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aight im with this girl we've been together for 5 months. I really love her and care a lot about her.The last 5 months have been the best. she goes on spring break. She tells me on the phone one night while she was on spring break that she meet this girl and 2 guys. She told me that they hang out all week and they want out to eat one night and had some drinks. she told me she didn't cheat on me that these guys are just friends. She comes home and shows me pics and i see pics of her and just one guy. their were other pics of the other ppl but she was in pics huggin this guy. She told me again that they were just friends. But this guy calls her every night. Yea they live far apart but it bothers me really bad. I told her that it bothered me and she said she wouldn't talk to him anymore becasue i was more important but they next day she did. then she lied to me and tried to say it was sombody else. then i finally looked up the area code to show she was liein to me. I was hurt that she lied to me so i told her we need a break. we ended up gettin back togheter and she told me again she wouldn't answer his phone calls. but she did and she called me and told me she talked to him. But she says that im bein controling which im try not to be. I finally told her she can talk to him and do what she wants. But it bothers me and i don't know what to do.
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man i understand that ,that must be hard but really theres only three things you can do one is leave her alone and dont talk to her no more which i dont think you would want to do..the other is just put up with it and keep your feelings in which isnt good either...and the third which i think is the best is to tell her straight up exactly how you feel about the situation and why you feel that way it might be hard but if she really feels as strongly as you feel about her she'll understand and stop what she's doing...if she doesnt stop what shes doing after you explain all that to her then to tell you the truth you can do better because if she really loved you the last thing she would want to do is hurt you..now you might not want to do these things but if you dont shes gonna keep playin you like a fool because she feels as though you'll keep taking her bullshit..i hope i helped
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well... first of all... you are being a little tiny bit controlling... i know you may think that she's cheating... but if you really love her.. then you might want to either talk to this guy yourself... or maybe take a permanet break from eachother if you don't want her talking to this guy.
in the pics of her and these friends that she met... you said they were hugging. ok.. i hug guy friends.. it's fine... doesn't mean anything. but... i would talk to the guy.. your girlfriend.. or just breakup... for good.
hope i helped!
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