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I been having a lot of problems latley!!!! well i've been cutting because well my best friend started going out with the guy i relle relle loved, even though she loves him to i didn't want her to go out with him but she did and i'm happy for her and all but i wish i was his girlfriend instead and this boy he is our relle good friend we can depend our lives on him! i luv him and he luvs me just he only wants me as a friond so i've been cutting but the thing is my best friend found out and she didn't tell any1 but i thought that the boy relle should know because he's a big partr of this and now they kno and i feel so ashamed that i cut i want to stop causei don't want them unhapy and i don't want any1 to find out but i rele do want to keep doing it cause it helps me!!!!!
Thanx,
~lost lover~ (link)
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Believe me I know that it can be really hard. One thing that my friend, well I'll just call Keke because if she read this she'd try to kick my ass. But one thing that she's been doing lately is wearing a rubberband on her wrist and when she gets upset she pulls it and it still hurts but no chance of death and it's pretty subtle. It's helped her alot (she cut because she was in love with a guy too). Hope I help! Blessed be, Crimson Verdict
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Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!! (link)
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What the frickin hell!!! OKay now that I said that. Dump him and find another person that worships the ground you walk on. You sound like my friend Ally, so I hate to think about you upset, just forget about him.What he's doing is called being manipulative. And if he goes out with your enemy then'll you'll hate him for a while and finally get over it. Sorry if I sound mean. Blessed be, Crimson Verdict
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Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do! (link)
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Wow... okay my advice may not help at all but me friend is in almost the exact same situation. Now if you're completely sure that he and his friend aren't joking, you should talk to the girl if you can and see what happened.
My friend Sara really liked this guy JT as soon as she met him. So the day after she asked around about him and our friends told her that he was single because he just broke up with his girlfriend. When Sara asked why it was because he cheated on her. Later Tay ulled her aside and told her that he wasn't safe cause he raped some1 a year ago. BY the way where the hell are your friends in all this?
Be safe okay?
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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Whats like the maximum age difference thats considered normal?? (link)
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I'd say six years but only after you've turned 21.
But for most people it's up to you I mean my grandparents are 15 years apart. It's fine with everyone (I actually couldn't tell). Hope I helped.
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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i havnt gotten my first kiss yet and im scared i will do it wrong or something. if we like french kiss how do you do it? i dont want to do it wrong and be embarrased. please help (link)
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Okay I don't know where you live but u shouldn't be worrying about this, a bunch of my friends still haven't had their first kiss and they're sixteen. No worries slow down.
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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well im startin my h.s on sept 8...im really nervous EVERYONE @ my middle skool is goin to this one h.s and im goin to another one far away bc i didnt like the ppl @ my old skool i just had a lot of probs n stuff....but yea this skool is a whole diff crowd of ppl my last skool was s0o0o ghetto!! this is like really not....im just so nervous i dont no ne 1 and we hav to wear uniforms that r navy blue and khaki...im afraid im gonna look like a dork and hav no friends..hellllppp...im gonna b so lost =( (link)
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I'm doing the exact same thing, except I'm going to a different school because it's closer to my house(not that I want to). Annnyway I know its really lame but you have to dun dun da, Be yourself!! Ahhhh scary thoughts I know but that's always the best thing to do. Being someone that you're not just attracts the wrong people. And everyone looks like a dork in those uniforms believe me, I know. Hope I help you.
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it?? (link)
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I cut myself but I'd never kill myself, I do it out of anger the pain just feels good, but I don't do it as much as my friend used to. At one point it got really scary. She came to school with cut mark across her chest, up and down her arms, a star carved into her hand, and on one knee she cut the words hurt me, and on the other knee it said kill me. I decided it was out of control and just left a note on the guidence counselors desk one day at lunch. And ya know wat it didn't work, my friend just told her she'd stopped awhile ago. Best thing to do is confrontation. I just went around telling a bunch of Shannon's friends after a while she stopped because she was tired of being told off. Hope I helped.
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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Well me and my friends are going out tommrow in hte woods to drink i drink alot but not so often so that isnt the big deal i guess but see im only in middle school and theyre bring chronic so they can try it and I REEEEELLYYY I WANNA TRY IT TO jsut to see what it is like you know?but trust me i do not think im going to get addicted to it what should i do tho? (link)
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How can u not think ur not going to get addicted. It's not really something u get to choose about and u can get addicted after trying something once. So my advice is don't try it. And stop drinking if ur only in jr. high you have time for that when ur forty. It is a big deal especially if u drink a lot, alchol piosoning, ever heard of it. You really need 2 stop. Seriously save it for when its legal.
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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Okay..well i was at my Friends house and it was me and Amanda ..amber an ashley...an we were all at amandas ..then amanda feel alseep so my 2 other frineds stole stuff from her and now my Best Friend i thought i had hates me becasue she thinks i stole from her and now she dont trust me at all and alot of my other frineds dont eaithr...so if some if you could please help me out ....thnank you
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Unsure (link)
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No worrys just let it play out. Something similar happened to me, ten of my friends and I went camping at beach. The second day when some of us were out surfing someone took 15 dollars and some jewelery from my friend Gabi. At first she blamed all of us two days later one of the girls came forward and told her who it was. She never got her stuff back but she became closer with the girl who told. the theif still claims she didn't take it even though six peops saw her.
I don't know if that helps but I hope it does.
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?
Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:. (link)
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sure why not, if he doesn't make you feel uncomfortable, or ur scared. Hope I helped.
Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict
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