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Blow him off


Question Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 8:32 pm

Sorry if this is long!

Ok, I liked this guy and my friend knew so she "hooked me up". The boy lives in my friend's hood. So, my friend said we were going out but we never once went on a date. So, one day he emails me and says, I can't go out with you now sorry." So it was kinda no big deal, but I was going to the movies w/ my friend and this guy. Anyway, I saw him and there was another girl (we are in diff. grades). So, this weekend my friend invited me over and I said yes. My so called "ex" will prob. be there. How can I act like I have moved on and I don't care bout him and I love my life w/o him? Please help, I really need it!


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Pessy answered Friday December 17 2004, 11:26 pm:
Treat him as you did before you "went out". Be civil towards him, dont be rude even though he did do a rotten thing. Act casual.

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CMONEY08 answered Friday December 17 2004, 10:02 pm:
Well you said that it was "kinda no big deal" when he said that he couldnt go out with you anymore. If you have that attitude now, juss use the same attitude when you all are hanging out. Who knows...maybe you guys can still end up being freinds.

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different_chick answered Friday December 17 2004, 3:58 pm:
Just dont act it. If you still have feelings for this guy talk it out with him and maybe then you wont have to act like you have moved on. If that doesnt work just either start talkin to some people or convince yourself that you dont like this person.

Good Luck,
Different_Chick

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babygrl24 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:43 pm:
Well just take everything cool and be nice and say i to him and be yourself and if he wants to talk to you then talk to him but just if he wants you back think about everything over nice and hard but just really be urself and not anyone else cause then your friend might get a little pissed off about you actin not yourself and you shouldn't have that over a guy that played you.
good luck,
XxshortyxX
P.S.= Hope things go really smooth and you don't have to do anything bad.

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Shortie8959 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 10:39 pm:
Ok, I guess what you could do, is like, if you know he's listening, talk about other guyz, cuz it'll make him good and jealous! Lol. Just don't look at him every now and then to see if he's listening, because then, he might catch on. Another good idea, is like, have a guy friend call you on your cell, and pretend to be like, your boyfriend! Or just have him come too. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Thursday December 16 2004, 9:42 pm:
hm...maybe like talk about other guys or some stuff like that. Don't show interest in him or anything he says but dont come off to bitchy! Talk to him and stuff dont be shy! goOd lUck!

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