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well...there's this guy
Okay, my friend and I (which of whom is a guy) got really close..because him and his girlfriend were arguing and fighting like crazy! And he'd talk to me ALL the time and ask how i felt about it, and what he should do. and he'd call me every night, and we'd talk for like an hour½-2 hours. He finally ended up breaking it off with his girlfriend. We've talked a little bit since then. Monday rolls along, and he doesn't call me...and hasn't called me since. So last night, i called him and mentioned how i hadn't heard from him in a while and his reply was "i've been busy" so i got off the phone and told him that i didn't want to interfere with his business. I used to really like this guy! ...and now i don't know what's going on! What should i do? advice would be awesome<3
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Well he may have a lot on his mind if he just broke up with his girlfriend. Just give him time and let him know ull always be there when he needs you. Im sure its nothing against you!
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breaking up with people is a hard thing to do... he just lost the one person he thought he could trust... maybe he needs some space and some room to get out of what is goin on and get away from what jsut happened... he'll go back to his normal self again eventually... mayb just hang low and just be a friend and if he needs you he'll come back or jsut wait for him to return to normal... breaking up with people is really hard to get over
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well I think he just needs some room to work his feelings out.. because during this time after he broke up with his gf.. he is feeling very vulnerable.. so just give him some room and he'll get back to normal
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let him kno you have feelings for him and was wondering why he stoped calling.....tell him you thought it ws really nice talking to him on the phone...then if he says it's another grl then say oh well you dont wanna to get in his way....but you wanted to let him kno if he free.
hope i helped
~ash~
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mk well lets see i think you shuold let him knoe u had or have feelings for him and u want to knoe wats going on and you dont wanna stop talking to him that way you will knoe and maybe him and his girlfriend got back and are spending time and you dont wanna interfere but let him knoe how you feel hope i helped =) keep me updated!
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hey may be withdrawing because of his loss of girlfriend. he probly needs a friend, and some time alone to get recooperated. dont push him to much, but tell him that you are there for him 100%. dont try to be his girlfriend, cause thats not what he needs - at all! he probly just needs some time to think, and figure out what he is gonna do now.
-FunnyCide
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you shouldnt worry about it. just be happy for him. be glad that he is now out doing something that will take his mind of this chic and not sitting at home on the couch wanting to kill himself over her. i am sure that everything will work out between you two. i dont see a problem here. let him live his life for a little while and then in a couple of weeks mabe like 2-3 weeks of not hearing from himjust call him up and let him know you just wanted to say hi and see how things were going. it no big. you got nothing to worry your self over.
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