Member Since: January 12, 2005
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Last Update: April 16, 2005
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I was friends with this one girl for a long time. Let's call her Denise. Denise and I were friends for many years and I always thought of her as my best friend. Now this other girl- let's call her Lena- is starting to hang out more and more with Denise and I feel really left out. What do I do? (link)
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Did you try talking to your friend about this problem? Maybe you did somehting to ubset her that set her off.
neil
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Dear Niel,
My boyfriend is very "popular" among the girls, and i dont like it. It seems like at least once a week he gets asked out, as if he's not even dating me. And even some of my best friends like him. What am i sapposed to do from not getting jealous? Im just affraid someday he'll find someone better than me, and dump me for her. Then id b devestated.
Sincerlly,
Romantically Confused (link)
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Your friends are suposed to be your FRIENDS, and a FRIEND would not do that to a FRIEND. so i would tell your friends to first lay off him, tell him he's yours. Next about the him dumpin u for someone better. Maybe it was not ment to be, maybe it was, but he has been true to u so far, which is a good sign. Remember it is 6/7 grade, and it might take some time find that special person.
not niel
Neil
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I have this friend. Lets call her um RACHEL ERWIN!! okay well she says shes like my best friend and all she does is push me around and oh my she tells me im a lesbian and to go join a SPECIAL school for retards and loosers. we used to be best friends and i am starting to loose major beuty sleep over it!! I am starting to get bags and cirlcles under my eyes oh my wat shall i do???
bbye for now
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is rachel being mean to u???? who are u, e-mail me at electrical_blue@comcast.net
neil
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okay. so i have this friends. lets call her Sally. well Sally and i used to be BEST friends. but now i cant find little things that totally bother me about her. they drive me crazy! and her friends just got back from Meixco, so she is totally forgetting about me. she does't say hey in the hallways. and she doesn't talk to me anymore. but yet she is always like "Can i borrow this, can i have that" so itz like . hey your only here for me to get things off of you. what do it do! plz help (link)
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well this friend isn't really your friend than is she. She is just using you to say that she has you as a friend. I would consult her. Tell her if she dosn't stop doing what she's doing than you will not be her friend anymore because you obviously only have intrest in our friendship when its convinent for you! So say that to her. Or maybe you guys are just drifting apart in which you should say that you just can't let her borrow this or you can't let her have that. So try those things and if that dosn't work than just stop talking to her.
~neil
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i can't stop being depressed. i can't stand it anymore and if i have to take it for one moment, i think i might just kill myself. i can't do it anymore.. help me before i pull through with it. i really just don't think it's worth it anymore. (link)
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Here are some things to think about.
1. What would your parrents think? Would they blame themselves? Would they blame your friends? Would they think they were such terrible people that you killed yourself?
2. Your friends. What would they do. They would probably sit in there room and cry that you were gone. It dosn't matter if they didn't even know you. They would be devistated to hear about it.
3. Think about all you are giving up. People who recently died in that tsunami got there lives taken by mother nature. Don't take your life from yourself.
If you need additional help, e-mail me at electrical_blue@comcast.net or just talk to someone about it. and what is making you so depressed?
neil
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OK, when I was younger I had this really good friend. Then one time we got in a fight and went to the principles. My mom doesn't like my ex- friend. Let's call her Lucie. Well, I have a really good friend now and let's call her Peggy. Well Peggy has brought me and Lucie toghter and we have become really really good friends. Well, tomrrow night, Peggy invited me and Lucie to spend the night. My mom said yes. Then today, she asked who called and I said Lucie. And she was like are you friends with her. And I was like yea and we may be going to the mall on Sat. And my mom was like all uneasy. She doesn't like my new friend! What should I do?! (link)
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I would consult her imediendly. Tell her that if it is your friend than she should be able to accept it. If she won't accept 'lucie' as a friend, than ask her how she would feel if you hated one of her friends and was rude to her. Go to the mall with her. Don't let your mother control your friends.
Neil
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hey!!
ok i really like this guy and one of his friends came up to me and he was like your goin out with him ( the guy i like ) and i was like WhAT! so i dont no if im goin out with him or not i dont no what to do should i jsut pretend liek i dont no wats goin on or talk to him about it??? this is so confusing i mean i like him alot!! and i have waited for him to ask me out forever!!! so yeah what do i do beacuse what if i go up to him and talk to him about it and hes like what are you talkin about? id look like a fool!! haha so yeah plz help me im really confused
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thanks (link)
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I think that this guy likes you and you should ask him out.
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I went out with this guy last summer, but he lives in NJ, we still talk about when he was here and how we had so much fun together and he is comming down this summer also, and i told him that i dont think i could hang out with him but i really want to and he was like Why not? and i said because i might end up liking you again, and that he might not like me back and he was like well i wont have a g/f when i get down there and we ARE going to hang out. Does this mean that he will go back out with me again or not? does this mean any thing? (link)
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Look, if you really liked him that much than why did you say that too him!?!? If you feel that way about him than you should have went for it and asked him out. Just because you can't see him a lot now dosn't mean that won't change. call him up and tell him how you feel.
~The Neil
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Im going to try out for cheerleading around April or May I just need some advice on what I can do at home to become a better cheerleader...because Im going to be a flyer bc Im really light and I just need to know what kind of streches will help me thx ps I have a trampoline if you can do stunts on that thx you very much! (link)
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do a flip, judges like flips
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