well i think im fun and i have lots of bestfriends.
i like to hang out and as long as i know u thats good
i was born in seattle and i moved there when i was 9 and now i live in TX i think i like TX better...i miss my old friends but i think it was a good move!
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I used to cut. Not going to go into details, I used to cut and once I thought I went too deep. I've since realized how stupid and dangerous I was being. However, fo whatever reason, I feel the need to do so again. I don't want to, but I'm tempted and I don't know why. Can anyone please help? Please, no jack asses sayin crap about me bein a stupid "emo" and no bad mouthing me just because of something I used to do (link)
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i think your trying to cut cause something that happened b4 in your life somethin like that isbotherin you again...please dont cut...i kno its tempting but wat i do is i take a rubber band put it on my wrist and wenever i feel like cutting i pull the rubberband so it hits my wrist it helps me a lot wen im mad or somethng is bothering me...hope i helped!
please dont cut again
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im in need of a new screen name and i have no clue with ideas!i like the color pink..im in dance and poms..i have blonde hair and green eyes..im preppy and spoiled..i have a guy in my life im crazy about! well theres a few things about me! can you please help me!? thanks a bunches! (link)
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umm im not that good but heres a few
pInKdAnc3R4u
sPoIL3DpR3Pp143
hAwTbLonDI3786
thats all i can think of if you want more just leave one in my inbox!
hope you liked them
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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird? (link)
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shit man thats nasty!
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Ok soo like.. theres this guy, and hes really dead sexi and everything! In other words, hott. And I think he wants me to come over soo he can ask me out but what should I say. I mean, Ive known him for like.. 4 yrs as just friends. But now, I think hes wanting to get, well bf/gf like. Some of my friends are telling me to say no b/c i have to be hard to get but some are saying yes. I mean, I do like him. I have for a while and people told him that i liked him. Sooo idk what to say.. I wanna say yes but I need someones opinion first.. (link)
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lolz! i kno who this is! pluz i already told you...and now your his gf! be happy!
love you lotz
hopeit works out btween you two!
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hey im really nervous of the first day of middleschool. what sould i do to get prepared? my mom sayed that i was making it a big deal but i feel like i wont know where my classes are.
HELP! (link)
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dont worry...i used to think like that too! but i didnt get late to any of my classes...just be sure to not talk too much in the hall or you will be late....i was sooo scared too and i was freakin out but like wen half the day was gone it felt like i had been there for years! and there should be helpers around to help you find your classes...hope i helped...
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I'm nervous about getting my first period. I'm really afrad that it will leak through and everyone will see. I'm jsut getting out of sixth grade and I'm supposed to be getting it soon. Will it leak through my pants?? (link)
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dont worry i used to be afraid of getting mine b4 too...it CULD leak thru...but take a purse to skool and like put pads and shit in there...you are lucky you hvaent started it i hate it! k so like .... if you start getting cramps daily then you might wanna watch out...expect it wen you least expect it...mine started like 2 weeks after i started geting bad cramps like eryday...
dont be nervous...just be extra careful and keep like extra pairs of pants in your locker or w.e
dont worry youll get thru it
hope i helped...
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Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
thank you soo much (link)
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omg! you need to tell your parentz! they cant get mad at you b.c it wasnt your fault in the first place.Then they need to take you to the hospital and then go to the police...dw i kno how it feelz to be that scared...but yoiu need to tell them!
just rmbr that it wasnt your fault and that the guy that did this to you should go to jail.
hope i helped
and im sorry!
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well, a while ago, my friend told me that she had been raped by someone in her family. she said it had been happening since she was like 9 and it recently stopped happining. i really care about this person and i want to tell someone about it, but she made me swear not to tell anyone. im really confused on what to do and whether or not to tell someone about it. she doesnt even like to talk about it but im not sure its the 100% truth or not. what should i do? (link)
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i think that you should tell someone no matter how much they told you to NEVER tell ne one...he could go to jail for this and its against the law to rape some one! i think yoiu should tell if youi really care about this person!
hope i helped!
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This isn't really advice but I need a favour.
I need you to give me ALL the beauty/health tips and secrets you know off the top of your head.
It's for a thing at school (uhm, my teacher..weird much?)
Don't give me sites please just tell me the ones you can think of off the top of your head and if you think of any more you can easily edit your answer.
It's an easy 5.
They can be
Hair, make-up, nails, fitness, health, etc tips AND/or secrets. (link)
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ok...
brush your hair right after you take a shower because it will smoooth out your hair
befor you straighten your hair use the biosilk stuff it makes your hair look silky
dont wear too much make up otherwise it will look like you dont kno how to put on make up
if you put in some kind of oil idk wat kind but its like hair oil it will keep ur hair from drying up and not turn white...you put it in keep it in for like 2 hours or 3 and then take a shower and it will come off
if you have tanned skin do not wear dark blue eyeshadow focus on the naturals like browns and peachish
if you have fair skin focus on naturals and also light colors NEVER if you have white skin wear red or pink it makes your eyes look wierd and never wear dark colors... youll look like a freak!
well thats all i can think of now!
hope i helped!
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okay so there is this guy i like at church and i think he likes me back because he stares at me but i dont talk to him bc our "groups" really dont talk to each other so i cant talk to him and if he does ask me out i dont know what to say because my mom thinks im to young to go out with guys by the way im 14 and i cant talk to her about it because we really dont talk and i really want to but it seems awkward every time i try to talk to her! plz help! (link)
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OMG! thats like the story of my life! but im 13! well...you should ask one of your freinds to go up to him and be like hey so and so likes you and if you like her ask her out...I know its wierd but trust me its betta then like just sitting there knowing he prolly got some1 else! so you might as well try
thankz!
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hey nida its alicia i got an advise column too u inspired me! lol luv ya (link)
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hehe thankz! alicia! i love you!
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ok . I know this guy who really really love. We've been going out for sometime now. 3yrs to be exact. Anyway, my church went on a ski trip and so i invited him to go along. My father shaperoned. BAD IDEA!!!!! my dad flipped and said we couldnt see eachother anymore. i was crushed. What do i do? do i stay with my bf, or live hating my father forever? (link)
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Well first ask him why you cant see your boyfriend...if you want to let your dad hate you then go ahead and stay with your boyfriend but...if you would rather have your father not hate you and have no boyfriend then thats wat you should do theres really no answer to this question... but its the question who you love more and know more. hope i helped
lildesidevil143
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There is this girl who is sooo annoying at my school she thinks im her friend and she smells soo much. I hate her. She is soo annoying. I wanna get rid of her fo real and i dont want to hurt her feelings either what should i do?
Signed by: troubeled girl! (link)
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ok well i thnk that you should like tell her that you think that she is annoying, because there is no way taht you can't hurt her feelings when you want to tell her that you think that she's kind of annoying. So you should tell her. sorry this isnt taht good of advice but it was the best i could do...hope i helped
signed you kno who i am! lol
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okay i like this guyand i dnt koe hoe to get him to like me and he likes somebody and i dn koe who it iz and i really need to find out who he likes and i really like him wut can i do??? (link)
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I think that you should talk to him and let him know how you are and he will like you. I think you shouldn't try really hard to find out who it is because if it's a friend or something then you will fight and you shouldn't. Just try to talk to him so he likes you.
lildesidevil143
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I have lost so many important and special people in my life that now I don't know who to trust anymore. I am getting really close to someone (everyone I get close to is an adult) and I am afraid of getting hurt by her like everyone else I get close to. I have told her this and she says that shes not like the other people, but how do I know. This is a person that I wish were my mother because she is just so incredible and my mom doesnt care about me. What do I do? (link)
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as i told another person what i did was i went and told my friend a secret which was a lie. And then i would go around asking her friends if she said anything about me and if she did then i would like not tell her anything. So i hope this helps with you!
lildesidevil143
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Ok i have this guy friend.I like him as a friend and in 6th grade i went out with him but now he knows who i like and he would say bad stuff about me to them so they wont like me because he wants to go out with me.In class he will just stare at me and it gets annoying.I want to be friends with him but he wants to be more Can u help?
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ummm...tell him how you feel about him doing that. Then if he likes you then hopefully he'll stop to make you feel better.
lildesidevil143
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How, after several years, does someone go about dealing with the grief over the death of a loved one? (link)
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The pain will never go away. It'll still be a memory and a part of who you are you just have to think of the happy times you had with them and live your life. Try to remember how much fun you had with them and know that they are in a better place. tell me more!
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Ok, well ther's this guy who asked me out and I said yes. The onlyproblem is that I'm not allowed to date. But, I am allowed to go out with friends, even a coed group. My question is, what should I do? Should I try talking to myparents about it, or jsut tell them we're going as friends and other ones are going to? I really need advice, none of my friends are helping me!!
If it helps any im 13, hes 14. (link)
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ok you should tell your parents because who knows what will happen if you get caught. If they don't like it that you have a bf then tell them to atleast meet him and see if he's ok. Then if that doesn't work go as friends and probably go to the movies.
lildesidevil143
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Ok, when I was 13 a guy moved in with us after my mom knowing him for 2 months. Everything was fine for a long time. But in the past year he has called me "b***h", (didn't know if I could write it on here) and before I didn't care if someone called me that, but since he has I really don't like that word. And he has also called me stupid. I have told my mom that if it happened again that I would go live with my dad, so what should I do? (link)
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hey ashley,ok, i think that you should tell your mom that you REALLY don't like it that he calls you a bitch, if she's like ok and then he does it again you should tell your dad and if he says that you can move in with him i think you should. The main thing is that it's good that he hasn't done anything to you, but still if he calls you names and stuff then i think that he is metally abusing you and if anything makes you uncomfortable about someone calling you something then i think it is metal abuse. You should talk to your parents because no one has the right to say that to you.
hope i helped
xoxo
lildesidevil143
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Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do! (link)
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i think that you should stay away from him because you never know if he'll do it to you. I hope i'm not hurting your feelings but you know you should stay away from him even if you like him.
lildesidevil143
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