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HEARTBROKEN
Otay.. Im a good advice giver and all.. But right now i need some advice from some1 else. Okay well theres this boy i really really like.. And we used to go out but then i broke up with him .. Wanna know the reason? So do i.. I dunno.. I was just in a bad mood and he happened to tick me off and i told some1 i was thinking about taking a break and next thing i know she told me she called him and told him it was over.. So after that.. We were akward around each other for the next few months.. But now were like.. bestfriends again.. And now hes off doin his own thing with his love life.. hes already been out with another girl and he likes this girl right now.. And thats sorda my problem.. Im still crazy about this guy.. And Im SICK AND TIERD OF BEING HURT, cuz everytime he talks about her or even says her name i get upset.. And The thought of never being able to be with him again hurts just as bad.. And my problem is.. I have been thinking latly.. That maybe we shouldnt be friends anymore.. Maybe we should just stop talking to each other and like.. never see each other or anything.. I think thats best.. If i totaly push him outta my head i cant like him anymore right? (btw he knows i love him) But im not real certain.. I cant talk to him about this.. because its about him.. and hes prolly end up saying something and hurt my feelings, not meaning to tho. But then again i want to keep being his friend. and i want to keep liking him. Cuz there is STILL this little tinsy wensy spark of hope.. Plus hes like my bestfriend.. And I tell him everything and anything and hes always there to help me out.. but i dunno.. Im just tierd of being hurt, what should i do?
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well... you said he knows that you love him... so i would wait... -i know it's hard- until he breaks up with his girlfriend... then go to him and talk to him... not immediately after they break up... but soon enough.. then again... if he's one of your best friends with him right now... you might ruin the friendship if you go out with him again... maybe not. but either way... its up to you... i'm just here to give suggestions!
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Well, your full of contradicionts, you say you tell him everything, yet you dont talk to him bout your current problem. Your friend started thsi problem no t you. Your friend is an idiot and dumb for being too slow to tell him you werent breaking up, its all your fault in the end, I recommend waiting until he breaks up with this new chick and ask him out.
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Well, i've been down your road. You should tell him EXACTLY how you feel. Spill your guts! Does he know the whole story from when you "dumped" him before? Cause if not maybe that'll make him think. i dont know its hard to say, cause with every friend-to-lover-to-friend situation is different. But i think, ending your friendship with him will push him out of you eyesight. NOT out of your mind. In the end you'll end up missing him more. And you might end up regretting it. Sorry its not very good. hope it helps anywayz.
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Well, You are jealous of him and that is obvios. I think he might see that to. If yhou are bestest friends you shouldn't tare that apart right? No, matter what feeling you shouldn't brake your friendship because like with being a b.f and g.f and braking up u can't get back together well if ya do there is like 5% of that. If ya really are his friend then you shouldn't brake up that and you should like try and go out with someone that is better then him or try and maybe see a counceler and ask them what would be best...hope i helped...Chrissie
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I think you should tell him how you feel about talking to you about her, tell him how much it hurts your feelings to hear how much he likes her and what not. You should also still be friends with him, I mean from what your saying hes nice to you, its not like hes being a jerk to you, so anyways give him a chance, he may end up not liking this girl and you could possibly get back together again. i hope i helped you. good luck!
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Hey heartbroken, I feel ya!!! I have the same exact problem, trust me your not the only one who has this problem. I try and try to be this guys friend, but i feel like its pushing us apart.
So my advice to you is dont push things to hard OK if he still likes you then he'll come around and see he lost a great gurl!!! But DONT push it along trust me i went through the same thing in January.
LOVE babygurl4 (savanah)
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Well, if I were you, I would tell the guy how you feel. Tell him that you still like him alot and that you broke up with him when you were in a bad mood. If he doesn't ask you out then, just ask him out right there. If he says no, then continue to be friends, he might ask you out another time. Just keep being friends with him! Hope I Helped.
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