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Hi,
Well thers this guy that i like and i know that he likes me. I see him only im the summers b/c i go to Dominican Republic. This is my 3rd summer seein him. The past 2 i have told him that i have a boyfriend(it was a lie) but that didnt seem to stop him from kissing me and tellin me he loved me. Now this summer im here again but he has a girl and i fave a man bakk in Florida. What i want to do is play hard to get and tease him a bit, just to make him want me evenmore. Can you help me plz. Thanx

well mayb you should just play by the rules and wait!! but dont make it seem like ur there 4 just the rebound... bt stick with what you hav got and hope for the best!!!

hope this helped
4eva urz ashley!!

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My husband wants to go visit his family at xmas...we have 3 year old twins and I said that it was ok for him to take them with him.

The problem is one: We really don't have the money for all of us to go.
And two: I will have a new 4 month old baby and don't want to go because i don't like his family and i would also like the opportunity to bond with my new son.

He says that he will take the baby whether I like it or not...Is he able to do that????

no he is not able to do that... at least not with out your consent... and if you really dont want to go ask him to go next xmas when the baby is a little bit older.. you could also tell him that you want to spend the baby's first xmas as a family alone with your twins and him and the baby... and there is always a solution that his family could visit you guys... but im almost positive he isnt allowed to take your baby away without your consent and i (think) and i am not sure that it is even legal for him to take your baby away like that.

~hope this has helped~
**ash**

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I just got a new boyfriend and he is my guy friends best friend, what should i do if they find out i go out with their best friend?
~ Confused sexy chicka~

Dear Confused sexy chicka,
well as long as they are friends it shouldnt matter!! but if it comes down to them getting mad at eachother, and you can't make a descion on which you choose to keep happy then drop both of them... because if they arent mature enough to get along and drop it then they cant be worth your time!! and if that doesnt work just stay friends and only friends with both!!!

~hope this helped~
*ashley*

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hey, ( comma 5)you have not have had any one ask a question in a while so i decided to send you one well, ( also comma 5) here you go: What do you do when you want to ask a question butyou don't have a question?
~ Corny Girl ( aka Parick's wifey)~
Tip: this is from the girl who wrote the last question posted on your site he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he KEEP READING he he he he he he he ha

ok well you do wat you juss did!! laugh out loud!!! the only reason i typed it like that is because it says im talking in chat talk!! but wat ever!!! and patrick deff aint yourz he is all mine!!!

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Dear Ashley, it feels one of my best friends and I have drifted apart, and I have been replaced by another person who I don't have a very high opinion of. Anyways her attitudde is changing and I know she be a better friend and person then the way my replacment is influencing her. What should do let our friendship die,hope this blows over soon or do something? Even if I did do something what would I do?

- one less friend :-(

i think you should stay in contact with her and hope for the best. you should see if her attitude changes also. and it might not be that she has been influenced by those people. it might just b that you 2 hav different interests now. and ur growning apart. but if its gettin to a point where ur friend isn't tallorable anymore then i would probably forget about it. but just wait a while talk it out anf see what happens!

hope this helped
~ash~

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i am 13 years old an have two really good friends. One of my friends asked me and my other good friend over. we both could go so we were excited. but that day my good friend got invited to go somewhere else and told me and the girl whos house we were going to she couldnt come. She said she was leaving people out. And she had told the girl whos house we were going to she couldnt go. I think she should have come. And i need to talk to her about it. What do i say?

just ask her why she didnt go. then tell her to tell you stright foreward if something went worng. if ur not sure whether she's tellin the truth or not then u gotta go with your gut, if you got a bad feelin that she's not tellin you then tell her you think she's not tellin the truth, and if your still not sure then just forget it because if she was your true friend she would tell you the truth! and if she's just not ready to tell you then she'll tell you when she's ready! but you might even want to forget the whole thing because it might just cause more drama*


hope this helped
~ash~

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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

that is a really coo idea you should tell our mom any aamount will help. im sure every1 down there would appreciate it more than you could ever imagine so send it because first you could be starten the new year off right! and doin somethin 2 help

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What do you if you have a crush on your really good friend's X.

~same name friend(Again)~

i kno i shouldnt say ask your friends permission but just ask her if she's gonna have a problem with it and if she'll still wanna b friends with u after it. then id go 4 it. if its her X im sure she doesnt hav feelings 4 him but if she does then wait a lil bit and try it.


hope this helped
~ash~

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What do you do if you have a crush on your friend's boyfriend and he was supposed to be yours in the first place? ( Neither one of us has seen him before,but we have good emotional relationship)

~disstressed sista~

well i dont think its worth loosin a friend ova a boy u havent seen. and even though you do have a good emotional relationship its still not enough 2 loose a friend. so i'd say just keep talkin 2 him and talk to your friend about it. just dont let ur friendship go to waste ova a boy.

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Okay, my friend and I (which of whom is a guy) got really close..because him and his girlfriend were arguing and fighting like crazy! And he'd talk to me ALL the time and ask how i felt about it, and what he should do. and he'd call me every night, and we'd talk for like an hour½-2 hours. He finally ended up breaking it off with his girlfriend. We've talked a little bit since then. Monday rolls along, and he doesn't call me...and hasn't called me since. So last night, i called him and mentioned how i hadn't heard from him in a while and his reply was "i've been busy" so i got off the phone and told him that i didn't want to interfere with his business. I used to really like this guy! ...and now i don't know what's going on! What should i do? advice would be awesome

let him kno you have feelings for him and was wondering why he stoped calling.....tell him you thought it ws really nice talking to him on the phone...then if he says it's another grl then say oh well you dont wanna to get in his way....but you wanted to let him kno if he free.


hope i helped
~ash~

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Ok I have a guy i like and who likes me or so my friend says. All 3 of us were in 3rd period and she sits nect to him and asked him if he liked me and he said yea sort of. then she asked him would you ever go out wit her he said i dont really know her. I am SoOo Shy and i dont know how to talk to him cause i dont know what to say to him and i guess hes shy too cause he doesnt really talk to anyone. So how do i start a conversation with him?! Like some tips!! HELP! I'LL RATE YOU HIGH!

Just go up to him and say hey, and just say like how are things goin, try to say somethings that let you know more about him. like what do you like to do for fun......even put a lil flirting in it.....let him kno he can be himslef around you and your a lil shy yourself.......ask him if he wants to walk to class with you or something....i'm shy too but this has worked on many guys in the past.... so just go for it he's probably more shy then you are just think of t that way.

hope i helped
~ash~

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hey i'm goin out with this boy named Orlando and we've been goin out for about 2 months and 2 weeks and i liked him alot for those 2 months but now im not sure if i do anymore...whenever we hang out its like we're friends, not more than that. I've had my friend Chris try to like tell him that i want to hold his hand and stuff and it still doesnt help. i'd get embarassed if i tried to talk to him so i'm not gonna try and talk to him. I kinda want to dump him because if we dont act like we're goin out and we just act like we're friends then i dont see a point in goin out...but i dont know how to tell him. i dont want every one to run up to me after i do it and say "omg you dumped him? why?" and "i cant believe you dumped him!!" and all that stuff...i'd feel totally bad. What should i do? dump him? and if i do dump him how should i say it?

i think if your not in to him anymore then let him down easy.....but still tell him exactly how you feel about the situation, and how you don't the real bf/gf relationship you only see the friendship.......but don't just say i dont wanna be with you.....and if ppl get in your face about it then just say it's between you and him and then tell them you had your reasons. and if he wants to tell them he will, but your not.

that should keep them away

hope it helps
~ash~

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I go to school and everyone at school always pushes me into lockers and throghs stuff at me. When i walk to class people always starr at me like im a freak. But people do call me freak.People like to trip me and i get jumped every once and a while. I remember some kids grabbed me and threw me into my locker and lock it until i stop saying anything or yeilling. I remember along time ago i was walkin at school and some people jumped my for my shoes. I never saw those shoes again. I was very upset cuz i never saw those shoes again. And then some guy came up to me and broke me pencil. After that i started to have to use crayons, colored pencils, markers, and highliters to do homework and take notes in class
I need a soulution..fast pleez
~troubled person~

Tell a teacher or an adult. let them know this is happening to you.....now i'm not saying you should have the fight your battles, but i'm saying you should give the names of the students so the know who has done this. Just be careful and don't bring valuable things to school.


hope it gets better
~ash~

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OK...i play a sport and they just came up with this polocy that you have 2 have at 75% or higher to play your sport. and i think it is that smart cuz last season, alot of people who played sport should have been sittin out...and they think that we will only focuz on sports and not skool..
wat do u think bout his and wat should i do

Just try to keep your grades high, work as hard as you can and make sure your diligent in your work. see if you can get extra credit somehow and work to the best of your ability. just work hard and im sure you'll be eligable...

hope i helped
~ash~

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What do you do if you have a crush on your church's piano player? (he is a little older me)

-struck by the music

well i would get to know him,i mean the side that he would show to his girlfriend. make sure he's not out of your range either. see for some1 like me my range is 14. then find out if he is looking for a girlfriend too! becuz if he's not then you'll make yourself look sorta bad. do some things around him so he notices you, then at the same time look to see if he's interested in you. and i've learned that if you look into his eyes while he's talking to you, check to see if his pupils get bigger. it's a natural thing if the person is into you then it will automatically do happen. but if it doesn't happen then maybe he's just not interested. and depending on who he is and how well you know eachother, could change his opinion of you, and you could be more apealing to him though he's older than you.

HOPE I HELPED

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~ash~

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Hi its me again do you think it is ok that i dumped my old boyfriend to go out with the 6th grader my boyfriend really liked me but i did not exactly feel the same way Was i correct to do what i did?
-same name friend (what up? other ashley)

i think it was fine, if you didn't feel the same way it was better of you to break up with him and lie to him and say you still love him. it's not if your right its more of your emotions and which you want more. if you felt that it just wasn't working out then i think it was honest that you broke up with him and didn't 2-time him, like most people would do (not sayin you would or anything). i don't think he could hate you for being honest either!


hope its what u needed
~same name friend~

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One of my friends is mad at me for something small i want to call her and talk it out but she probaly wont listen What should i do
-friend baffled

just let her kno face 2 face and tell her that you thought it was really stupid for her to get mad at you for whatever it was. tell her your sorry for whatever it was and would like to put that behind you and move on.

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Dear Ashley, i am an 8th grader do you think it is ok if i go out with a 6th grader ( he is so fine)

i think if you really like him go for it. if you like him, then don't worry about what other people will think of you. if you have something between you two, then don't let others opinions break that. go for it, hope it works out

~*!hope i helped!*~

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hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
x x x

let him go. i dont think that you should have to deal with some1 who lied to you on more than 1 account. if he ignores you when he told you he wanted to be really good friends with you then he odviously isn't for. and since he lied to you about being your boyfriend then he just isn't for you.

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i have been with my boyfreind off and on kinda of for 8 months, i wanted to take a break becuase like i felt like he was holding me back from things i wanted to do, like he always wnated to knoe where i was or what i was doing and always aummesed things like he had no trust in me or sumthing. but during the break i tlaked to afew other guys and i felt likle happy talking to them and didnt wanan go back, but he keeps like sucking me backinto the relasitship bcuz he knows he kan, becuase i still care for him way to much and hes all in love with me and stuff and woukdnt never do ne thing againt me, i duno its jus hard, becuase im the one thats confused i could jus go right back into the relatsihip and b the sameold way but i think i want something new, hs the first guy ive ever relaly made out with kind of my first everything, so i odnt kno ne thing other then him so is kind of hard when alot of other guys want to like hang out or somethingand i want to but i cant knopwing i sitll have him, i duno im jus really confused !

well if your ready for something new, then let him go. even though he's the only thing you know, i doubt he's gonna be the only thing you know for the rest of your life. so you have to get out and experience new things. and dont fall for being suckered into a relationship. if you dont want to be in the relationship just tell him that it's over and your tired of your heart being broken.

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