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well.. the guy i like wants to finger me and i told him he could and..i know that we won't talk about it anymore i know that its just going to happen, and i just started using tampons the really little ones and.. i've never done anything else .. "downthere" so im pretty tight, and i know all guys automatically think "ohh use two fingers" is it going to hurt really bad? should i judt deal with it and it will get better?
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it wont really hurt!!i promise!! it will hurt for like 2 minutes or so but it wont hurt that bad!! so yea i hope that helped!! sincerly *sami*
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HEY... yeah it will probably hurt since you haven't done anything "down there" but since you used tampons it might not be that bad. HAVE FUN. *hope i helped*
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hey,
maybe tell this guy to just use one finger to start withand most ppl say it hurts the first time but it will eventually get better dont worrie about it.....hope i helped
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If you are uncomfortable then dont do it. Not all guys use 2 fingers. You are just believing from what you hear. Dont do that-trix
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well yeah it might i wouldn't know...but if you don't want to do it don't. don't let a guy pressure you
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N0 iT SH0ULDNT HURT -- MAYBE AT FiRST iT WiLL BUT AFTER iTLL FEEL G00D
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Just tell him that you haven't done anything "below the belt" before and for him to start of with 1 finger. Then maybe he can use two fingers. Just make sure he's not too rough. It shouldn't hurt, once you get used to it.
♥ Krissy
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it wont hurt that much but if he sticks his fingers down there to for it can pop your cherry exspecially with 2 fingers with one it would be ok but its not going to hurt when he fingers you but most likly he will use one finger only old men in there 20's use 2
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I assume your boyfriend knows that you haven't done anything for the most part... so if this is the case, chances are, if he is smart, he is goign to be gentle. Especially since it is yuor first time. Most guys are considerate and they aren't goign to try to put you through any major discomfort. But if you do begin to feel some pain, let him know... don't be nervous to tell him to be a little more gentle! However i promise that it doesn't hurt enough to be a big deal at all. At the most you may experience a slight discomfort but thats about it. Nothing that you need to be worried about! Have fun hun! ;)
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sounds like your not ready. But, idk. All i know is if you realize your not ready, tell him. Dont do anything for a friend or bf/gf. You need to do whats right for YOU not for anyone else. You dont wanna be his puppet. But if your ready...umm depending on how close you are him yer nervous or something...or just see what happens. But if you're the slightest bit not ready, dont do it. hope i helped
xoErica
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dont do it its disgusting!
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