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hi i'm kirsten,

my real name is johanna but i ahte that name..
i'm from the phillipines which is in asia but i live in Chesapeake,Va.
i'm 14 and i'm very good at advice for other people.so don't mind e-mailing me......

advice

i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do?

okay first you need to confront your friend.dont PURPOSELY hurt him but tell him its uncomfortable to you that he's acting as if he's stuck to you.tell him it's okay that he likes you but you're taken and you want him to respact that and keep your space.also tell him you really dont WANT to hurt him in any way but it's reality.

you're in love with you're boyfriend dont let anyone ruin that feeling...but dont be too harsh.

johanna.
-i hope this helped!

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There is this guy in my class [i like him]...i think that MAYB just mayb he mite like me...
Reasons Why...
*Sometimes I see him look at me
*He talks softly round me
*Acts tougher around me
*Smiles when i smile at him
*Trys to make me Laugh
Does this mean he mite like me? plz give me ur best advice!*i rate*

x0x Thankz...
Questions I Cant Answer

hey if you think he likes you then kind of flirt back......make him know you like him back,don't make him uncomfortable.....go nice and easy ,eye him,pop up something to talk about.act normal like you don't know he likes you but act attractive to him.show him you have interest in him.....in most words he likes you ,but if you say this out loud he might deny it so b patient with him

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I havent seen my best friend in less then a week and already I miss him sooo much. we only live about 20 mins away from eachother but i wish that I could see him more often.I heard that last weekend when i saw him i was supposed to get asked our by him and he didnt ask me out? why not.I really want to go out with him really bad but I dont want to ask him about it. I love him soo much!And I kno that he loves me. We always make out and shit when we see eachother but it has never gotten past that.I want to go farther with him bc I think that it is right too do. I think that he would but I dont want him to turn me down. We used to talk about doing more but we never have actually done more. I used to think about having sex with him and to be honest I really want to. He isnt a virgin and I am. I just want to be alone with him so that we can talk and be more serious with eachother. What should I do? How do I bring it up to him ?

*thanks sami

i don't think you should have sex because you're a little too young though i might say go after him if you really think you love him just don't have sex until your not guessing your ready.in other words follow your heart that's the only way you'll know that you're right

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ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~

i know you don't want to hurt your friends feelings but if you want to date him and not hurt her feelings ask her if she's being serious.if not it's ok if she says she's being serious go after him if you miss this opportunity it might not come back.....


Lostgirl

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