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how to help teen daughter not to raise her voice to unacceptable levels when we talk. (link)
First of all, you would besetting the example, so as long as you keep your voice calm, maybe she will not raise hervoice, but ifshe does, youjust have to know that every teenge person does this and it's common. It also depends on what you say, try notto be hurtfull, and just try to have an understanding of what your arging about. It's also important to end the argument as soon as posible. And after the fight, make sure that there is no hurt feelings, and just have a quiet talk with your daughter. Just remember you were a teenager too before. And you have to understand what teenagers go through...social, school, then even people at home. Its all a very stressfull point in their life. Good Luck!


ok, where to start?.... ok i met this guy he started working at my job and in the begining i hated him abd wanted nothing to do with him, then he started showing intrest in me but at the same time my best friend too. he ended up asking me out one day and we hit it off. that nigh he had asked me to be his gf! i had said yes and everything was fine we were son into eachother and spending every second with eachother, soon he started throwing how my best friend was more his type and that he wanted to be with her but be with me at the same time! i told my friend that she was not to do anything with him but of course i cant be there 24/7 and i ahd later found out that they had did stuff! so i broke up with him. but i still had all these feelings for him. so about three weeks later he had asked me to be his a again and i accepted, like an idiot!! he started using me for my money and lieing to me but everytime i tried to break it off he would have a really good reason and we would try it again till he would dump me! then the same crap would happen again. like now he dumped me yesterday, cold and blunt just kicked me out of HIS HOUSE! and now im sitting here in pain wanting him back! i dnt know wats wrong with me i have never let any guy use me like this! i have such ddep feelings for him im scared to let him go cause i think he might change! wat do i do! hes gonna call me soon i know it! and im gonna give in help i dnt wanna be in the same position i am now! pls! thankyou (link)
omg! that really sucks! Any way, you just have to think to yourself if you could live w/o him, but if you are still mad at him, just start new activities to take your mind off of him, and maybe you'll even meet someone even better. Don't try to do anything stupid to get him back, it's not worth it, he'll probably just turn on you again. And if you think he is missing out on you, he's not good enough for you anyway. So go look for other activities, like bingo night(lol not really),going to the gym(prolly really hott guys there), bike riding, going to the park, just anything pretty much. Hey! you'll also begetting exersice! Good luck! And remember don't wat your time on someone unworthy.


I accidently left my favorite water bottle filled with juice at work over the weekend, and now I can't get rid of the 'rotten smell'. But I don't want to just throw it away - I am quite attached to it.

Is there a way to get a 'bad smell' out of plastic containers? (link)
god. its a water bottle. relax and get another one that looks the same. if it really is that important try doing what they do with skunkified kids, soak it in tomato juice. then the dishwasher. i reccomend filling it with water and soap for a few days. thats what i do for the nasty dishes at my house. never ever spray it with lisol or it will taste like lisol for like ever. good luck und such. tra la la.


Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 there's this boy named chad and he's 17 years old to,but he's autistic and in special education I was wondering How do I get him to stop touching me on the shoulder I've tried telling him to stop and he just dosn't seem to understand what the word no means and he follows me everywhere one time he actually waited outside the girls bathroom door for me How do I get him to leave me alone and understand once and for all what the word no means? (link)
you need to understand that he doesnt understand. you should talk to a teacher and tell them to have him kept away from you if you are that uncomfortable. he cannot control himself. i actually dont see what is wrong with the touching on the shoulder. in my opinion, you just dont want an autistic kid to touch you. just relax spazzo.


Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!! (link)
talk to him. DON'T involve other people. it's just between you an him. and don't say you know cause u dont you just have other grls sayin he does.


ok i think im in love with my ex boyfriend. and i just cant stop thinking about him and i really really miss him. even though im going out with one of his best friends, i just like him, hes ok. but anywayz, i went out with him for 6 months and we got a long great, but then when he broke up with me, i thought i was gonna like die because he broke up with me for this other girl, and now hes going out with her again, and im really upset. when i was talking to him mom, she told me that he still kinda has feelings for me. but i wasnt sure. but now i really want to tell him, but i think hes gonna like not talk to me ne more because hes like one of my good friends and we talk alot.. so what should i do? (link)
tell him you like him. you always feel better when you tell them you like them. if he doesn't talk to you then you weren't meant to be. it's the only way to find out if he likes you too. if your friend doesn't forgive you then she's not a real friend.




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