Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 1:57 pm
How can you tell when someone doesn't love you anymore? He gives me affection only when I ask for it, but he doesn't give it himself anymore. He gets mad at me a lot. We've been together for almost a decade. I'm still in love, but how can I know for sure if he loves me anymore? He says he does but I don't think he's telling me the truth. He makes me feel like I'm just in his way. I know it's probably time to move on, but I want this to work because we have a child together. Thanks for help in advance.
xluvinux answered Thursday December 23 2004, 3:09 pm: It's possible there's something else in his life that's causing a disruption in your relationship. I think the best way to find out what's going on is to talk to him. Tell him you're feelings on this and ask him to explain. He loves you, he is going to tell you the truth. After you find out what's the cause you two can discuss how to fix it. I want this to work out for you because you already have a child. A child needs a mother and father, so I really hope you can work it out. Even if he doesn't sound sincere, he truly does love you. Whatever your relationship comes to, I hope for the best. I believe you can make it work if you get to the root of the problem and help to fix it. =)
trlblzr4u answered Thursday December 23 2004, 2:14 pm: Have you tried talking to him about how he makes you feel? I don't know if that is possible but it'd be a good idea. Does he get mad at you for just some little things? That can be hard. I can understand wanting to work it out for the child, but to be honest, if he's making you feel that way and you don't say anything you are not going to be happy. That I think your child would pick up on. I strongly suggest to try to sit down and have a serious talk with him about things between you, might be that he's stressing about something else. [ trlblzr4u's advice column | Ask trlblzr4u A Question ]
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