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umm sports.. soccer.. basketball... hanging with friends... goin to the movies.. talking to my friends a lot... always helping... u know! oh female and 15
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hey care! ive been having this problem lately. there is this girl that i love hangin out with and we have a really good time together. i love going places with her to b/c she makes me laugh and we just have the best time, but theres obe problem... my dad! he hates her and thinks that im too intelligent to be hangin out with someone not smart. i mean its not her fault she has dislexia (i think i spelled that wrong) and she doesnt get all of his jokes. the other night he wouldnt let me go over to her house for no reason so he made a gay reason up. i dont kno wat to do b/c i really like her and i dont want to risk losing a good friend. help please!
thats great that your such a great friend.. just be straight forward with your dad.. tell him that you enjoy hanging out with her.. and if he wont let you hang out with someone who may not be as smart as you.. thats wrong.. and just be honest with your dad.. he shouldnt be the judge of who you hang out with if there is nothing wrong with the other person.. i think you can judge people with your own style and character.. and there is also ways to tlak to her to.. like fones and internet.. or you can just get a group of people together and all go hang out.. be creative... hope i helped :)... write back and tell me how it goes.. or if you need some more help!
It's only been about a week but my boyfriend and I never talk. We only talk online and hes usually joking around about how he wants me to give him head. I wont, and hes ok with that but he still jokes. I know im young, but hes one of my first real boyfriends. With xmas coming up, i dont wanna break up and not be able to give him his gift. i dont no wat to do to get him to actually talk to me in school and stuff like that. what should i do?
talk to him about it.. because part of having a relationship is talking... and if you cant talk to this guy... hes certainly not what you want to call a boyfriend... and i know that is harsh but a boyfriend is someone you can talk to and be with when things go bad... hes someone that you can talk to... if you cant talk to your boyfriend without kidding... then hes not the boy for you... and i had this prob with like jsut wanting a guy there... but like i found someone and i could tlak to them about ne thing and im happy... if your not happy then i wouldnt stay with him... just talk to him about it and maybe he will understand...
hope i helped love carebear
how do you become friends with someone you dont know? like how do you start up a conversation with them...and what do you talk about?...ya...you dont have to answer...its just a question :)
well to become friends with someone you have to have the courage to go up and talk to them.. like if you know them and you know what they liek... strike up a convo about it... jsut talk about stuff that you think yall mite have in common.. like if you were talking to a person who liked sports go talk to them about that.. or if you see them somewhere.. just be like hey did you go to ... i think i saw you there.. and jsut go from there but it all starts with courage... hoep i helped! Ü
well i like this guy...and i guess he sorta likes me... like a little bit... i want him to like me enough to go out with me...how do i do that? how do i tell him i like him? how do i get him to like me moore!! i need hellpp!!
okay im stuck in this situation to.. just be his friend at first.. you know get to know him.. mayb if he plays sports go see him play and you know kind of mingle and say you had a good game... get to know him and let him get to know you.. dont jsut come out and say i like you tho... it mite scare him off.. be his friend first and mayb when he gets to know you really well he will want to go out with you because your a cool person...
hope i helped
care
Okay, my friend and I (which of whom is a guy) got really close..because him and his girlfriend were arguing and fighting like crazy! And he'd talk to me ALL the time and ask how i felt about it, and what he should do. and he'd call me every night, and we'd talk for like an hour½-2 hours. He finally ended up breaking it off with his girlfriend. We've talked a little bit since then. Monday rolls along, and he doesn't call me...and hasn't called me since. So last night, i called him and mentioned how i hadn't heard from him in a while and his reply was "i've been busy" so i got off the phone and told him that i didn't want to interfere with his business. I used to really like this guy! ...and now i don't know what's going on! What should i do? advice would be awesome
breaking up with people is a hard thing to do... he just lost the one person he thought he could trust... maybe he needs some space and some room to get out of what is goin on and get away from what jsut happened... he'll go back to his normal self again eventually... mayb just hang low and just be a friend and if he needs you he'll come back or jsut wait for him to return to normal... breaking up with people is really hard to get over
theres this guy i like we'll call him "james" well hes an 8th grader and im a 7th grader..
thing is i dunno if he knows who i am or not we were in detention together but i dont think he remembers or anything...and also i want him to know i like him but i dont just wanna come out of nowhere n have ppl tellin him i like him and him not know me
so what im askin is how can i go up to him and start a conversation w/o him freakin out bcuz he doesnt know me and how can i drop hints that i like him??
thanx a bunch!!
okay well my friend had a kind of similer thing goin.. like she saw this guy on a cruise and then she saw him at our school... and she wanted to know who he was... well just be like.. were you in detention like so so days ago... and if he says yes just like introduce yourself or say like ive seen you around school and i jsut wanted to be polite and say something... or something like that... i hope i helped.. just dont say nething that you mite regret or jsut like if you know a friend that knows him just get caught hanging out with her when yall go and talk to him!
There is a girl at school at she is really comfortable around the guy I like. They are like best friends and I'm friends with him too but not like she is. Sometimes I get sort of insecure around him and act weird. If I didn't like him, obviously, it would be so much easier for me to talk to him and be myself. The only place I'm really okay talking to him is online. Do you have any advice for me to "open up" more? He even said, since I told my two best friends they were being mean to me, that I could hang out with him and his friends.
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when your around him personally.. dont think about how you like him and stuff.. just be calm and jsut know that he is your friend and play it cool... i always just keep the talking to a minimum and make sure i dont say nething really bad and embarassing... just stay with a group of people and just be open.. i have this problem aroudn the guy i like... just talk you dont have to try to show off to him
I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please
do what your heart tells you to do... sometimes your parents may not always be right.. and you should always go with what your heart tells you... if you believe that yall should be together dont let everyone else tell you what you should do... your parents shouldnt tell you who to see and who not to.. he may have a bad side but there is always a good side and that is what you see..