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Hey, I'm Charlotte and I'm 14 years old. Go ahead & ask me anything, anytime. If you don't like the advice, don't use it. I'm not telling you what to do.

If you see a question that's already answered, don't ask it again. I love getting rated & good feedback, but please don't give me bad feedback, I won't appreciate it.

Yeah, that's about it.. so ask me anytime!

♥ Charlotte

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ok so ive liked this kid named Randy ever since the 7thgrade and he never knew it b.c he was a grade higher then me now iam a 9th grader and he's in my french class. we grew a big friend ship like OMG u have no i dea how great the friendship was. yeh so then my friends told him that i liked him and then we became even more closer. but now i have a bf and he's everything i ever wanted but ever since he found out about my bf we've been fighting lateley. and i think i still may like Randy. so give my advice he's killing me.

okay..

so you really need to decide on who you like, your current boyfriend, or Randy. because, if you still like Randy more than your boyfriend, you might want to ease out of your relationship, because it will just hurt your boyfriend more in the end if you end it without notice.

but, you could always find out if Randy likes you as well, which it seems he does considering he got closer to you when he knew you liked him. So, if Randy likes you.. the final decision is up to you....

Randy... or your boyfriend?

i hope i helped!

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Hello, my name is Bill, and I'm a 15 year old male. At my school there is a girl I like, named Courtney. I have known Courtney for a few years, and last year I started having more feelings for her. I told her I liked her, but she wasn't sure of her feelings, some people said she liked me and some people said she didn't, so I was very confused. What made it worse was Courtney and I had a fun relationship, she was really funny and was probably the best friend I had that was a girl. When she found out I liked her, she didn't feel as comfortable around me, and we didn't talk very much. Well over the summer I didn't see her much and I lost some of the feelings I had for her, but I still liked her a little bit. When we came back to school, she talked to me normally again, she was more comfortable around me and we talked a lot. I know her family and they know me, and they are very nice people. We still talk a lot and hang out, but usually in a group environment. In the past month I have started to like her very much again, but I haven't told her for fear of what happened last year will happen again. People tell me that last year was different and that she is different now. Others still tell me that she isn't sure who she likes. I know her very well and I don't want to lose my relationship with her again, but I really like her and I just want to tell her. She is a very amazing person, and I not only like her for her looks (though she is very beautiful), but I love her personality. Every time I see her I just can't help smiling. But there is the down side to telling her, please help me out on this one, I'm very confused. Thankyou very much for reading that and I look forward to hearing from you!

Well, first of all if you have "girl" friends that are her friends, try to find out if she likes you or not. And if that doesn't work, I'd try getting her attention, maybe do a little not-so-obvious flirting.. but enough to maybe let her know that you are interested.

Then, after a little while of this, try telling her that you like her, but if she doesn't feel the same then tell her that you don't want your relationship to be any different than it was before, with the comfort level and such. =)

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well my best guy friend (friend with benifits) has his birtday coming up and i really want to get him something but i have no idea what to get him.i really care about him and want to get him something very special but i dont know what.Any ideas?

well, it depends on what he likes. If he's into sports, get him a hat from his favorite team, or maybe tickets to a game if that's not too expensive. But, it would help if i knew what he liked, so ask again so i can give you a better answer.

ask anytime

>:

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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



13/f

if you are thirteen, then it is normal to kiss people. in a relationship for about a month before you kiss him at this age, when you get older, maybe sooner. But after six months, either he's nervous, or he's not interested. I told my mom about my first kiss, but none after. if you want to tell her, go ahead, but if you feel uncomfortable sharing that with your mom, then wait a little while until you want to tell her.

hope i helped! ask me anytime.

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Otay.. Im a good advice giver and all.. But right now i need some advice from some1 else. Okay well theres this boy i really really like.. And we used to go out but then i broke up with him .. Wanna know the reason? So do i.. I dunno.. I was just in a bad mood and he happened to tick me off and i told some1 i was thinking about taking a break and next thing i know she told me she called him and told him it was over.. So after that.. We were akward around each other for the next few months.. But now were like.. bestfriends again.. And now hes off doin his own thing with his love life.. hes already been out with another girl and he likes this girl right now.. And thats sorda my problem.. Im still crazy about this guy.. And Im SICK AND TIERD OF BEING HURT, cuz everytime he talks about her or even says her name i get upset.. And The thought of never being able to be with him again hurts just as bad.. And my problem is.. I have been thinking latly.. That maybe we shouldnt be friends anymore.. Maybe we should just stop talking to each other and like.. never see each other or anything.. I think thats best.. If i totaly push him outta my head i cant like him anymore right? (btw he knows i love him) But im not real certain.. I cant talk to him about this.. because its about him.. and hes prolly end up saying something and hurt my feelings, not meaning to tho. But then again i want to keep being his friend. and i want to keep liking him. Cuz there is STILL this little tinsy wensy spark of hope.. Plus hes like my bestfriend.. And I tell him everything and anything and hes always there to help me out.. but i dunno.. Im just tierd of being hurt, what should i do?

well... you said he knows that you love him... so i would wait... -i know it's hard- until he breaks up with his girlfriend... then go to him and talk to him... not immediately after they break up... but soon enough.. then again... if he's one of your best friends with him right now... you might ruin the friendship if you go out with him again... maybe not. but either way... its up to you... i'm just here to give suggestions!

if you need more help... ask me anytime!

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hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx

ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever

ok. so many teens wear what the exact same clothes to fit in. they do their hair, makeup the same.. sometimes even go to buy the same shoes. also, some guys make fun of their best friends to fit in... same with girls.

if you need more... ask me anytime!

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hey everyone! ok, this is going to be so lame, but me and my friends are trying to find this one site and its' one of those website quiz things- it's the one where it says like " number 1-11" and like 'put someone of the opposite sex on #3" and then "put a song on #11" and like when you're through it'll give you the answers and will be like "the song title in #11 is what describes the opposite sex person in #3" do you know what i'm talking about? any help would be appreciated! thanks!

i don't have a website... but i'll post one on the answer.. it's only one quiz thing... but it's better than nothing!

a) Get a pen
b) Get a paper
c) Number it 1-13!
d) Answer these questions!

1. What's your favorite color out of:
A. Green
B. Blue
C. Orange
D. Black
E. Pink

2. What color is your hair?
A. Blonde/Dirty Blonde
B. Brown
C. Red
D. Black
E. Bald or any other color

3. What color are your eyes?
A. Hazel
B. Green
C. Brown
D. Blue
E. gray

4. What is your favorite sport out of:
A. Basketball
B. Cheerleading
C. Football
D. Soccer
E. Baseball

5. What's your favorite way to talk?
A. Phone
B. In Person
C. Instant Message
D. E-mail
E. Letters (Mail)

6. What is your favorite kinda music out of:
A. Rap
B. Country
C. Hard Rock
D. Pop
E. General Rock

7. Who's your favorite singer out of:
A. Ludacris
B. Tim McGraw
C. Ozzy Osbourne
D. Nsync
E. Shakira

8. What's your favorite show out of:
A. Jackass (MTV)
B. The Simpsons
C. SpongeBob SquarePants
D. Surviver
E. The Osbournes

9. What's your favorite movie out of:
A. Not Another Teen Movie
B. Joy Ride
C. I Know What You Did Last Summer
D. Forest Gump
E. Shrek

10. What month were you born?
January February March April May June July August
September October November December

11. Name a person of the opposite sex.

12. Name a person of the same sex.

13. Now make a wish! (you have to write this down or
it wont work!)

.:.-*~Answers~*-.:.


*1. Green- Fun to be around
Blue- Stylish
Orange- Funky
Black- Lonely
Pink- Sweet

*2. Blonde/Dirty Blonde- Hyper
Brown- Causal
Red- Tough
Black- Holds back feelings
Bald or any other color- Free Spirit

*3. Hazel- Out Going
Green- Happy
Brown- Loud
Blue- Cute
Gray- Unpredictable

*4. Basketball- Direct
Cheer leading- Never Gives Up
Football- Watchful
Soccer- Nice
Baseball- Loveable

*5. Phone- Busy a lot of the time
In Person- Socialable
Instant Message- A Leader
E-mail- Has a lot of friends
Letters (Mail)- Has many thoughts

*6. Rap- Friendly
Country- Cute
Hard Rock- Wild
Pop- unoriginal
General Rock- Pretty cool to hang around

*7. Ludacris- Loves to Party
Tim McGraw- Sexy
Ozzy Osbourne- Awesome
N'sync- boring
Shakira- Fun

*8. Jackass- Awesome
The Simpsons- Funny
Sponge Bob Square Pants- Cool
Surviver- Adventurous
The Osbournes- Knows how to have a great time

*9. Not Another Teen Movie- Knows who they are
Joy Ride- Cool
I Know What You Did Last Summer- Fun
Forest Gump- Has a big heart
Shrek- oRiGinaL

*10. January- Funny
February- Loveable
March- Loves to be noticed a lot
April- Easy going
May- Loves to be around a lot of people
June- Stylish
July- Rude
August- A good friend
September- Loves to flirt
October- Strict
November- Nice
December- Sweet

*11. That Person *Will* fall in *love* with you if you
pass this on

*12. This person *Will* become your enemy if you *don't*
pass this on

*13. THIS WISH *WILL* COME *TRU* IF U PASS THIS ON!

if you need more help... ask me anytime!

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I'm 13 and in my undies I find this sorta wet gooey sticky white stuff. I haven't had my first period yet. I feel this gross wetness going into my undies during the day, and i think i'm maybe getting my period. But when i go to the bathroom, its the same wet whitish stuff. What is this stuff and does it mean anything? why do i get it? help!

ok... this is just discharge.. it doesn't always mean you are getting your period. you might want to use pads if it gets really heavy though. sometimes if you get it.. you get your period... but sometimes... it just means you're maturing. don't worry... every girl gets it... and it's perfectly normal.

if you need more help.. ask me any time!

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aight im with this girl we've been together for 5 months. I really love her and care a lot about her.The last 5 months have been the best. she goes on spring break. She tells me on the phone one night while she was on spring break that she meet this girl and 2 guys. She told me that they hang out all week and they want out to eat one night and had some drinks. she told me she didn't cheat on me that these guys are just friends. She comes home and shows me pics and i see pics of her and just one guy. their were other pics of the other ppl but she was in pics huggin this guy. She told me again that they were just friends. But this guy calls her every night. Yea they live far apart but it bothers me really bad. I told her that it bothered me and she said she wouldn't talk to him anymore becasue i was more important but they next day she did. then she lied to me and tried to say it was sombody else. then i finally looked up the area code to show she was liein to me. I was hurt that she lied to me so i told her we need a break. we ended up gettin back togheter and she told me again she wouldn't answer his phone calls. but she did and she called me and told me she talked to him. But she says that im bein controling which im try not to be. I finally told her she can talk to him and do what she wants. But it bothers me and i don't know what to do.

well... first of all... you are being a little tiny bit controlling... i know you may think that she's cheating... but if you really love her.. then you might want to either talk to this guy yourself... or maybe take a permanet break from eachother if you don't want her talking to this guy.

in the pics of her and these friends that she met... you said they were hugging. ok.. i hug guy friends.. it's fine... doesn't mean anything. but... i would talk to the guy.. your girlfriend.. or just breakup... for good.

hope i helped!

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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this?

ok. so i know exactly how you feel.
i had a dog since i was like 6 and about a year or two ago we had to get rid of her because my mom had allergic reactions. anyway... i did the same thing... crying..and all that.

so, you might want to try doing more activities like sports or music or hanging out with your friends more to make it easier to let him go and stop crying over him. if you really still want a dog, promise yourself that when you're in college or out of it... you'll buy yourself one.

if this doesn't help... ask again!

hope i helped!

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You're a loser. Please stop.

ok. first of all. you must be the loser. if you have enough time to go to people's advice columns and tell them they're losers... how much time do ya have on your hands buddy?!? plus... i don't force people to ask me questions. they can ask if they want... only if they want. it's not like i go up to people and say "ask me for advice" so... find a new hobby other than telling people they're losers.

~char~

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this guyyasked me on my advise column about wat to do and his questiion was "i think i love you. what shouled i do. u dont like me. im ugly
i really want to no who it is. how do i find out??

ok. so i already talked to you about this yesterday... but i'll post what i said. so. this guy likes you. and you don't know who he is. basically as your answer put: i dont' know who you are so i won't be able to tell you if i like you or not... unless i kno who you are. because besides that... how else are you gonna find out?! wow. that kid is sorta stupid but... i hope all goes well.

Fill me in on what happens!


~char~

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Ok, so I know ppl say in 8th grade you cant be in love but.... Well there is this guy and I went out with him. But my parents made me break up with him and now theyare letting me date!!!! But he is going out with another girl. Yes he is still talking to me but... I REALLY WANT HIM BACK
My heart aches when Im talking or even around him and I dont know. And then like 2 days ago I heard his g/f talking to one of my BFF and she was saying what a perv he was and everything and she thinks she gonna break up with him. Ok so I guess here is my question. A: WHAT DO I DO. B: If they break up should I ask him or wait for him?

you sound like someone i know...
tell this guy ((let's call him bob)) that you still like him ALOT. and then check with his girlfriend about what you heard her saying... how was he being a perv? she might be making it all up... maybe not tho. if it doesn't sound like him, consult him. but don't tell him where you heard it from b/c then they might break up and you might loose a friend or two in the process. if they DO break up, wait a while... it's just nice to do that. wait at least 1 1/2 weeks. then, you can start asking around who he likes and maybe talking to him more and telling him that you like him. if he likes you too... ask him out, if you want to. if not, wait for him to ask you.

Fill me in on what happens!

~charlotte~

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hey okay so i go to sleep at 10:30 and i wake up at 6:30 but im always tired! and when i get home i usally go to sleep from 4-6 and im still extreamly tired! am i getting enough of sleep? and do you have any ways to wake up better? cuz im not good at waking up either.. HELP!

ha! you sound somewhat like me! i usually go to sleep and wake up around the same times as you. but i don't usually take naps in between. you should go to your doctor and ask him if you have a sleeping disorder where you sleep and sleep but you just don't stop being tired. if he/she says there's nothing wrong, then just try to get to bed earlier on weekdays and weekends even though you wanna stay up 'till 4 in the morning, tell your friends that you have to getmore sleep. if this affects your school day and you are not getting great grades, you might wanna stop with the late nights and go to bed around 9 on weekdays and not much later than 11 on weekends. try these and i hope it helps!

Fill me in on what happens!

~charlotte~

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Me and one of my closest friends seem to get into fights about little things. And sometimes it seems like we shouldn't be friends. How can i stop this? What's ur advice?

sorry that this is repeated but i think this is the same person:
If you still want to be friends, talk to her. I can relate it sort of because one of my friends was drifting... but we are friends again now. I just tried to sit with her at lunch, go the same places she goes, and become friends with her friends. Try doing some of these things. If it doesn't work, then she might not want to be your friend anymore. Ask her to do stuff on the weekends and if she says she can't, ask her if she really wants to be your friend still. If she says no, then don't hang out with her anymore... real friends will try to stay together forever...

Fill me in on what happens

~charlotte~

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okay. so i want to ask you for advice. but what should i ask you about? plz help me!

ok. well, what do you have problems with? if this is a girl... do you have boy problems, personal problems, family problems, or health problems that you don't want your friends or family to know about? if you ask me them, i won't know who you are and it will be completely confidential.

Fill me in on what happens!

~charlotte~

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Me and one of my VERY close friends always usually end up fighting over little things that don't matter. But it bugs me alot. One time we got so bad it seemed like being friends just wasn't a good idea. What's your advice?

If you still want to be friends, talk to her. I can relate it sort of because one of my friends was drifting... but we are friends again now. I just tried to sit with her at lunch, go the same places she goes, and become friends with her friends. Try doing some of these things. If it doesn't work, then she might not want to be your friend anymore. Ask her to do stuff on the weekends and if she says she can't, ask her if she really wants to be your friend still. If she says no, then don't hang out with her anymore... real friends will try to stay together forever...

Fill me in on what happens

~charlotte~

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