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what should i do?
I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please
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go behind your parensts backs and say your just friends-SIMPLE
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Talk to your parens about how its unfair to you that you cant be around him, and ask them if he can come over for dinner and hang out with your family and see what they think of him. You have to understand where your parents are coming from though, if there's a age difference then that might be one of there biggest concerns. But talk to your parents about letting him come over to see waht they think of him
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well.. this is sneaky but.. u can't help true love.. BE WITH HIM.. i'm sure you can think of ways to hang out with him without your parents knowing.. it might be hard but.. its love.. you can still talk to eachother on the phone.. its YOUR parents that won't let you talk to him.. so you can still call him.. just don't let him call you.. and if he wants to call you.. tell him to dial *67 when he calls your house because it makes his number private.. go over to your friends houses on the weekends.. and invite him over there or something.. babe.. i hope things work out for you.. this is the reason i don't tell my parents when i have a boyfriend.. even when i ask if i can have him over.. i still don't tell them he's my man.. lol.. I am a sneeky little girl though!!
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Sit down with your parents and calmly talk to them about it. If you explain to them that you love each other and convince them that he's good for you, they might change their mind. If they persist in saying no, then you may have to wait until you're 18 to continue your relationship.
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Well i would say jusr give it time. Time heals. If its meant to be it'll happen. It doesnt seem like u have much say in this situation or you cant really do any thing. Your parents are doing what they think is best for you and i can see their view.Just take it day by day and things will be okay...hope i helped
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well wut i would do is go out secretly where only ure closest friends no and as far as talkin on the fone and goin lk to the movies or sumthin u could call him at ure friends house and tell ure parents tht ure at ure friends or with ure friends somewhere and meet him there.tht way hopefully ure parents won't find out and the only way they would is if more than lk 5 ppl knew....i hOpE iT wOrKs OuT!!
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wow that seems somewhat like the way it is with me and my boyfreind. my parents dont like when i talk to him. they dont let me talk to him or see him that much! sometimes parents just dont understand! I think that maybe your parents should get to know him, and see how good he is, and see how happy he makes you, sometimes parents are afraid to let go i dont know, but theyre wierd like that, but they could also just be trying to help, maybe they see something that you dont, or maybe they are just scared of letting go. maybe you should have your parents meet him and his parents, and then maybe things will go better, you will probably be allowed more privleges slowly, but hey, it may work!
sure hope that this helps! good luck!
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have a "secret relationship" haha its actually kind of risky but hot at the same time... no thats to risky... and alot of people hate lying to their parents... i would talk to your parents and ask them specifically why you can't even talk to him? maybe its something sHadY going on... so talk to them and ask them wHy? have they met this boy? maybe their judging him... so ask if he can come over for dinner... (no nasty remarks allowed!) good luck hUn!
xOxO, aLeX
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this is hard b/c it involves parents. parents make our lives hard, but they set boundries and rules that are for our own good. your parents probly dont want you to be with this guy b/c he faught sometimes. if you believe that he is the love of your life, talk to your parents about it; maybe even get your parents to talk to his parents. respect your parents wishes, maybe if you are mature about it they will let you see him.
-FunnyCide
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do what your heart tells you to do... sometimes your parents may not always be right.. and you should always go with what your heart tells you... if you believe that yall should be together dont let everyone else tell you what you should do... your parents shouldnt tell you who to see and who not to.. he may have a bad side but there is always a good side and that is what you see..
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screw your parents.. ya know, its not that hard to climb out of a window...
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