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i am 13 years old an have two really good friends. One of my friends asked me and my other good friend over. we both could go so we were excited. but that day my good friend got invited to go somewhere else and told me and the girl whos house we were going to she couldnt come. She said she was leaving people out. And she had told the girl whos house we were going to she couldnt go. I think she should have come. And i need to talk to her about it. What do i say?
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just ask her why she didnt go. then tell her to tell you stright foreward if something went worng. if ur not sure whether she's tellin the truth or not then u gotta go with your gut, if you got a bad feelin that she's not tellin you then tell her you think she's not tellin the truth, and if your still not sure then just forget it because if she was your true friend she would tell you the truth! and if she's just not ready to tell you then she'll tell you when she's ready! but you might even want to forget the whole thing because it might just cause more drama*
hope this helped
~ash~
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Ask her why she couldnt come..and if the only reason is to be w/ her other friends then well theres nothing you can do about it becuz she has other frens and its not only you and that girl whos house she didnt go to. Let it go..its not like she did something wrong even though u think she should of gone..i guess she wanted to go to her other frens house that time but maybe next time she wont cancel on you.
xoxo
~becca~
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Get your friend alone and be honest with her. Tell her that you were hurt by her actions and that you felt that she should have been upfront with her plans. Be kind in how you talk to her but let her know how you feel. Let her explain why she did this and how she feels about it. Be open to compromise. As you grow older the characteristics of most friendships change so unfortunately this is to be expected. However, open communication often prevents problems. Best Wishes!
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Well, ask her why she went to her other friends house. Thats all you could really do..and if she says like "Because I wanted to hang out with them" then you need to let it go. Everyone has different friends, your not her only friend.
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