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Gender: Female
Location: Chicago, IL.
Member Since: October 25, 2004
Answers: 16
Last Update: December 18, 2004
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On Monday I broke up with my boyfriend that I had been with for almost 9 months. Sunday would've marked 9 months. Anyways, I really love him but I think he deserves someone better. We both knew we'd end up together in the end. Well yesterday we were talking and my friend told me that he told her that he wanted to get back with me so bad but he didn't think I wanted to get back with him. So I told him that I wanted to get back with him more than anything. This was all on the net so he told me that I would have to ask him out in person, which I was planning on doing anyway. Well last night we were happy and we were talking and he said he didn't know whether or not he wanted to get back with me because when we're together we're one and he has no control over his life. I said "I get it.. I'll go" and he said bye forever. He didn't even try to stop me. I told him I was going to do something really bad and he said he wouldn't feel guilty about it. A bunch of things were said between each of us and he ended up saying he wanted to talk to me just not then and he knew we'd end up together in the end. I just don't know what to do. Should I just stop talking to him and try to forget him (impossible), or should I wait? I need help. He was my last hope and last night after we stopped talking I cut myself and OD'd. I'm sorry it's so long but someone please tell me what to do. (link)
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Well don't cut your self over someone who you love and something bad happens.Is there anyway maybe you could talk to someone close to you about this problem?Cause that totally helps.I know completely how its feels and where your commin from.
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i brokeup with my boyfriend but ONLY because he lived so far away and i never got to see him (everyone thought it was because of another guy but it wasn't) and ive been an emotional wreck ever since then, it was like 2 months ago and i still cry like at night and even somtimes if i start thinking about him during the day i go to the bathroom and cry during school... i'm just really confused. i mean, i don't know if i want to ask him for a second chance cuse i dont think i can stand never being able to see him all over agagin :-/ but i really want him back, and i still love him :( what should i do? (link)
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I think that you should maybe see what other people think about it and go by that or you should do what you think in your heart is best for you.It really depends on how far away he is to.
Good Luck,
XxshortyxX
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ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~ (link)
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Well its really hard cause i understand totally where you are comin from but don't feel bad cause just think that she told you that you and him should get together and so she also can't get mad at you if you and the guy do go out cause she wanted you and him to go out in the first place.
good luck,
XxshortyxX
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Sorry if this is long!
Ok, I liked this guy and my friend knew so she "hooked me up". The boy lives in my friend's hood. So, my friend said we were going out but we never once went on a date. So, one day he emails me and says, I can't go out with you now sorry." So it was kinda no big deal, but I was going to the movies w/ my friend and this guy. Anyway, I saw him and there was another girl (we are in diff. grades). So, this weekend my friend invited me over and I said yes. My so called "ex" will prob. be there. How can I act like I have moved on and I don't care bout him and I love my life w/o him? Please help, I really need it! (link)
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Well just take everything cool and be nice and say i to him and be yourself and if he wants to talk to you then talk to him but just if he wants you back think about everything over nice and hard but just really be urself and not anyone else cause then your friend might get a little pissed off about you actin not yourself and you shouldn't have that over a guy that played you.
good luck,
XxshortyxX
P.S.= Hope things go really smooth and you don't have to do anything bad.
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I need to buy somebody a Nintendo DS for Christmas, but I have no idea where. I've called all of the stores in my area, and they are all sold out. I know next to nothing about Ebay, so unless somebody can point me out a few good auctions I have no idea how to use it. Can anybody give me any help as to where to buy one of these? (link)
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Maybe you could get something else cause they aren't really around anymore cause of like X-Box and GameCube and stuff like that.
Good Luck,
XxshortyxX
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I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do? (link)
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I think that you need to make it clear that you really have a problem and if that doesn't work than go see another doctor so you could get some help for that i alwayz have that but i don't care about it cause i dunno i get used to it like that.
love always,
XxshortyxX
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It's only been about a week but my boyfriend and I never talk. We only talk online and hes usually joking around about how he wants me to give him head. I wont, and hes ok with that but he still jokes. I know im young, but hes one of my first real boyfriends. With xmas coming up, i dont wanna break up and not be able to give him his gift. i dont no wat to do to get him to actually talk to me in school and stuff like that. what should i do? (link)
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I would write him letters to him and tell him that you wanna start talkin more like in school and stuff like that and ask him why if he says no cause that means something is goin wrong there and that could cause some problems.
good luck,
XxshortyxX
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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop (link)
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Well i think that he should be able to have some girl friends cause just you think there pretty doesn't mean that their hot or cute to ur boyfrind.I think that you should maybe losin up a little bit and give him a little more freedom and if you start to see things goin on then step in and pull back on some things.
love always,
XxshortyxX
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What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance! (link)
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Well there is a lot of things that are out there.It really is kinda more around what he likes like maybe take him to the movies or bring one over or do things that he likes to do and do that with him.
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Okay, I ALWAYS feel like I am forgetting to do something. Most of the time, I go through the day, and nothing ever comes up where I'm like, "Oh yeah! That's what I meant to do earlier!" But it drives me CRAZY!!! It's like I can't relax until I remember what it is I needed to do, but I never think of anything. I'm seriously starting to think there's something wrong with me, like I have OCD or something. I guess my question is, is there anyone out there with the same problem? Or does anyone know what I can do? And if it helps, I'm an EXTREME overachiever with school and just an overall major perfectionist. I was thinking it had something to do with that, but I don't know. If you can help me, thanks. (link)
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Well that kinda sounds like me but maybe you should say something to your doctor and see what they have to say about it.Its not just you cause everyone is kinda like that like me if that helps!
Love always,
XxshortyxX
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I have a friend that lives quite a way away from me in a different state. We really enjoyed being together at a summer camp, and I really want to stay in touch with her, and "snail mail" goes so slowly. I don't want my parents to find out that I'm constantly sending letters, because she'll think I'm crazy and that I like her and stuff and she'll tell everyone that I know and mess up my life... I know I'm a guy, but how can I just let this be a friendship without people thinkin' I'm serious because I'm not? Thanx in advance! (link)
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Well if she really is a true friend then you should tell her not to say anything and if she doesn't listen to you then that means that she's not a good friend and you could do a lot better.As far as your friends same thing if they can't believe you then they aren't the right kinda friends for you cause a friendship needs to have trust in there and to me t doesn't seem like there is any if your friends can't believ you.Good luck in your advice and if you want to talk more leave things in my inbox.
much love,
XxshortyxX
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Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like over 5 months ago and after that things just went downhill with our friendship, i mean i tried staying friends with him n talking to him but he didnt seem to want to. So like over the past week everytime I see him, I always get a hug and he's always talking to me in the halls. Then I was at my friends house and he just randomly showed up. I thought I was over him, since he never talked to me but now that he's talking to me and being all nice, I can't stop thinking about our past. I dont know what to do. (link)
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If you think that he is totally worth going back for then i think that you should do it.Now if you don't think that it would be good then i wouldn't go back to him.It all depends on what the kinds of things he had done to you in the past like good or bad.GOOD LUCK! i hope for the best!
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my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends? (link)
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One way to know if ur friends are really trustful is to look back and see if they had done something like that to another friend.Also you could see how well do you know them and how often do you guys interact(phone,school,ect.).
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ok here's the scoop. i'm going out with this guy, i'll call him "bob." bob's a sophomore and i'm a senior, and we've been going out for a little over a month. he's the sweetest guy in the world, and i thought i liked him, but now i can't think of him more than a friend. should i give him more of a chance and try and see if i develop feelings for him, or should i tell him that i just want to be friends? thanks so much! (link)
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If you don't have the love feelings for him then i would just get him out of there and be friends because in the long run you will cheat on him and he will find out and then the friendship is over also.
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ok there are two girls... there is this one kind of a teensy bit cute girl at my school who likes me...but every1 thinks she is butt ugly.
there is also this hot girl who everyone thinks is ugly but i think she is rly nice and cute. i liked her in 5th grade but she didnt like me.
who should i like??? (link)
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If i were you in this situation i would go with the one who has a best example and a good outlook on life and things.Also i would go on how well her personality is with others.If something is in her that may get you to look down on things then go to the other girl.
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I can't fully tell if I like this one boy. We're great friends and whenever I sort of start to like him, something inside me says no. I'm 13/F if it helps any. My heart jumps when I'm around him but then I feel like we're just friends. What should I do? (link)
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if I were you i would really just hang
with him and then see if there are more
better things then see if he likes you.
If he does like you then go with him.
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