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second chance?
i brokeup with my boyfriend but ONLY because he lived so far away and i never got to see him (everyone thought it was because of another guy but it wasn't) and ive been an emotional wreck ever since then, it was like 2 months ago and i still cry like at night and even somtimes if i start thinking about him during the day i go to the bathroom and cry during school... i'm just really confused. i mean, i don't know if i want to ask him for a second chance cuse i dont think i can stand never being able to see him all over agagin :-/ but i really want him back, and i still love him :( what should i do?
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I think that you should maybe see what other people think about it and go by that or you should do what you think in your heart is best for you.It really depends on how far away he is to.
Good Luck,
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I would say give it a second chance. But like, instead of seeing like, once a month, try maybe seeing a movie every now and then, or just hang out! Don't worry, it'll work out! Good luck w/ everything!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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I think that if you really like him you should give him another chance...But compromise...I mean try to do something like go over to his house every Saturday or meet somewhere in between,it will work out :) don't get too stressed about it!
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Well, not to recite the obvious, but you have your choice: You've already begun the getting over him part, you can continue to do that or you can try again. It depends if you're willing to be in touch with him without seeing him. It can be kind of fun, though. I did that in junior high, I had this boyfriend that I never saw because he lived far away, but it was really fun to get pictures of him and letters and stuff. Then I got bored of it. That may be the easiest way, to try again and let yourself get bored of the long distance relationship thing. But you can always stay friends anyways.Try not to be so sad. Just do what you feel most comfortable and happiest doing. Wishing you the best, sweetie :)
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You'll never know until you ask.
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Well if i were you I would talk to him about how you still feel about him. and if things work out good you should try and ask him out don't do it right away though becuase your going to probally break your heart even more. I know how it feels to be like that but it was a different situation. It's hard, but you have to try as hard as you can to get through it and go on.
goddluck
~!Chelly!~
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look you broke up with him once b/c he lives far away you can still love him and think of him and mabe be friends but i think a relationship is out of the question try and find a new love intrest
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hey!
The only reason you broke up with him was because he live so far away right? Well has he moved any closer? If not, and if having him living so far away is really important to you, then by asking him for a second chance your only going to put yourself through more misery.
The second thing is 2 months of distress, is way to much. Get your mind off him! Prolonged sadness like this isn't healthy. Is there no one else you like?
Well my advice is to do your best to stick it out, because asking him for a second chance will only make things worse. You'll end up right where you are now again.
Good luck,
-MilkCARton08
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hey im jeska!
wow thats tough.. i think you should talk to him and tell him whats going.. like i really hate it that we had to break up and fully explain it to him how your feeling and all.. tell him you cant live w/out him but a long distance realshonship just isent gonna work and... tell him like hes one of your bestfriends and you dont want to lose that and that you hope you can see him and talk again... i really dont like it when people are sad!! so hope you get better!
love always jeska
write me back if you want to id love to hear from you!!
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I know how you feel. Life is so confusing. You HAVE to try to move on it's the best for you and trust me it won't be that bad try to fidn someone else to hang out with surroudn yourself by your friends and keep yourself busy..its hard but u have to try for yourself
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I'll tell you what I told another girl who asked a similar question. Those who do not believe a long distance relationship can work have no luck in carrying on a relationship of any kind themself. Those who believe longdistance relationships can work out and last are those who have the most success in a relationship. If you really love him and if he really loves you, you can MAKE it work. Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a reminder of just how strong true love can be. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I've been with him for nearly seven months and I'm the happiest I've ever been. I personally think that long distance relationships are stronger relationships just because of the fact that you are able to have a relationship without the other person being in the same town or school as you. You still love him. Does he still love or like you? Talk to him, ask him if he'd want to try it again. Ask him back out. Plus, when you do see him after a while of not seeing him- the excitement between the two of you is priceless and the most amazing feeling in the world when you get to be in his arms after not seeing him for a while. That's what I love the most about long distance relation ships. If you think it can work then it will work. Also, a relationship isn't all just one person. You both have to work at it and make it work, not just you and not just him. Hope you feel better. Hope this helped.
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you should talk it over with him! long distance relationships can be hard, but they aren't impossible. tell him that you still have feelings for him. if he wants you back too, discuss ways to make it work. maybe you could arrange to meet at least two times a month, maybe on a weekend or during a break. call him more so you can talk about what's going on in your lives. if he doesn't want to go out with you again, it's not the end of the world. if he doesn't feel the same anymore, then it's not true love. of course you would be crushed, but you could get over him. Write your feelings in a journal or have a talk with your best friend. over time you'll learn to let go. i really hope he still has feelings for you, though! if you work at it, you can make the relationship work.
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