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Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
thank you soo much
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okay well tell them at a time that no ones around or anything and be like ,"mom , dad, i have something important to tell you , so and so.. raped me, i said no but he still did and im sorry" and stuff like that, but you have to do something about it before anything else happens
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girl tell your parents it does not matter how just tell them just tell them as soon as possible. its a horrible thing to go through and it will be with you forever. the most important thing to remember is its not your fault, you didnt do anything wrong and you shouldnt be embarrased. you are gonna need all the help and sapport from family and friends to get through this tough time. so act fast and tell your parents and make sure they contact authorities.
I FEEL FOR YOU MUCH LOVE AND GIRL PLEASE KEEP YOUR HEAD UP
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*jodyfresh*
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hey you really should tell them they can help alot!you must ring the police amd tell them cause another person may get raped by the same person who raped you!they will help you alot will the police and they wont do anythign you dont want them to do!
love kim
good luck
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Oh my gosh I'm so sorry! You really need to tell your parents. If you dont really know who did it you can have a test done. But its really serious that your parents know. heres a rape crisis hotline 888-345-2846! just tell your parents exactly what hapened.
hope i helped,
krissy*
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Let me pose to you this question: Which would you prefer, he (or she) gets away with it and does it to someone else, or people know about what happened and justice takes its course and you move on with your life?
In light of that question, do you really think it matters how uncomfortable it may feel telling your parents about it? Just go one of them and say, "I have something serious I need to tell you," and once you have their attention, just say, "The other night, I was (there), and I was raped." Things will move forward from there.
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Like everyone advises, you should tell your parents, and please keep this in mind. It is never your fault. Even if at first you found yourself alone with this guy, you could not have known what was going to happen and when you said no, he was required BY LAW to stop. I hope your parents call the police on him, because he will continue to do this. He is a sexual predator and needs to be stopped Please follow through on this. Be strong. I hope your parents back you up.
Michele
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I'm so sorry!!! I you must be emotionally distraught so you should just sit your parents down and tell them you have something important to say. Let it out and if you know who did it say the name or if you know what he looks like lock the picture in your mind so the police can get a drawing. Keep going things will get better.
Sincerely concerned
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sweety im sorry that happened to you..trust me your parents are there for you..YOU were the victim and your parents need to know about this to bring that asshole to court, etc. They will not yell at you..they will not be ashamed of you..none of that. Once you tell them your parents will give you a big hug and comfort you...parents are wonderful in that way..and you will feel so much better.
how to tell them..there are options..i cant tell you which i would choose because i have never been raped and if i were who knows what option i would take.
-sit them down alone and talk to them straight out..tell them you have something serious to tell them..and tell them the whole story.
-write a note and leave it somewhere they will find it ..and then go out for the day....school,shopping,friends house. when you get home they will be there for you
-tell a conselor first and have them come talk to your parents with you
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You need to tell soeone. Your parents, the police, a cousenlor, somebody. You might feel embarrassed but someone needs to know so you can go to the doctors and see if anything is wrong. It will help you get it off your chest. You will feel much better. Good Luck!
-- alexis nicole x3
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When i had to tell my parents the guy that nearly attacked me followed me down teh road again, it was really really hard because i felt so stupid about it even when it wasnt my fault. What you have to remember when you are telling them is it wasnt your fault and you have nothing, NOTHING to be ashamed about. If you cant tell them to their face, write a letter to them. Its easier to sill out things to paper rather than to faces.
I hope it all works out hun.
Take care xxx
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you should be straight forward and tell them who did it. it is REALLY serious, and you shouls probably tell the cops also.
-dorinflower55
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I think you should tell your parents. Sit them down in the living room on on there bed just as long as your in a room with you and them. Somtimes its easier to talk to your mom so you can tlak to her. Say mom, Yesterday somthing happened. This is had to tell you and kind of embaresed and tell when where you were rapped and say i was raped. .. Honey thats the best thing is to tell them asap so you cna go to the docters!
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being raped is not your fault you have no control over it so dont feel embarassed that it happened, it happens to a lot of people!..the ones who speak up about it tho get it helped and they feel alot better. you need to tell your parents, just be like "hey mom, dad..we need to talk and its important so i need your full attention"..they'll listen to you, tell them you dont know how to say this but something happened yesterday that they need to know about and help you with, then tell them that you were raped, you might cry when you tell them but they'll be there for you and they're going to have to take you to the hospital and get checked, also take you to the cops. sorry this happened to you!!...good luck!!<33
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okay listen i know someone who was in a similar situation...and you really need to tell your parents. you will prolly end up crying, but thats fine.your parents will understand and something really needs to be done about this. i know it will be very hard, but it is necassary. just sit down with them, maybe you will only feel comfortable with one of them, and just tell them everything. Or everything that you r ready to tell them. i hope all goes well, and i hope i helped. : ). dont worry, it will be just fine.
any other questions you have, feel free to ask.
~*jaimee*~
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omg! you need to tell your parentz! they cant get mad at you b.c it wasnt your fault in the first place.Then they need to take you to the hospital and then go to the police...dw i kno how it feelz to be that scared...but yoiu need to tell them!
just rmbr that it wasnt your fault and that the guy that did this to you should go to jail.
hope i helped
and im sorry!
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you have to tell them. its not embarissing. you need to tell them, and you need to go to the hospital. and you need to get tested, and call the cops on the guy.
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TELL YOUR PARENTS! you need to tell someone. getting raped isnt something that you can get over fast. what yuou can do is arrest the person that did it to. so that he wont be doing this to other eople like he did to you. how to tell you parents: just sit them done with and start crying and explain to them what happened. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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TELL YOUR PARENTS! Sit them down and just flat out tell them..They wont be mad at you! You should have told your parents when it first happened cause they mite not be able to get semin dna if you took a shower...which you probally did. But your parents SHOULD take you to the hospital and call the police. If you know who it was tell them. The hospital will do a rape kit on you basically examine your body for physical evidence they will have to look down there. and if your a virgin u have a pretty good chance at winning the case if it went to court but if you arent a virgin meaning you had sex before then it will be hard cause the kid could always say it was willing and beleive me some courts will believe it.
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To not say anything is wrong also, you need to talk to your parents....would you want this happening to someone else? and knowing how it feels, to have them feel the same as well?
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