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love life sucks..
ok well there is this guy and his name is Josh..we have liked each other a lot for a while..and he asked me out and of course i said yes..well we went out for a day then he broke up with me and claimed that he didnt want a girlfriend right now. Well after that he stopped talking to me. And i do not know why he did this because we only went out for a day and it shouldn't be awkward at all really!! and i want to know..how do i get him to talk to me? because im not the type to go up and talk to him if he doesnt want to talk to me! people say he still likes me and he didnt break up with me cuz he didnt like me or ne thing..he just didnt want his relationship with me to end like his other g/f's did (they went out for 9 months and then never talked after) so how do i get him to talk to me?
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ok i know you said your not the type of person to just go up to talk to him, but if its bothering you, you should say something. Maybe he is thinking that you dont want to talk to him because he broke up with you. You should just ask him why he hasnt been talking to you
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I think you should go up to him and talk about it.Hes most likely gonna respond to you unless hes just mean and rude. And in that case you dont need him.Start out just by like saying Hey in the hallways and just the usual conversation "hey whats up? ect"If this doesnt work try to figure out why he wont talk to you. Cause yall only went out for one day i dont think there could be a reason not to talk to just because your kinda his ex.
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It seems that he's not going to make much of an effort so you will have to. Just keep on inviting him out and keep on going up to talk to him. He will eventually respond... but I don't htink his answer was any good personally. He says he doesn't want it to end badly... so he ends it now and almost makes it end badly... sounds sus to me
Okay well just make an effort towards him and if he wants to he will help it along. Good luck
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OMGSH!!! This sounds exactly like a situation between me and my friend(We used to be more than friends)!!! Well...here's how it all went down...I was pissed like no other mother, and I was constantly trying to find ways for him to notice me. He never talked to me, I never talked to him...and it was very uncomfortable whenever we were around eachother. Well, then summer came and we never talked to eachother even once during the whole summer. But one day he talks to me and says "can we start over?". So I said yes...of course, lol. And ever since then we have been really good friends. We even hang-out every once in a while. And do you know what he said to me? He said that he wanted to make up and he never ment to hurt me...he just didn't want it to get any worse, so really this guyfriend of yours is probably thinking that he wants to make up with you...he just probably thinks that you are way too mad at him to talk to him. Which is the only reason that my guyfriend didn't talk to me sooner. As much as we may think that guys are assholes...they really are just very confused and not looking to commit to anything major. They like to go with the flow, ya know? LoL. Anyways what I am trying to say is...don't feel bad like I did, because NOW YOU KNOW what is going on inside that little pea brain of his. Just stay away from him for a while and DONT act mad...make him miss you. Keep it simple and give him a cute little "look what you're missing out on" smile every once in a while!!! Eventually he will talk to you...If not, then take a risk and talk to HIM!!! Maybe he is more shy than you think. Remember...guys only TRY to be kool, they really suck...LoL! Just have fun with it, and don't try to hard...no one ever said that you had to play fair(wink wink)LoL, GOOD LUCK!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
PS: I really want to know how this works out because it is really weird how similar your situation was to mine, so IM me sometime, my screenname is: HannaKL1800...LoL, my guyfriend is probably reading this and thinking I'm a bitch...LMAO!!! TTYL!!!
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well then you need to get it through his head that you aren't like his other girlfriend... and one way to get him to talk is to corner him in the hall or something and tell him face to face, I need to talk to, and then specify and time and place... now I know you might not be the one that is outgoing so, gather a couple of your friends so that they can back you up for support.
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