Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 12:32 am
Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!!
xoxbellabebexox answered Sunday December 19 2004, 11:19 pm: ask your self is it worth to be cheated on you will most likely say no so if i were you i would break up srry i know you dont want to hear this but it is the truth.
Crimson_Verdict answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:23 pm: What the frickin hell!!! OKay now that I said that. Dump him and find another person that worships the ground you walk on. You sound like my friend Ally, so I hate to think about you upset, just forget about him.What he's doing is called being manipulative. And if he goes out with your enemy then'll you'll hate him for a while and finally get over it. Sorry if I sound mean. Blessed be, Crimson Verdict [ Crimson_Verdict's advice column | Ask Crimson_Verdict A Question ]
gcfreakadoodle answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:53 pm: This boy is a waste of you time. No boy who truly loved you would ignore or treat you that way. If it was my decision i would dump him because hes not worth the time or feelings. Hes hurting you mentally and emotionally and thats not right.Your friends are right when they say hes not treating you good because hes not and no girl deserves to be treated that way [ gcfreakadoodle's advice column | Ask gcfreakadoodle A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:52 pm: I wouldn't want to be with him if I were you. If he really liked you, he wouldn't be treating you like this. Maybe try talking to him about it, and if nothing changes, just forget about him. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
iishaducky answered Saturday December 18 2004, 7:44 pm: talk to him. DON'T involve other people. it's just between you an him. and don't say you know cause u dont you just have other grls sayin he does. [ iishaducky's advice column | Ask iishaducky A Question ]
tweety answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:41 pm: dump him! he if he is all over toher gurls, then there is no way that he likes you. or beat him at his own game...let him see u flirting with another guy and see how he feels! good luck! [ tweety's advice column | Ask tweety A Question ]
Berri answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:42 am: He sounds like a jerk. I think you should end it, simple as that. You need a guy who's good to you ALL THE TIME. [ Berri's advice column | Ask Berri A Question ]
cutebrunette answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:19 am: Well, if you still want to be with him and he is treating you bad, you can just break up with him but still stay friends. I dont think it is right to go out with a guy who treats you badly. But you can still stay frinds with him like talk to him on the pfone or on AIM or something like that.
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:57 am: Well. think about it. Are you going to be with this someone for the rest of your life? Well i dont think so because hes older and he will go to college and your younger and got your whole life ahead of you. Plus friends come first and guys arent everything. He may seem like your everything in all. But you gotta let go and knowing that your friends are there.. is the best ever!
brokenxtears answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:36 am: And you are still going out with him why? You need to find someone better who won't act like complete strangers in the hall. You need to get over him and move on ((~*JULiA*~)) [ brokenxtears's advice column | Ask brokenxtears A Question ]
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