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Can anyone tell me the right way to shave down there? I shave down there, but after shaving I still feel hair, especially on the lips. I have a really hard time shaving the lips, is there an easier way to shave them? (link)
hey,
if your really bushy start cuting the hair with a pair of sisors and just hold the lip and shave it and then after you shave down words and for the rest of the hair upwords and then put non-perfumed cream on it and that should do it.....hope i helped


well.. the guy i like wants to finger me and i told him he could and..i know that we won't talk about it anymore i know that its just going to happen, and i just started using tampons the really little ones and.. i've never done anything else .. "downthere" so im pretty tight, and i know all guys automatically think "ohh use two fingers" is it going to hurt really bad? should i judt deal with it and it will get better? (link)
hey,
maybe tell this guy to just use one finger to start withand most ppl say it hurts the first time but it will eventually get better dont worrie about it.....hope i helped


I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..

Boy I feel stupid :( (link)
hey hun,
ya well i think your maybe overdoing it.....dont do it so offten and maybe like even 3 or 4 times a week if it hurts so bad....and maybe start talking about maybe him eating you out because it hurts way less and it feels better if done right....hope i helped and feel free to ask any more questions if you have them


Im a male. Theres a Girl I really like. I don't think theres a possibility that she likes me back. I don't want to do anything wrong to get her to like me. I dont even know how to act around her. Do you have any suggestions on how to get her to like me? (link)
you cant really get her to like you if she doesent the best thing is just to show her how you feel and f she likes that then good if not well forget about her


Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?


thnx for the help>> roxy (link)
alright obviously your ready but no i unless you you have sex or oral sex your alright but if you really want to make sure just get him to clean his hands first and you wont get hurt if he takes it easy and if he is gentle so ya and if you need anymore advice feel free to ask me


I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I? (link)
k man your not retarded your actually a really sweet person...lol i think what you did for that man is something other people wouldent do and thats what makes you a good person at heart and for the not eating thing.....dude thats not cool.....try to just at leased eat a lil something for lunch and super and i think for alot of people its depressing at home because well for me i hate it because i dont get to see most of my friends and like maybe its the same for you but ya most peple do feel that way also.....anyways if you ever need more advice feel free to ask me anything


my sister broke up with her bf last night becasue all he did was talk abotu ho upset he was abotu things. tom orrow is christmas and i dont want her to be upset @ christmas usualy she tells me things but right now she won t talk to me what can i do to cheer her up. (link)
hey

i know you want to help but the best thing you can do for her is bring her ice-cream.....that can help eas break up pains and dont try to make her be happy she will get there on her own but like just be there for her and DO NOT talk about guys just like maybe take out an old photo album and show her pictures of you and her as babyz or something and just be there for her and make her smile with good old memories.......anyways if you need anymore advice dont be shy to ask me


Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon? (link)
probably but me myself i get cravings for salty foods but ya it might just mean your going threw puberty but yes your period is to be expected.....the blood i dont quite know about but if you get really really bad cramps in between your hips you will have them....and dont be embaressed about leting your mom know because she wont care....she will be there to help....anyways if you need anything else just e-mail me


Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot! (link)
hey
lol you dont know how much you sound like me but i asked that 2 years ago when i was just a lil younger then you....lol anyways no your not abnormal....trust me....it just means that your body wouldent be ready for carying a baby yet and it doesent matter if your mom and sis had them at 12-13 cuz its pretty much always i lil different it just depends how your built......like my mom started her periods when she was 10 and i started themwhen i had just turned 14 so its alright....you will get them soon enough......just try to put on a lil weight......that usually works......i was really really skiny befor and i saw that i was putting on weight but i wasent eating more or anything so thats how i knew that i was gonna have them......anyways if you need anymore help just e-mail me and i'll do the best i can but i have prob..been threw it so ya i can prob really help


I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal? (link)
alright now....dont panic......your not insane.....some people think of things like that as either a final way to get somebody's attention or maybe in your mind you really want more love or just affection so maybe its a way for your mind to tell you that you want more attention......all i'm saying is dont let your mind take you over......suicide is never the answer.....anyways if you need anymore help just e-mail me...i'm here



Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help.... (link)
hey
alright well as i can see you dont want to take it to the next level because it seems to me like your hiding being your parents....but if your really into going further....go for it....its a natural thing to do but dont think that you should if you dont want to.....if he really likes you....he will wait after all your only 13 and you shouldent feel presured to do things you dont want to do.....me personally i havent gone gone to the next level with my boy-friend and he respects that so ya......i'm 15 and i'm not ready to go all the way so you shouldent have to feel like you should if you dont want to and if he dosent respect that tell to get!!lol anyways if you need anymore help just e-mail e and i'll help!!
xoxox


It's only been about a week but my boyfriend and I never talk. We only talk online and hes usually joking around about how he wants me to give him head. I wont, and hes ok with that but he still jokes. I know im young, but hes one of my first real boyfriends. With xmas coming up, i dont wanna break up and not be able to give him his gift. i dont no wat to do to get him to actually talk to me in school and stuff like that. what should i do? (link)
i say you should just walk up to him at school and talk t him.....try to cudle a little and he will come around....if you go up to him he will get the hint and he might smarten up.....if not just dump him man....and just keep the gift for a boy-friend you might have at valentine's day..........i'm here if you have anymore questions ok...bye bye
xoxoxo


14/female Okay well this is going to be long, so I'm just going to warn you ahead of time, but please help. Well, a friend of mines mother has tumors in her head. Well about a month ago they were removed and there was this tube thing that the doctors put in her. Well less than a week ago the tumors came back and she had to go to the hospital for surgeory. I was pretty close w/ my friends mom and it's hard for me and one of my other friends to deal with it, and so were thinking about how our friend who's going through it is feeling. Well the girl who's mother is in the hostpital (Brittany) is being checked for tumors, and we just found out that she has one and will be getting her head shaved. Well a few of us girls (about 5) and a few close guy friends (about 10) were thinking of shaving our heads/cutting our hair really short. If you were the girl Brittany, how would you react to that? Would you think it's kind of mean/too hard to handle, or do you think it's a good gesture? I am so willing to do it because it's such a great friend, but I want some other opinions, the guys are defninitley doing it, and I got her a bunch of x-mas gifts and we've talked a lot. Brittany is very sensative when it come to her mom and her own problems and we think she'll either be sooo happy that she'll shed some tears of joy, or sooo sad that she won't be able to face us 'bald'. I know you guys don't know her, but if it were you, how do you think you'd respond. Again, I apologize for the lenght, I just wanted to add some detail, and sorry if it's confusing I tried to make it not confusing, but it still sounds that way to me. Thanks in advance for any help. (link)
alright....i just want to start out by saying that what you are saying is encredibly sweet and that your friend (brittany) might act a little insulted but she will really be greatful that she has friends that care for her so much that they would do that for her so i say go for it.....it would be a major compliment to her....well....being in her situation anyways so ya


and if you have any more problems feel free to ask me.....bye bye


Does piercing your belly button hurt?! and on a scale 1 to 10 ..10 being the most painful and 1 being the least please hurry!!!! (link)
no.....a belly botton peicing does not hurt.......its like a 1 for me but its different for others....i got a tattoo done so the peircing is nothing..lol....go for it...its worth it....just dont tense up when getting it done....try not to think about it and you wont scare yourself silly




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