my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?
JJbaYbe answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:34 pm: well u can tell if u can trust them if they tell u otha ppls secrets. like if they tell u who 1 o their otha friends like n they make u swear u wont say anythin then u probly cant trust them [ JJbaYbe's advice column | Ask JJbaYbe A Question ]
lyDia_LoU answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:54 pm: You just need to be able to trust the person. If they ask you and you feel like you don't know them well enough just say "Oh, well nobody right now. What about you?" That way you can begin to build a trust by keeping their secrets, maybe? Lol hope i helped!
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UWishUHadMyHemi answered Friday November 19 2004, 8:55 pm: first of all, if you dont trust them, then how good of a friend can they be?
i dunno when you can trust them..you just have to know that they are your friends and they wouldnt do anything to intentionally hurt you.
and so what if they tell people?? thats half the fun, talking about your crush with your friends. what other purpose is there for "girl talk"?
cbears976 answered Friday November 19 2004, 8:26 pm: You never know when you can trust them.What you should do is tell them and if they tell other people then you know that you can't trust them. [ cbears976's advice column | Ask cbears976 A Question ]
KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:55 pm: thats hard 2 answer. it just depends on ur friends history. whenever u want 2 tell someone somethin private, ask urself if they have ever broken a promise or told a secret. if u answered yes 2 one of those questions then i would recommend not tellin them anything. dont wanna take a chance. hope i helped ya! [ KiLLeROnDaCourT's advice column | Ask KiLLeROnDaCourT A Question ]
Adrz answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:35 pm: If theyre a real friend, you shouldnt even have to worry about them telling other people =) [ Adrz's advice column | Ask Adrz A Question ]
helping_you answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:25 pm: What I do is I make up saying I like Joe or w/e (someone that no one would ever even think) , and then wait a little and see if it's repeated. If someone comes up to you and says "Do you like Joe?" then you know it would've been repeated [ helping_you's advice column | Ask helping_you A Question ]
confusedbabii answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:16 pm: if you have told them something personal before and they have told other people then they are not to be trusted with this type of information. if the person has gone behind your back before, then i would suggest you don't tell them that stuff. hope i helped!
cutiepie12335 answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:12 pm: if their your true friends, they wont tell anyone, but make sure you imply it, because sometimes it some seem to come out that , "oh i didnt know i wasnt sapsto tell" so tell them, but tell them to keep their trap shut [ cutiepie12335's advice column | Ask cutiepie12335 A Question ]
babygrl24 answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:51 pm: One way to know if ur friends are really trustful is to look back and see if they had done something like that to another friend.Also you could see how well do you know them and how often do you guys interact(phone,school,ect.). [ babygrl24's advice column | Ask babygrl24 A Question ]
buckems answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:18 pm: i trust probly 10 people on this earth! And even then you cant be for sure. Dont trust any one completly! every girl i have known has told me girls are back stabers so i dont know! [ buckems's advice column | Ask buckems A Question ]
HunniBunni answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:14 pm: My friends do that a lot, but I know I can trust them bcuz, when I really need them they come, but you don't have to tell every single one of your friends who you like, it's personal and it gives you a sense of security like only you know it, but you shouldn't tell them if you don't want to. If you have to hesitate to tell them who you like don't do it becuz if there a goof friend then no hesitation should come what so ever [ HunniBunni's advice column | Ask HunniBunni A Question ]
MedicatedSanity answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:14 pm: I thought I could... but my friends ended up lying and talking about me behind my back. Really... you have to ask their friends, their enemies, and neutral people what they think... and whether or not they think your friends can keep a secret. [ MedicatedSanity's advice column | Ask MedicatedSanity A Question ]
bulldawgfan141 answered Friday November 19 2004, 4:57 pm: if they have been ur friend for a long time and u have told them personal stuff in the past and they havent told any1 then i think u should tell them. but make sure that no1 nosy is around
from, Jonathan
sunshine1030 answered Friday November 19 2004, 4:44 pm: if they're your friends, you should be able to trust them no matter what. but if you have any doubt, maybe you just don't know them well enough, or maybe you need to find new friends who you can trust. you will know when you can trust your friends when you don't have to ask that question. [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
KrAzZi_x0x_KrIz answered Friday November 19 2004, 4:30 pm: well since that other girl gave you a bitchy answer ill try to help you out...well if you don't want them to keep asking you this then tell them that...but if it doesn't work then tell them that its not their buisness and they should live their own lives [ KrAzZi_x0x_KrIz's advice column | Ask KrAzZi_x0x_KrIz A Question ]
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