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Grounded Forever...
Ok, here's what's going on... My boyfriend, we'll call him bob, has been living with me secretly for about 2 weeks now. My dad, just found out that he was here yesterday morning, and my dad was very mad. Then last night, my dad found out about it and made him leave, bob left and came back, and now my stepmom just saw him leave. So I'm really really really grounded right now. I don't know what to do or tell my parents, I can't kick Bob out because he has nowhere to go, literally. He has a pretty bad story though. Should I tell my parents his story and risk being able to be with him? Or should I lie to my parents more?
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Well if you really love your boy friend then you should live with him.ok if you are over 16 then you should ask your mom or dad if you can buy a place if you make enough money. but if you are younger than that why do you want him to live with you if he has a house of his own? well if you are younger than 16 then just visit him every day at his house. glad to help! please rate
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oK, Im new at this so if you dont like my ideas, im sorry! If I were you I would tell your parents his story (whatever that might be) and ask your parents to give Bob a chance to earn their respect and trust. Once you and your parents are kewl, I would go with your gut feelings from there. Hope it helps!
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Tell your parents everything..they might be cool about it and they might be able to help out and make bobs life a lot better. Its worth the risk because even if they dont care..you can still get around them. Tell them everything and explain you dont want to lie anymore..they should reespect you for that and do something to help
good luck!
-melissa
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You should tell them his story. Tell them you're sorry you lied, but your heart was in the right place when you gave him a place to go. Good luck!
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Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Definately tell your parents whats going on and why you are having him live with you. You have already lied enough. Just grab both your parents, sit them down and tell them that you need to have a talk about something serious. I really hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
♥Jennifer
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Try telling the truth. If they are good parents they will try and understand you thought you were doing the best thing for your friend. But, you lost some trust points from starting off by lying, so be sure to sincerely appologize for that. Hope it goes well.
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Hey there, i think you should tell them the story lies will get you nowhere so its best you tell the truth
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tell your parents the story
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I really don't think lies would help your cause here. You are already on shaky ground with your parents as it is. I would suggest to just come clean with the story, I mean that's better than letting them just come up with their own reasons as to why he's there. Who knows, maybe they'll see it differently after they know the whole story.
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