Hey people! Um...let's see. I really have liked this guy for a long time and we have dated but at the moment we are not. By the way his name is Kyle if that would help any. We always go on and off fooling around and stuff. Like in the beginning of the school year we were hanging out and one thing led to another and we were making out and I gave him a hj and he fingered me. So it's not like it's a random crush I have or anything. Well like for the past month like basically almost all of November he was acting way different. He would call me EVERYDAY and we would talk to a while and he would tell me how much he loved me and he was just so cute and he hasn't really ever acted like that. I mean some of the things he said were so sweet like once out of no where he's like 'I'm in love...with the best thing ever and her name is Ryah' (that's me lol). Well anyways, he told me he wanted to have sex with me and I told him I'd think about it and that maybe if we were to do that we should go out first so he said yeah. We weren't going out though it wasn't definite. He said he would have felt bad if he pressured me into it and I told him he didn't really so it was ok. Well then he just stopped calling me and talking to me all the time and he still doesn't. I don't know what's up! Does anyone see what I did? I don't know if I should call him and get things started back up or something. I'm afraid I'm going to loose him. I'm so attached right now and I don't know what to do. I'm thinking about calling him tonight and just talking to him, maybe get things back to where there were...but I don't know how. Sorry it's so long.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? NotoriousBaby06 answered Tuesday December 7 2004, 3:45 pm: Well the way it sounds is this guy just wanted you for a piece of ass, im not trying to be mean but that is just how some guys are.. believe me i went out with quite a few. It seems like he only wants you when he doesnt have another girl in mind.. know what i mean? But sure call him tonite and see what is up ask him why he stoped talkin to you all of the sudden and tell him that if you two are not together that you at least want to have him as a friend. Dont give in to him though and dont do anything that you do no want to do. If he starts calling you again all the time maybe you should try to play his game and not call him for a little..? He sounds like a very sweet talker and it is easy to belive somone when they tell you exactly what you want to hear.. Good luck! I hope I helped! [ NotoriousBaby06's advice column | Ask NotoriousBaby06 A Question ]
BeFABULOUSxo answered Tuesday December 7 2004, 3:41 pm: maybe he thinks ur gonna tell people that he asked you to have sex or make fun of him or sumthin like that..idk thats truely a tuffy.. try givin him a call.. it might brighten up from there *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi! [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
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