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Im not sure
I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..
Boy I feel stupid :(
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u probly poped your cherry
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well the bleeding could of accured because he either broke your hymen (popped your cherry) or scratched you. nothing major. if its your first couple times doing stuff down there, then this is why you are experiencing pain. it is because your tight and you are being stretched, once you loosen up it wont hurt anymore. so tell him to either use less fingers than usual or just to slow it down a bit. also you could try to get him to eat you out. if it is done right, it will feel good. and it wont hurt either.
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There's nothing you can really do.. He can try to go slow. You probably bled because he ripped some skin. If you've never had anything done to you "down there" than its natural for it to hurt because your skin is streching! IM me if you need anything else!! HAVE FUN!! *hope i helped*
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0KAY JUST TELL HiM N0T T0 USE AS MANY FiNGERS 0R S0 DEEP - AlS0 LET HIM TRY T0 EAT Y0U 0UT iT FEELS S0 G00D AND D0ESNT HURT AT ALL!
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hey hun,
ya well i think your maybe overdoing it.....dont do it so offten and maybe like even 3 or 4 times a week if it hurts so bad....and maybe start talking about maybe him eating you out because it hurts way less and it feels better if done right....hope i helped and feel free to ask any more questions if you have them
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Just ask him to use 1 finger, so it doesn't hurt as much. Then maybe when you feeling alright with that, he can use 2. If he's hurting you, you chould tell him to lay off the going so hard on you and ask him to do it easyer.
♥ Krissy
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Tell him not to do it so hard or maybe he is using to many fingers. I think the first time that I got fingered I bled like for a sex. Just dont let him do it so hard, but soon the hurting will stop. Rate me!Hope I helped!
**Sami Ann**
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Dont feel stupid..its a normal problem.Some optoions to help ease the pain is
A) hav him perform oral on you first..this way your wetter down there..or use lubrication.
B) telll him to go easy for awhile because your hurtin..tell him maybe just rub your clitoris for now.
C) make sure his nails arent too long becausee tha doesnt help lol
-melissa
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Have him use 1 finger.. and not so much pressure maybe his nails are to long-trix
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