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Hey.. I am 15/f and I like to give advice...
E-mail: lilgiggles705@yahoo.com
Location: CA
Occupation: *HiGh ScHoOl*
Age: 15
AIM: xxwildtragirl
Member Since: January 12, 2005
Answers: 11
Last Update: January 16, 2005
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Sorry for the length. Yes, I know that weed is bad for you, but I kind of got pressured into smoking a ganga(sp?) today. It was like a crash burn type of thing, I took two hits, but on both of them I messed up, I sucked in, held it, swallowed but only a little swallow, then blew, so I didn't really get anything. I was wondering, if I had gotten something, what are the chances of getting hurt on the 1st try? Can you die from the first try of weed. I think next week my friends wanted me to try a black and mild (the one's that smell really good) I know it's illegal and all that, I just wanted to know the chances of like dying or passing out, or blacking out on the first try, and only one or two hits. I know this kid at our school who had extesy, and about 30 of something, but he was like forced it or something, and he blacked out and when someone else woke up, the kid (Winston) had no pulse and had died from OD. Can you OD off of only no more than 3 hits of weed? What are some consequences besides death, or like consequences and how long it takes for those consequences to come in effect. I know it's a dumb question, and I could probably google it or something, but I'd rather ask it here. Thanks. (link)
HEY... You can't die from smoking weed your first time especially if its only 1 or 2 hits. You'll be VERY high but you won't die unless you do something to kill yourself. And you can;t die the first time you smoke a black. But when you smoke a black, make sure you some body spray because you can smell it on you. Don't smoke at school because it doesnt make you look cool, it makes you loook stupid. have fun. *HOPE I HELPED*


Last year i went to this valentines day dance. my best friend had a girlfriend and i didnt and i felt like a "tag-along". he has so many girls that like him and i think it might happen again this year. i was thinking that i might try to ask someone too but i dont really like anyone so i dont have anyone to ask. I was just going to find someone that i liked a little bit and ask her but im not sure. Should i ask somebody or should i go alone like last year? What should i do? Please help. (link)
HEY... i think you should ask someone. If you dont them alot, maybe you guys can get to know each other and you will be spending time with each other. GO0D LUCK *hope i helped*


ok...here's the thing! i hate doing hw! it takes me HOURS to do just one subjust. i get really distracted easily and i try not to but it's really hard. PLEASE HELP ME! my grades r gettin' kinda low and i ubur wanna call fone for the summer b/c if i get like 3 or 4 A's i get one! anyways....please help (link)
HEY.. well, since you get distracted easily, you should just go in your room and do your homework and make sure the radio,t.v. and computer are not on. After working for 2 hoursb take a 15 minute break to eat a snack. *hope i helped*


this is not good at all. one of my best friends (lets call her Sarah but thats not her real name) i think is a compulsive liar. she lies about everything...or so we suspect. her cousin told me that a disease like that runs in her family. but she lies about everything. here are some of the things:
-she told me she got raped and went to court for it. one time she told me she went to court at 8:00p.m but court isnt open that late
-she told me she has a boyfriend but nobodys ever talked to him except on AIM (and she has 2 computers so it might just be her) and yeah, she gave us a picture of him but its weird because i found the exact smae picture on BuddyPic and the names didnt match up
-when i talk to her on AIM she always says i feel so sick im gonna go make myself throw up im anorexic
-she told me she had a signature of somebody famous that i really like and she said i could have it. then next day she came in with it and it looked NOTHING like the real signature and it looked like her handwriting

there are more things but im just too stressed out. i DO NOT want to talk to her about it because one of my other friends confronted her about the lying and she almost commited suicide. she's really scaring me. she lied about getting RAPED...or so we THINK cause its not 100% sure. i tried to talk to my best friend about all this cause he knows whats going on with Sarah, but he told me that he belives her about all this because nobody else will. its freaking me out...a lot. i love her so much and i dont want to lose her. but i cant believe anything she says! and im afraid that if one day something bad really does happen, im not gonna beleive her. what should i do? PLEASE HELP! i have more info if you need it...just ask for my email. (link)
okay... I think she's just lying for attention. Which is not a good thing... Lying about getting raped is SERIOUS! and shouldnt be joked around. If someone finds out she been saying that someone raped her and they didnt, she could get sued. Its one thing to lie about a famous person's signature but rape?? your friend has some problems and she wants a lot of attention. You need to talk to her about it so she knows that you know, shes lying and let her know she doesnt need to lie to fit in... *Hope i helped*


i really want a boyfriend! i feel like all my friends have boy friends and i dont! i want to ask this one kid out but i dont think he likes me like i like him. how can i find out? (link)
HEY... A good way to find out if he likes you is to flirt with him, and if he flirts back he has some feeling for you. and just take it from there. HAVE FUN! *hope i helped*


Ok, My boyfriend and I got in a fight that got misunderstood and now my Boyfriend doesn't want to be with me anymore... I feel awful!! What should I tell him??? He knows it was misunderstanding but he doesn't belive me!! PLZ HELP SOON!!! (link)
HEY... Jus tell him your sorry about the misunderstanding and you didn't mean it the way you said it or what you did. Tell him you really like him(or love him) and you don't want to break up! GOOD LUCK *hope i helped*


I'm about to buy a new straightener and I wanna make sure I get a good one this time.. I need some advice on what kind of straightener to get (cereamic, glass, gold, etc). I want one that will NOT ONLY straighten my hair really well, but also make it STAY straight all day. What do u all recommend? (something cheap, not over $30) Thanks!! i'll rate HIGH!! (link)
HEY! I have a ceramic straighener and it works good. I'm black so I have thick hair and it straightens my hair good. You can get it from Beauty Supplies stores. Mine cost $45 but it was worth the money. You said your limit is $30 and you can find an okay ceramic straighner for that much but the more expensive the better. But ceramic straighnter is the best way to go!! *HOPE I HELPED*


Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help! (link)
HEY... I don't mean to be negative or bring you down but you have to wait 6 weeks after when your suppose to have your period before the pregnacy test will say that your pregnant. SORRY! :( but don't get worried. Be safe *i hope i helped*


well.. the guy i like wants to finger me and i told him he could and..i know that we won't talk about it anymore i know that its just going to happen, and i just started using tampons the really little ones and.. i've never done anything else .. "downthere" so im pretty tight, and i know all guys automatically think "ohh use two fingers" is it going to hurt really bad? should i judt deal with it and it will get better? (link)
HEY... yeah it will probably hurt since you haven't done anything "down there" but since you used tampons it might not be that bad. HAVE FUN. *hope i helped*


I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..

Boy I feel stupid :( (link)
There's nothing you can really do.. He can try to go slow. You probably bled because he ripped some skin. If you've never had anything done to you "down there" than its natural for it to hurt because your skin is streching! IM me if you need anything else!! HAVE FUN!! *hope i helped*


like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant? (link)
NO your not preganant... The only way you can get pregnant is if his penis goes into your vagina. Your period is probably late. Dont worry about it, your fine hun! IM me if u need anything. *hope i helped*




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