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Okay. My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this?
there is two things you can do...1.) Let time heal all wounds 2.) Grow up
im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me!
Ok number one thing im sorry if this hurts you but that is so retarded. If you want him to be happy and you are the one thing that makes him happy then dont break up with him. You obviously still care about him. The only thing that would make you not good enough for him is if you cheated on him. Maybe your the best thing for eachother.
ok ima 15 yr old female and i need sum relationship adivice..me and my exbf chris dated for 4months. i kno that its not a long time at all but we were totally in love. i was his first true love and i was his. we had a long distance relationship and didnt see eachother often but it was all ok bc we were totally in love and realli wanted to be together. well we broke up at the end of august and we talked up until like sept 10th...then sumthing changed and i dont even kno wut. i mean i will always love chris but i do not want to get back wif him bc i cant deal wif the long distance realtionshiop but i do NEED him as a part of my life. stuff has been goin down hill for me since we broke up and i keep gettin worse and worse and i dont kno wut to do anymore. chris was like my angel. without having him as a part of my life it seems kind of pointless. i dont kno wut to do i either have to forget about him and i dont kno how to do that when everything reminds me of him or i have to get him back in my life...and i dont think i have the guts to do that. i just dont kno wut to do anymore htis has been goin on since september and i hate the way i am...im a total emotional wreck and i cant take it anymore..
Hey i have this same prob. Wite me
I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do?
I dont know what you could do to get asleep but i also have that same problem. Everytime i go to sleep i have to have some kind of light on or something with me because i feel like it i dont have one of those two things while i am alone something bad will happen to me. I dont know what it is...i guess me and you could say we are afraid of the dark or whats in it. Ive always had this problem and i get up and walk the house because i always have a bad feeling. I wish i knew what to tell you because i dont like being this way either if u find out something let me know.
I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love his family to death. Since he's away at college they invite me to visit them alot and I stop to see his mom at work whenever I go to the mall. I have a problem, though- I got his Christmas gift and everything, but should I get something for his family? His mom seems like the kind of person that would get something for me, but I would feel really bad if she did and I didn't get them anything, and I bet she would vice versa. He has an older brother, a younger brother, a sister, dog, and mom and dad. They're really nice to me, but I'm lost on the dating/present etiquette here. Should I get them something, and if so, what?
I dont really know what to tell you to get them but, yea you should deffinatley get tehm something. You love your boyfriend but you also have to take into account his family as well. You seem to care alot for them so what could it hurt to show them as well as your bf how much you do care about them all.
Merry Holidays,
Different_Chick
Sorry if this is long!
Ok, I liked this guy and my friend knew so she "hooked me up". The boy lives in my friend's hood. So, my friend said we were going out but we never once went on a date. So, one day he emails me and says, I can't go out with you now sorry." So it was kinda no big deal, but I was going to the movies w/ my friend and this guy. Anyway, I saw him and there was another girl (we are in diff. grades). So, this weekend my friend invited me over and I said yes. My so called "ex" will prob. be there. How can I act like I have moved on and I don't care bout him and I love my life w/o him? Please help, I really need it!
Just dont act it. If you still have feelings for this guy talk it out with him and maybe then you wont have to act like you have moved on. If that doesnt work just either start talkin to some people or convince yourself that you dont like this person.
Good Luck,
Different_Chick
Ok i moved 2 months ago into an apt so I can build a house. But my dad is getting on my last nerves. Hes really my step dad. I even asked my mom to let me find my real dad and let me move with him. I am sooo sick and tired. I am gonna run away if it dont stop. Plus he makes fun of all my poor friends. I hate him. I have a friend whos mom isnt the best and he just talks and talks terrible. I am really skinnby and when I eat alot he will yell the name of my fat friends. Hes a hippocrite!!!!. I am so so so tired of him!!
what do I do?????????
please help1 I will give you a 5. Please I am desprate in need!
There isnt really anything you can really do except tolerate it or tell you step dad how you really feel. This way when he yells at you and you yell at him back he'll know that you two are now fighting on the same level and that you arent afraid of him. Just make sure it doesnt ge too out of hand. Just try and resovle your differences.
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!!
ARE YOU EVEN FREAKING MARRIED FOR CHRIST SAKE! I mean its not a good place to be. Your not married and he could leave You!!! All im saying is just go with your heart and dont give in. Just tell him that you want a child to but you want to be able to give this child whatever he or she will need and that with you current jobs that you wouldnt be able to do that. Just tell him that you think that you both need to have steady jobs and more money before having a child...you want it to have the best dont you?
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