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ex-boyfriend trouble
i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this?
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If you love him or really like him just ignore everyone else just think that they're b****es for not knowing how sweet or funny or whatever you like about him believe me i've been through with this. So, just tell them suck on these and stick up your middle finger(and your thumb)!!!!!!!
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who thiught he was a loser? were they your friends? if they weren't your friends then you shouldn't worry. They are probably fake people who he realises are fake and therefore choses not to be friends with. However, if they are your friends then you need to ask them to try and get to know him. they obviously don't know what he's like and therefore just presume that he's a loser, theat's what most people do. If you really like him then you shouldn't care as it is him that is making you happy and not your friends. Ask them to be more supportive towards what you want. If you want to get back with your boyfriend then explain that you were confused about what you really wanted and say something like you were scared the relationship was moving tooquickly. Don't tell him the real reason as he will be gutted. Good Luck,
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Yes!!! You'll never know if theres a chance to get with him again if you don't tell him how you feel!
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yes you should tell him, and see what he says
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YES!!!! remember u shouldn't care wat other people think. just follow ure heart.
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You don't deserve him. If you are willing to dump him because of what people think of him, then who's to say you won't do it again. I know this is harsh and maybe even mean, but it's true. It's not fair to him for you to dump him because people said he was a loser and then want to go out with him again. Sometimes you just have to live with your regrets and learn from them.
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yeah!! dont listen to what anyone else says. the only opinion that matters is yours.
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Yes you should if you love him who gives a f*** what anyone else thinks
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YES!! well except for the part about dumping him because he's a loser... but at least let him kno that you still realli care about him and that you were juss being pressured by others to not be in a relationship at the time but that now you've got over that and you really want to be with him now and that you miss him!! i hope everything goes well!
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Yes no matter if he takes you back..you owe it to him..to soothe his hurt feelings..that YOU let peer pressure rule you..that you are VERY sorry and even if he does not take you bakc..that you still care and are very sorry...DO it!!!NOW!!
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I know how people can make you feel bad. But you shouldn't have broken up with him because of it...don't even listen to what people think. Yes I think you should definitly tell him that you regret breaking up with him and you miss him a lot, I don't think I would add the loser part lol. Maybe you guys will hook up again. Good luck! Hope I helped.
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yeah... you should let him know you made a mistake... you really regret it... & u miss him... even if he says no... your going to be really relieved after you tell him... hopefully he wont say no...
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I think you should, but it really depends on how he took the breakup. Be sure to tell him that you know you're an idiot for breaking up with him!
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You should defiantely tell him!!! I understand where you were coming from when you dumped him though...It is hard to deal with peer pressure, but think about it...In 10 years will you still care what those people think? Probably not. So the best thing to do is tell him the situation and hope that he understands. Do what makes YOU happy...not everyone else!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
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you probably should. Tell him that you are sorry you dumped him, and that mostly you did it because of what other people thought, and that it was your insecurities that made you, not completely him. If he's mad about it and hasn't been acting friendly toward you and such, you might want to be careful telling him, since he might be angry with you, and reget whatever you say. But on th eother hand, if he's still talking to you, and isn't acting very resentful, I would tell him!
He might want to go out with you again if you told him, so I'd go for it!
Hope everything works out for the best!
-carissa
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Dont tell him you broke up with him because you were basically embarresed to be with him but tell him that you simply made a mistake and that you are sorry. He will understand and depending on how much he likes you, you just might get your relationship back. Dont get back with him thought if this is goin to just happen again, dont care what other people think of your boyfriend the only person that has to like him is you Hope i helped :)
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why do you care what other people think?.. who cares what they say.. if you like him.. just apologize and say you wasnt using your head and that you really want him back. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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