okay. so i have this friends. lets call her Sally. well Sally and i used to be BEST friends. but now i cant find little things that totally bother me about her. they drive me crazy! and her friends just got back from Meixco, so she is totally forgetting about me. she does't say hey in the hallways. and she doesn't talk to me anymore. but yet she is always like "Can i borrow this, can i have that" so itz like . hey your only here for me to get things off of you. what do it do! plz help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Neildchab answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:32 pm: well this friend isn't really your friend than is she. She is just using you to say that she has you as a friend. I would consult her. Tell her if she dosn't stop doing what she's doing than you will not be her friend anymore because you obviously only have intrest in our friendship when its convinent for you! So say that to her. Or maybe you guys are just drifting apart in which you should say that you just can't let her borrow this or you can't let her have that. So try those things and if that dosn't work than just stop talking to her.
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