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she WANTS me to date her ex-boyfriend
ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~
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Well its really hard cause i understand totally where you are comin from but don't feel bad cause just think that she told you that you and him should get together and so she also can't get mad at you if you and the guy do go out cause she wanted you and him to go out in the first place.
good luck,
XxshortyxX
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well if you think it sounds like u could date him and she was the one reccomending it then go for it!!
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Hey, your best friend is TRYING to hook you up! Of course it won't hurt the friendship! You said he seems like a nice guy, so go for it!
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i know you don't want to hurt your friends feelings but if you want to date him and not hurt her feelings ask her if she's being serious.if not it's ok if she says she's being serious go after him if you miss this opportunity it might not come back.....
Lostgirl
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Call him on the phone and talk to him. She has given you her blessing. She obviously cares enough about you both to make sure that you are happy.
I actually sort of did this once. My friend started dating my fiancee with my blessing (well I didn't offer him up, they both asked me). I said that it was ok. They actually got married. I don't hang out much with them since I moved away from home, but they have 2 kids. So as long as she truly doesn't mind, it could be wonderful.
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It would be a good idea if you date adam nichole. You guys would make a good couple!
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THERE ARE NO SUCH THINGS AS RULES!!! People just do not seem to understand that! Talk to her, sit down with her, and ask her if shes totally serious. if she isnt as much as you want, dont date him. if she really thinks that should happen, then you should date him. this really lies with you and ur friend.
**_Nicole_**
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well, I think that you should go ahead and date him. But make sure it's completely ok with ur friend. And maybe she just wants you to date him so she knows how he's doing.And take it this way that maybe she's helping you get a good bf!
hope this helps!
aliya
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Have you even met this boy? How can you be a girlfriend to a complete stanger? Don't start a relationship just because someone else thinks you should. And even if you did decide to date him, how would you even see eachother, you can't even drive. I'd say forget about it.
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OK, the rule when I was your age was, no going after your bestfriend's ex, unless you have approval. This is usually because emotions are hard to handle at that age and relationships never seem to end... Everyone is still up one another's butt in school. I think you should go on a date with him. If your friend acts any differently toward you afterward, talk to her. Decide then if you want to continue dating the guy or not. Don't throw away what she's offering you and him. It is healthy that she has gotten over him enough to see the two of you would be compatible. Go for it! Luck and Love!
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