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I need to make a decision
Hello, my name is Bill, and I'm a 15 year old male. At my school there is a girl I like, named Courtney. I have known Courtney for a few years, and last year I started having more feelings for her. I told her I liked her, but she wasn't sure of her feelings, some people said she liked me and some people said she didn't, so I was very confused. What made it worse was Courtney and I had a fun relationship, she was really funny and was probably the best friend I had that was a girl. When she found out I liked her, she didn't feel as comfortable around me, and we didn't talk very much. Well over the summer I didn't see her much and I lost some of the feelings I had for her, but I still liked her a little bit. When we came back to school, she talked to me normally again, she was more comfortable around me and we talked a lot. I know her family and they know me, and they are very nice people. We still talk a lot and hang out, but usually in a group environment. In the past month I have started to like her very much again, but I haven't told her for fear of what happened last year will happen again. People tell me that last year was different and that she is different now. Others still tell me that she isn't sure who she likes. I know her very well and I don't want to lose my relationship with her again, but I really like her and I just want to tell her. She is a very amazing person, and I not only like her for her looks (though she is very beautiful), but I love her personality. Every time I see her I just can't help smiling. But there is the down side to telling her, please help me out on this one, I'm very confused. Thankyou very much for reading that and I look forward to hearing from you!
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awh, you seem amazingly awsome.
I'd say wait out for a dance or something (My school has dances alot) I'd ask to take her if i were you.
But for now, Id go with being her friend, some times girls when they spend enough time to with a guy, they start to like them..that may probably happen. I wouldnt tell her quite yet, stay friends forawhile.
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even though it's only been a year, she still is somewhat like she was last year. Just wait to tell her. If she thinks you like her a little bit she might do the same thing she did last year. Just be a firend to her and wait. good luck.
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Wait until there is a school dance or something going on and just ask her to go with you.
This would work on a movie too. You don't have to just say I like you, do you like me. Just ask her out and see what she says.
If for some reason she says no, just make like it isn't a big deal and continue on as friends.
Things could change in the future.
Good luck, hope she says yes. :)
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anonomous sn trick.
make a sn... something she'd never think you'd make. IM her... ask her... drill her with questions...
then... sign off randomly.
never use the sn again.
-jodie
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Hi Bill my name is Kelly,
Iv gone through the same exact situation with a guy i liked named Scott. He was confused and insecure of his feelings. Maybe Courtney just wants to keep you as a friend instead of a boyfriend figure most girls think of there best guy friends to be more like brothers. So when you told her it probably freaked her out and didnt want you liking her that way my best guy friend asked me out once and i did the same exact thing stayed away. I know she doesnt mean to hrut your feelings but if you want ask her one more time. Then if she does it again (not talk to you) call her or go to her house and ask were you kinda freaked out about my asking you to go out? you have to look how shes feeling and find out what she thinks of all of it to. I hope everything turns out ok and write back if you need anything.
~*~ Short N Punky ~*~
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Well, first of all if you have "girl" friends that are her friends, try to find out if she likes you or not. And if that doesn't work, I'd try getting her attention, maybe do a little not-so-obvious flirting.. but enough to maybe let her know that you are interested.
Then, after a little while of this, try telling her that you like her, but if she doesn't feel the same then tell her that you don't want your relationship to be any different than it was before, with the comfort level and such. =)
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