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Make up or Break up?
It's only been about a week but my boyfriend and I never talk. We only talk online and hes usually joking around about how he wants me to give him head. I wont, and hes ok with that but he still jokes. I know im young, but hes one of my first real boyfriends. With xmas coming up, i dont wanna break up and not be able to give him his gift. i dont no wat to do to get him to actually talk to me in school and stuff like that. what should i do?
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talk to him about it.. because part of having a relationship is talking... and if you cant talk to this guy... hes certainly not what you want to call a boyfriend... and i know that is harsh but a boyfriend is someone you can talk to and be with when things go bad... hes someone that you can talk to... if you cant talk to your boyfriend without kidding... then hes not the boy for you... and i had this prob with like jsut wanting a guy there... but like i found someone and i could tlak to them about ne thing and im happy... if your not happy then i wouldnt stay with him... just talk to him about it and maybe he will understand...
hope i helped love carebear
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I would write him letters to him and tell him that you wanna start talkin more like in school and stuff like that and ask him why if he says no cause that means something is goin wrong there and that could cause some problems.
good luck,
XxshortyxX
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Tuh,if he's not going to talk to you in school,what's the point? But if you really like him and want him to talk to you tell him that...Really it's not that hard...Or you approach him and start a conversation,be yourself!
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Well, you dont want to do something you will regret. I think its kind of grose but i guess thats me. I could never put a guys thing in my mouth. but do what you want to do, im not telling you not to do it, im just telling you, i think you shouldn't. Hope I helped.
Lovies,
Bree
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i say you should just walk up to him at school and talk t him.....try to cudle a little and he will come around....if you go up to him he will get the hint and he might smarten up.....if not just dump him man....and just keep the gift for a boy-friend you might have at valentine's day..........i'm here if you have anymore questions ok...bye bye
xoxoxo
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That might be a problem until he starts taking you seriously. Did you try talking to him in school since he won't talk to you? Just be around for him, I guess and whatever he wants to do should be cool. Except head.
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Don't let anyone ever pressure you into doing what you don't want to do - which includes that! If you truly don't want to - then don't. Also, you don't need a guy who would break up with you if you didn't do that for him. Also if you want to actually *talk* in school - talk to him less online. Have at least a 5 minute conversation with him or go on a date, because, you know that's what couples do! So good luck, and remember don't let him pressure you into anything because it's not worth it - even if he breaks up with you over that.
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It's really immature of him to be rude like that online and then be too shy to talk to you in person. I know you want to make it last because he's one of your first "real" boyfriends, but this one doesn't sound so great. Keep in mind that there are plenty of fish in the sea. If you really want this one to stick around though, talk to him in person. It'll give him a reality check. Tell him that if he wants to start having girlfriends, he needs to start acting decent.
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hey!
He Doesn't notice you in school, you only talk online, and when you do he is busy making sexual jokes... I'm sorry but this doesn't sound like a REAL boyfriend to me.
You sound like a sweet girl, but a little naive. I hope the gift is returnable!
Dump him!
- MilKCARTON08
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