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confused
hey i'm goin out with this boy named Orlando and we've been goin out for about 2 months and 2 weeks and i liked him alot for those 2 months but now im not sure if i do anymore...whenever we hang out its like we're friends, not more than that. I've had my friend Chris try to like tell him that i want to hold his hand and stuff and it still doesnt help. i'd get embarassed if i tried to talk to him so i'm not gonna try and talk to him. I kinda want to dump him because if we dont act like we're goin out and we just act like we're friends then i dont see a point in goin out...but i dont know how to tell him. i dont want every one to run up to me after i do it and say "omg you dumped him? why?" and "i cant believe you dumped him!!" and all that stuff...i'd feel totally bad. What should i do? dump him? and if i do dump him how should i say it?
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U should dump him and just go and say i am dummping you and don't say it to yourhead befor you say it just go out and say is it an dthen he will come cralling back
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its because the relationship is "old"
think about how you are going to feel when you break up. and think about who you are gonna do stuff with that you did with him, i mean like movies, mall, ect, not the actual mush stuff. just think about that.
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Dump him..... and say I dont like you like that anymore, I hope that a cow jumps over a moon... thats when I would go out with you again.
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i think if your not in to him anymore then let him down easy.....but still tell him exactly how you feel about the situation, and how you don't the real bf/gf relationship you only see the friendship.......but don't just say i dont wanna be with you.....and if ppl get in your face about it then just say it's between you and him and then tell them you had your reasons. and if he wants to tell them he will, but your not.
that should keep them away
hope it helps
~ash~
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if you like him...don't break up with him...when yall are hanging out you just need to get the nerve up and grab his hand. if he's dating you, he should WANT that..maybe he's just too shy. he'd be so impressed if you just made the move so go for that! if you don't like him, and do plan on breaking up with him. tell him that you feel better as friends and when you hang out...you don't feel like a couple.
♥,
heather
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I think you should dump him. If you dont like him you should not go out with him if you dont like him anymore. Some things you can say to break up with him are:
"this is not working out between us, i hope we can be friends" or "i dont think we should go out anymore, hopefully we can be friends" stuff like that.
good luck!!
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