Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?
x0advice4y3w answered Monday December 27 2004, 9:08 pm: Yeah you can't get any STDS or diseases or anything. I guess I mean it's sorta weird in my opinion that you fingered urself, but oh well? Well that sorta happend to me wiff the 7th grade fingering thing, but I actually got fingered and nothing happend? I just regret it like crazy! Make sure you take some actuall time and think about it! I know fingering isn't far, yet it's sorta idk odd and strange for a 7th grader. And if you go along wiff it, make sure he's "clean" <3 [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
Chriso61o answered Monday December 27 2004, 12:29 pm: you cant get transmitted diseases from fingering because theres no exchange of body fluids (i.e cum/sperm) but if your going to give him head dont swollow cus one its gross and two im not sure if u can get diseases from the mouth other than herpes ....and the best way you can be safe with sex is use a condom or abstandence [ Chriso61o's advice column | Ask Chriso61o A Question ]
chica_chica_4_steve answered Saturday December 25 2004, 1:14 am: alright obviously your ready but no i unless you you have sex or oral sex your alright but if you really want to make sure just get him to clean his hands first and you wont get hurt if he takes it easy and if he is gentle so ya and if you need anymore advice feel free to ask me [ chica_chica_4_steve's advice column | Ask chica_chica_4_steve A Question ]
DarKAngel answered Friday December 24 2004, 11:22 pm: okay, you won't get STD or anytime of disease if someone fingers you but your in 7th grade there hun, and you really shouldn't be doing that type of stuff, but hey its your choice and its just my advice [ DarKAngel's advice column | Ask DarKAngel A Question ]
orphans answered Friday December 24 2004, 8:54 pm: You're in 7th grade and you're gonna let a guy finger you? Do we need to check you into the psyche ward?! If you don't understand the complications or implications that go along with fingering then you probably shouldn't be doing it, but that's just my opinion. One more thing.. If your mom found out, would you still be able to look her in the face? and sometimes things like this can lead to sex but hey, it's up to you. Just to let you know, if you do this now, you'll probably regret it later. ~Brit [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
MyPainIsReal answered Friday December 24 2004, 6:51 pm: 7th grade? And you want to do this? Hah.. you're going to regret that one but that is besides the point. I wouldn't think you all would have any disease at this age. The only way you could would to be if the guy had jacked off and still had cum/sperm on his hand and it got in you. Or if he had jacked or fingered someone else who had one which is unlikely. But he would HAVE to have an std for you to get one so I don't think you have any worries. Beings you are young, your vagina isn't fully developed so fingering could hurt if he tries to put in too many. xo [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday December 24 2004, 6:50 pm: Your in 7th grade? You shouldnt be doing stuff like that. Exspeacially if you dont know what you can get or how to prevent it. At least you are asking though thats the important thing. No you cant get STD's thats why its safier rather then going other ways and going all the way. But he may want to wash his hands because you can get a infection and have him trim his nails because that'd hurt you. And i guess you could take your own expierence for an example. Happy holidays Please Rate **trix** [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Beccers_boo answered Friday December 24 2004, 6:35 pm: yes yo ucna get hurt but no there arent any stds with fingering. If you want to make sure he clips his fingernails. i think that would probualy hurt if he didnt and be sure you really want to let him. i havent done anything like that so im just guessing. [ Beccers_boo's advice column | Ask Beccers_boo A Question ]
cheesepie1234 answered Friday December 24 2004, 5:41 pm: okay well first of all i know you have probably heard this from many people but if he does have some kind of cut or anything on his finger then that would be a problem, but i mean c'mon the guy has got 10 fingers. Im sure not all of them have cuts. and fuck everyone else telling you that your too young. its a natural thing and every one should be able to do with out a problem. unless your REALLY young. but 7th isnt even that bad. its a natural thing to do and im sure you and your boyfriend will enjoy it. and another thing, you must make sure his hands are clean before he does anything because if they are dirty or have any bacteria on them, then you could get a yeast infection, and thats just last about a week. but it sucks. there are no diseases you can get from it. be safe and have fun! i hope i helped ya out! ;-) [ cheesepie1234's advice column | Ask cheesepie1234 A Question ]
DevilChild answered Friday December 24 2004, 5:11 pm: hun you cant get STDs by getting fingered.how old are you again like 12? arent you a little younge for him to do anytihng like that to you? i woudlnt do it but if he has a cut on his finger then that could be a problem. if i were you id wait, but do what you will i wont stop you [ DevilChild's advice column | Ask DevilChild A Question ]
iNdEeD2 answered Friday December 24 2004, 4:31 pm: hon you cant get a disease ive fingered myself to and when my cousin was at the beach she had a guy finger her its not possible.
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S_C answered Friday December 24 2004, 4:26 pm: You only get diseases from it if he has AIDS or something in his blood and there's an open wound on his finger. Otherwise it's pretty much okay. How old are you, like 12? I don't know I'm just saying that because when I was in 7th grade I was 11 turning 12. But whatever. I think that's sort of young, but hey do what you please. Oh, and fingering yourself is called masturbation, a lot of people do that. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
Karen answered Friday December 24 2004, 4:06 pm: You won't get any diseases, only if he has a cut on his finger! You won't get hurt in any way, but if he scratches you, than yes, you do get hurt a little bit! Besides, you're only in 7th grade! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
diffenderfer answered Friday December 24 2004, 4:01 pm: You're in 7th grade. You're way too young. I'm in 8th, and my bf and I did it, and I regret it. There's diseases you can get, I'm just not sure of the names. [ diffenderfer's advice column | Ask diffenderfer A Question ]
danceonme answered Friday December 24 2004, 4:00 pm: Yes. There are thousands. The best thing you can have him do is wrap his finger in a condom. He might orgasm out of it and impregnate you.
(p.s. if you believed any of this, I will be sure you are in 7th grade)
Shortie8959 answered Friday December 24 2004, 3:58 pm: I don't think so. The only thing I can think of is if he has like, a cut on his finger, but I don't know. Sorry. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
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