Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 9:24 pm
Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do!
Crimson_Verdict answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:03 pm: Wow... okay my advice may not help at all but me friend is in almost the exact same situation. Now if you're completely sure that he and his friend aren't joking, you should talk to the girl if you can and see what happened.
My friend Sara really liked this guy JT as soon as she met him. So the day after she asked around about him and our friends told her that he was single because he just broke up with his girlfriend. When Sara asked why it was because he cheated on her. Later Tay ulled her aside and told her that he wasn't safe cause he raped some1 a year ago. BY the way where the hell are your friends in all this?
xojessie984ox answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:00 pm: well i think you should stay away from him. he could be very dangerous. if you start to like him stop becasue you will be sorry if he rapes you
Pixiemagic14 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:51 pm: well if i were you i wouldn't like him because if he raped already what makes you think that he won't rape you. If i were you i'de stay away from him. [ Pixiemagic14's advice column | Ask Pixiemagic14 A Question ]
reach_for_the_stars_14 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:40 pm: ok first of all anyone who would do that is obviously not a good person and maybe they are playing a trick on you so that you will stop liking him but i dont think that is the case.if i were you i would stop liking him and move on to another guy because what if he does that to you? i no you dont want that to happen. well good luck and i hope it helps. ~Happy Holidays!~
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pinayprodigy answered Saturday December 18 2004, 9:57 pm: well you have to tell someone czu rape is illegal and if you get with him what if he does it to you?I don't want anyone gettin hurt so tell a teacher any trusted adult.Even if you like him you have to tell someone else besides the internet.I know you may not like this advice but it's the right advice, after watchin lifetime with my mom all these years I know.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
charmed-cherry21 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 9:48 pm: Okay firstly its not raping it is molesting. Raping is when you force them to have sex with you and then you kill them. Molestation is where you get them to have sex with them but they live. And what I would do is file a sexual harrassment report or report that he did it with someone and move on. Be careful.
lalathepinkbunny answered Saturday December 18 2004, 9:47 pm: He might just be teasing you. But if not, then you really ought to tell the police or something, ecase that's serious and he coudl do it someone else too, including you. There's nothing you can do about liking him, you can't control liking someone. It's your feelings and it just happens. The only thing you can do is try to move on and forget about him and maybe look for some one new to take your interests. [ lalathepinkbunny's advice column | Ask lalathepinkbunny A Question ]
Beccers_boo answered Saturday December 18 2004, 9:38 pm: dearest raper-
This is a tough situation. The best thing u can do is tell him that you just dont feel comfortable around him. Dont say anything about the raping or anythjing else. Maybe if you hanged around pther people,. it would take your mind of him, and give you a chance to fall for someone else. [ Beccers_boo's advice column | Ask Beccers_boo A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 9:34 pm: you should stay away from this guy, if hes raped a girl before and seems to think nothing of it then he may do it to you. who knows. stay away from him and never be alone with him, its a bad idea, no matter how much you like him your gonna have to let those feelings go hun, your better than him anyway.
hope i helped ya
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lildesidevil143 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 9:29 pm: i think that you should stay away from him because you never know if he'll do it to you. I hope i'm not hurting your feelings but you know you should stay away from him even if you like him.
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