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well im 13 (white) and this 15 year old (black)..likes me and a lot i guess. i dont no what to do, im not racist but i dont want to hurt his feelings..ive never been in a situation like this b4..please help
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so why cant you go out iwth him???¿? (if its just because hes black your really pathetic and racist cause you shoulldnt judge people like that ever!!)
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well hUn... if u like him 2... then go 4 it... skin is just a color... it dosnet determine how he is on the iNsIde! :) i personally think black guys are sExY... bUt if you truly don't like him... dont lead him on.. tell him the truth but say you still wanna be friends (and make sure he knows it has nothing 2 do with him being bLaCk!) hope i helped ya!
xOxO, aLeX
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I think that if you like him you should give him a chance no matter what his race may be. If you dont like him just tell him how you feel and that you dont feel the same way as he does or that you dont want a relationship right now and you just want to be friends :)
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If your not racist then why are you not giving him a chance?! i know what you mean u dont like black guys no offense. but they sometimes are rough with their gurlfriends. Just tell him your not ready for a boyfriend.
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If you like him, go out with him, if you don't want to, just keep being nice to him and be his friend. Tell him that you feel that you're aren't ready to have a boyfriend.
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go out with him how you don't know if he is a mean boy or a nice boy just because of his skin color doesn't make him a bad person you two can become the best of friends just give him a chance and you never know until you try
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Hey i beleive you that your not racist. But..do you really like this kid? If you do dont hold your feelings back and go for it. theres plenty of interracial couples. if you dont, and the only reason why you dont is because of his color...then rethink your choice. You cant just tell him, "sorry..i dont like you because your black and im white.." but if you dont like him for a reason like "i just want to be friends " etc. then just be honest and tel him. Make a list of what u like and dont like about him. If the good stuff outnumbers the bad stuff..then hey.. you guys coould make a really cute couple :)
-melissa
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I know what you mean...you should just tell him straight up and it's not cause he's black or w/e, i think he'll understand...<3
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Tell him you don't like him. If you don't like him then you don't like him he will have to learn ot except the fact. If he excuses you of racisim then tell him your not. I belive that you aren't cause if you were you wouldn't have asked me for advise.
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Well why would you hurt his feelings? You know i had a step dad who was black and 2 black sisters they are cooler then ever . I hate it when racist things come in but dont let "color" come in thats just dumb i like this quote it goes "We could all alot from crayons same are sharp some are pretty some are dull some have weird names and all are different colors.. but they all exist very nicely in the same box" now doesnt that change everything? if people say anything to you about it.. just tell them to back off u r not racist.. and everything should be fine! I hope everything works out for you! sorry i was a lil slow on answering this! I was having supper! but good luck! and ask me if you ever need any sort of help again!
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Just tell him that you don't like him that way. You don't even have to mention anything about race. If he asks, just be like, "No, it's not that. I just don't have a thing for you."
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Ok unlike on the pools I am nice to people who ask me in my inbox because they are only going to get one answer. Do you not like him because he is black or because you just don't? If it is because he is black there is no reason not to like him. If it is because you just don't like him then just let him down gentally.
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