anything." It seems as though something is troubling him if he changed so quickly. Just sit him down and tell him that he's been acting different and that it's starting to affect your friendship.
*~Krystal*~
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Yes, we all get stuck, I know because even I cannot think of a way out of situations even if I know what to do I just freeze up. What I would do it talk to him normally then bring up the question to see if anything is bothering him, though try to do it while you two are alone so if anything is, he can tell you and you only without worrying about others. If he refuses to give in and say something is wrong, let him know that you are always there if he needs someone to talk to if something IS bothering him. I know that break-ups can cause it, since sometimes it affects them, or the person they were with just seems to get changed all together, you just need to help them out and get them back on track ^^;. I hope this helped you at least a bit.
- Kai -
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